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hey babes ♥i can help you with anything from boys and fashion to eating disorders! trust me! iv probably been throught it or my friends have!
so dont be afraid to ask! btw im an expert on fashion//make-up//hair! esp. Preppy!
later lovelies ♥
btw this isnt my first site...iv had one before so do think im like new at this stuff!!♥
1 RULE:
I DONT LEAVE MEAN ADVICE-SO DONT LEAVE BITCHY FEEDBACK!
you follow that and we will be alright!
advice
this girl i like, i found out she had a boyfriend recently. should i just give up? should i wait maybe they will break up? or should i make a move, maybe she will go for me instead 8*). or should i just be friends and juss in the future maybe it happens it happens. thanks
from a girls point of view - DONT GiVE UP!!
just be friends with her now and be there for her whenever her and her boyfriend are over. and i think its really annoying when guys flirt with me when i have a boyfriend because thats to me them screaming in my face "IM DESPERATE!" so just be friends with her and what happens, happens!
i hope i helped
Jess
16/f
Ok, so I met this boy this summer. Actually he just IM'ed me one night because he somehow got my screename from one of his/my friends. We talked for a few nights and then it was a few months until we started talking again, but we really seemed to get along well. He is a senior at my school and plays football and so I could never be with him on game nights really so we went to the JV football games to hang out and we had a lot of fun. Anyway, I started to really like him.. a lot. So of course, I let some of my friends know.. and one of them ended up telling him without asking me. And I was SOO mad at first soo I talked to him to get it all settled out.. and I just told him how stupid I felt about me liking him after us having such a short relationship, but he told me that he really did like me too. So we talked on and off for a few weeks and then he ended up going back out with his old girlfriend.. I was devestated and SO confused about it all. For the next month or two, whenever I would see him, we would talk for a little and go our seperate ways. And now, about 2 months later, they are still together, but are having problems. I notice him at school and we always catch each other staring at eachother but I dont even know what to think of it anymore. I've tried so hard to just get over it, telling myself I deserve better, but no matter what I do, I always come back to him.
Any advice on what I should do?
hmm..i have almost the same problem..but anyway...i think that you will just have to wait untill they sort out there problems and just hope that they will break up and he will go out with you. Him staring at you all the time..that kind of a good sign! all i can say is wait!
i hope i helped!
♥Jess
I have been dating this boy and as we were walking along when suddenly he grabbed me and started kissing me. He caught me so off guard I messed up the kiss leading to him getting spit over my mouth and to make things worse I said ew. I was so emarassed and i think he was too, which is the worse thing that could of happened.(I have talked him bout that acident which is sorted now I think) That was my first time kissing someone so I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to spot when someone is about to kiss you and some pointers on kissing to help me avoid embarissing myself again.
will rate high for good answers
thank you xxx
here are some random facts!::
People with crooked teeth usually KiSS BETTER than people with straight teeth ..
When you chew gum before you kiss,, it actually makes your breath SMELL WORSE than before because of your salivary glands Mints work MUCH better.
BE A GREAT KiSSER W/ THESE TiPS
-- T0UCH THEIR FACE
-- RUN Y0UR FiNGERS THR0UGH THEIR HAiR
-- KiSS S0FTLY AT FiRST, THEN APPLY M0RE PRESSURE
--
H0LD THEM...
it shows you want them near you.
kissing is healthy
89% of guys want YOU to make the 1st move
Ya but 99.99% of girls want guys to make the first move
Kissing Language (yup, it's a language)
if a kiss is the Language of Love,
then we have a lot to talk about it...
methods of Love....
+kiss on the ear--------------------"i'm horny"
+kiss on the cheek-----------------"we're friends"
+kiss on the hand------------------"i adore you"
+kiss on the neck-------------------"we belong together"
+kiss on the shoulder--------------"i want you"
+kiss on the lips---------------------"i love you" or "i want you"
+holding hands-----------------------"we can learn to love each other"
+a wink---------------------------------"Let's get it on"
+slap on the butt---------------------"thats mine"
+playing with the ear----------------"i can't live without you"
+holding on tight---------------------"don't let go"
+looking into each other's eyes---"let's get romantic"
+playing with hair on head---------------"tell me you love me"
+arms around the waist -----------"i love you too much to let go"
+laughing while kissing-----------"i am completley comfortable w/you"
=advice=
***if you're kissing someone, close your eyes. it's not nice to stare...
i copied and pasted all this stuff.. I HOPE I HELPED!!
are there significant meanings in the way a guys honds your hands.. like if he always wants to have interlacing fingers ...doesn that mean something ?
and is there amy sites that cant tell you the meanings of this stuff...like he always kisses my neck..what does that mean ?
thanks !!
by the way im 16 female
thanks
ill rate for good answers!
kiss on the neck means "we belong together"
here are some random facts!::
People with crooked teeth usually KiSS BETTER than people with straight teeth ..
