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E-mail: bitemerawr@live.com
Gender: Female
Location: brazil, MIAMI
Occupation: highschool
Age: 16
AIM: notoriouslstar
Member Since: July 11, 2009
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Last Update: September 5, 2009
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I really liked this kid, a whole lot. We both liked each other, but no move was made to do take our relationship further than just "friends". So he moved on, and I'm still upset over what could have been. I know he doesn't care, because he likes someone else who likes them. Its extremely awkward because I see him every time I go to my friends house, and we both get that weird feeling of old-like. I'm positive he doesn't like me anymore though. So, I want to move on really bad. How do i get rid of him in my head? How did you move on from someone ? Every been in this situation? What did you do? Please, I find it hard to like anyone else now, Thanks everyone :(.

16/f
-Unrequited. (link)
Hey ,

I know its heartbreaking , ive had that feeling
before and I hate it, to me it seems like
a good memory that couldve happend that went to waste.
But , listen I know obviously you've
tried to possibly forget about him in every single way you possibly could and also avoid him.
Whenever you go to your friends house make sure
he wont be there so you can avoid bumping into him unexpectedly, always be alert.
One thing guys always like is a Strong Independent
Woman. If you know he doesnt like you then why sweat it, right? Its hard ... it takes timee
but the time depends on you.
Always know that theres more fellas out there,
some willing to kill to be in a relationship...So think about that. but its always best to have him as a friend then nothing more ;]

Oh by the way, a trick i learned though is that YOUR BRAIN is what sends signals to the rest of your body sooo you just got to let your brain know wassup.
For example , tell yourself hes just a friend ..
a meere boy that used to like you and missed out
on what he couldve had but lost it, life goes on
maybe someday in the future something can happen but til then Im going to Stay strong and move on.

- Msunbelievable



Do people with braces on their teeth normally kiss? If so, is there any difference from those who don't have braces? Especially French kissing.

My ex girl and I are likely to make up in a few days from now. She recently got braces, and I wonder if it will be normal for us to be kissing, now that she has braces :-) (link)
hmmmmmm, well it might be hard
for her to qet used to them and all
but you can be the one to help her with that.
It wont be long til she gets used to them
really. Ive never had braces , I dont need them
but from others I've heard when you get them
it hurts sooo... If i were you id probably
stick to just popping for a little while
until her mouth feels better but
make sure you ask her if shes down to makeout
before you do it.


MSunbelievable


I met this guy last semester and I developed a crush on him, but I thought he saw me as just a friend. We accidentally ran into eachother a few weeks ago, and got to talking and we both admitted to liking eachother the whole semester. We started "dating" and I found out he's looking for something serious and has become overly eager and wants to call/text all the time. I don't want a serious relationship but I like him and want to hang out. I told him that and he seemed to accept it but continues to act like I'm his girlfriend. How can I draw the line and get him to realize that he needs to backoff and relax? I admitted I'm a sort of a commitmentphobe, but he thinks he's seriously going to change my mind! (21/F) (link)
wow , i can see hes on you
I suggest you tell him straight up,
maybe theres some things you do that lead him
into thinking hes got a chance , so avoid that.
try ignoring him alittle but not much ,
its a small world and you never know, if you know
what I mean .
try being less of yourself around him maybe that
will help him get over you.
what always works for me is " small talk "
if he texts or calls saying hey babe how are you
you simply reply using the one word technique
such as " ok " or " str8 "

hope it helps


- MSunbelievable


any time i like a guy at all, the closer we start getting to each other i automatically become unattracted to him for no reason at all. even if he is my type and there's nothing wrong with him and he's really sweet to me and he likes me a lot, i become unattracted to him the closer we get.

why does this happen and how to i stop being like this?!?!?! (link)
I understand you , and must agree
that its you not him.
I relate with you in this topic alot.
sometimes you believe the guy is just too good
for you and you just dont know why and you seem to let go of it because youre confused and start
questioning yourself thus making him unatractive
because maybe your not looking for somebody so perfect, because it doesnt exist
" PERFECTION IS FLAW "
or maybe your smarter than you think and
you know theres something about "that guy"
that turns you off

well ....... somehow i know this might sound
all confusing but think about it.


- MSunbelievable


16/f
Well me and this guy had a 3 month relationship that ended in may. We still like eachother so we want to try to date again. We talked really good for a long while. Then all of a sudden he is acting different and not talking to me as much. I don't get it. He says he wants to date really bad and he really really likes me. But why won't he text me as much? Now he says he's just busy all the time. Well apperently he wasn't that busy before. Help? (link