When you chew gum before you kiss,, it actually makes your breath SMELL WORSE than before because of your salivary glands Mints work MUCH better.
BE A GREAT KiSSER W/ THESE TiPS
-- T0UCH THEIR FACE
-- RUN Y0UR FiNGERS THR0UGH THEIR HAiR
-- KiSS S0FTLY AT FiRST, THEN APPLY M0RE PRESSURE
--
H0LD THEM...
it shows you want them near you.
kissing is healthy
89% of guys want YOU to make the 1st move
Ya but 99.99% of girls want guys to make the first move
Kissing Language (yup, it's a language)
if a kiss is the Language of Love,
then we have a lot to talk about it...
methods of Love....
+kiss on the ear--------------------"i'm horny"
+kiss on the cheek-----------------"we're friends"
+kiss on the hand------------------"i adore you"
+kiss on the neck-------------------"we belong together"
+kiss on the shoulder--------------"i want you"
+kiss on the lips---------------------"i love you" or "i want you"
+holding hands-----------------------"we can learn to love each other"
+a wink---------------------------------"Let's get it on"
+slap on the butt---------------------"thats mine"
+playing with the ear----------------"i can't live without you"
+holding on tight---------------------"don't let go"
+looking into each other's eyes---"let's get romantic"
+playing with hair on head---------------"tell me you love me"
+arms around the waist -----------"i love you too much to let go"
+laughing while kissing-----------"i am completley comfortable w/you"
=advice=
***if you're kissing someone, close your eyes. it's not nice to stare...
i copied and pasted all this stuff.. I HOPE I HELPED!!
female 13
Okay I asked a question like two days ago about how to get some one make a move. The advice I recived was that I had to make the first move. So I've been thinking about this and how can I do this without looking like an idoit? And is it even okay for girls to make the first move? Do guys perfer when they do it? eh I'm hopless.
actually most guys want the girl to make the first move but they end up making the first move anyway.
well in sixth grade i was a complete loser, i mean ugh i had really curly hair and wore it in a bun, and i wore big clothes. like i didnt even care. and i liked this guy A LOT. his name was david, and like he didnt like me at all. and he hated me in seventh grade. and we havent seen eachother in a year. untill saturday night. and when he saw me. he kept looking at me. and like we cuddled or whatever. and he said he liked me. but like i dunno. sixth grade was weird for both of us. and ive changed A LOT since then. and i just wanna know should i give it a chance?
of course!
you have changed alot!
forget and forgive the things in the past!
good luck with him!
♥Jess
hi my name is jess i recently broke up with my b.f tony and wel he went to a party like a week after we broke up and hooked up with a friend of mine. i still like him and i cried when i heard what happened. i cnt take it anymore. how can i get over him. please help me ill rate 5's
--jess
i would go out and flirt with a bunch of other guys..but thats just me! im such a flirt! but shopping helps me get over guys and such alot. just talk to your friends about it and find a new guy and totally start over! it will feel kinda refreshing like a new start!
i hope i helped!
good luck with him!
♥Jess
I've never thought that I flirt that much. But apparently the rest of the world thinks so. I hear it from friends, family, and even my boyfriend! They all tell me that I'm the biggest flirt alive. I can't help it because I think that it's just me being friendly. Well some people have a problem with how "friendly" I am but I don't know how to fix it. When I do flirt, I really don't notice it and it's not like I have a bell in my head that rings whenever I am to remind me. So, any idea on how I can back down on the flirting?
I AM THE SAME EXACT WAY!!! my friends and family tell me that all the time!!! i know what you mean when you say you dont realize when you do it! i would just say try to hang out with your friends when you are with a guy or something. try not to ... touch him or anything like that. haha! i know its hard. get your friends to tell you when your flirting then maybe that will remind you to stop.
i hope i helped!
rate!*
♥ Jess
My brother & I are close (He's 21, I'm 17) His guy friends are my friends. Since I'm 4 years younger, I'll always have the label of his little sister to all the guys. I've started to really like his best friend and we always flirt/play around. I don't act like I'm this little schoolgirl with a crush & his best friend treats me as if I'm at his level. My brother would approve if a relationship started. How do I get rid of that label as being the untouchable 'little' sister?
i think the only way to get rid of the label is to go out w/ that guy you are talkin about that you always flirt with! good luck with him!
hope i helped!
rate high!*
♥Jess
Okay…..^_^ this might take a while. Well, at camp, on the second day of the time we were there, Abby and I were sitting on a loveseat during this camp activity thing. Everyone was told that they had to sit in the middle, (which is where we were sitting) So, Mikey gets up from the back and looks around for a place to sit. He looks straight at me and sits down INBETWEEN me and abby. We are sitting there, and my heart was kinda pounding. Anyway, he starts to poke my leg…. and so of course I had to poke him back. So we went on like that for awhile. And then he laid his hand on my leg for like 5 seconds and smirked at me…. almost like a challenge…>.> so I had to do it back of course. So then, we went on like that forEVER and it was almost like the nervous game but I stopped. And then I elbowed him in the side, and it was funny!
Okay! NEXT DAY! WOOOOO…Okay, I was in crafts with abby and kirstie and Marissa. And Mikey was in Ping-Pong, which is in the same room. Then I finished my craft, and he had lost at ping-pong. I walked past him to go talk too abby and he stops me. He’s all….”sit on my lap” and I was all…O_O no! and then he was all…. Please? And I said, No, cause I’m not a slut. So he asked me to sit on the arm of the chair. So I did for like a minute. But then my butt started to ache so I got up and moved into the chair next to him. Then he started to show off, and he rocked back and forth in the chair he was sitting in, and flipped it backwards on purpose. He was sitting like that for a while, but then he was uncomfortable, cause he couldn’t get up. So he asked me to help him. So I tried…. for like 2 seconds, but got bored so I gave up. Then he was whining and whining and stuff. Then he stopped and looked at me and was all, “hold my hand…” And I was all “._.;;;;;” But I did, ^_^ and then he said that I had really soft hands which made me laugh. Then abby and kirstie helped him get the chair up, but he wouldn’t let go of my hand.
THEN, , we had swimming. I went down to the pool, but I didn’t know he was going to be there, and I didn’t want to swim cause I had my cloths on, and I had my period. BUT, he kept threating to push me in and I didn’t wanna get wet so I sat next to the lifeguard. The lifeguard was all, “If you touch her and push her in then I’ll get pushed in to and I WOULD NOT be happy…*glare*” (cause she was holding my hand so he couldn’t get me.) ^_^ Heehee, anyway, so he just stood over me and dripped water on me, and splashed me, AND HE WAS SHIRTLESS! …*Drool* but then I got bored so I wen’t and put my legs into the water in the shallow end with kirstie, and It was nice and we were sitting there and I was all ahhhhh. But of course, he had to come over. So he walks over in all his wet shirtless glory and is holding a Frisbee. He dips the Frisbee under that water and all the sudden splashes me. I sat there very quietly, and he said…”You can hit me if you want…” and I was all…”I’m not going to hit you…. *and then I jumped in the water fully clothed* I’M GOING TO KILL YOOOU!” Lets just say he ran away like a little girl, lol.
Then since my group was with his for the next activity which was ultimate Frisbee, he pretended to be sick and sat on the sidelines and watched kirstie and me. We were doing handstands and stuff and it was fun. After that, we were walking back past the rec hall, and he ran up out of no-where and just grabbed my hand. It was like…*Mikey appears out of no-where* *snatch’s hand* I got very scared, but I let him hold it! ^_^;;;, then some random kid was all, “Hey Mikey! Is that your new girlfriend!” and I looked at Mikey and went “EWWWWWWWWWWW” and walked away. ^_^ Heehee, oopsie? Then after that, there was just random flirting and him throwing stuff at me and being adorable, and stuff
Then when we got back home and stuff, kirstie randomly asked him why he kept hitting on me at camp, and he said its cause he likes me!
Okay,my quistion is, do you think he likes me, and i'm wondering if i should date him, cause he is in rehab right now....and after camp he made out with some other girl. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!?!
hmm...i think he likes you. but i think hes one of those guys that likes alot of girls one after another that has no problem getting over a girl. you should go out with him IF YOU LIKE HIM! but he sounds like a dork to me =) no offense ♥ sometimes it makes it a little easier to answer questions if you put your age on here =)
i hope i helped!
rate high!*
♥Jess
what are some ways to heal a broken heaart? i mean ive had my heart broken twice this week...whhat are some things you do to help? dont say lyke someone else cause its lyke a cycle here...ill rate 5's unless its mean!
get yourself a pick me up...my friend whenever shes sad she goes out and gets some coffee at her favorite coffee place (java divine). go shoppping...that relieves a lot of broken hearts for me and my friends. just go blow all your money at your favorite store ♥
hope i helped!
rate high!*
♥Jess
i really really really like this guy in my global, gym and study hall classes he always glances or stares at me but ive never really had an acutall conversation just shot backs how do i get him to ask me out/like me?
i would say flirt! flirt! flirt!
Message me for more on the flirting if ya want! i can go into detail! im a BIG flirter! thats how i get my guys
but if you arent that type of girl... then i would say try to make small talk with him in the hall or during your free time.
try to stand out of the crowd (in a good way--like showing off--just not too much)
i hope i helped!
rate high!*
♥ Jess
Ok. I'm going to this party tongith and the guy I like is gonna be there. My friend likes him to...we are definetly gonna play spin the bottle.
What the heck should I do!!!!!!
all i can say is just FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT baby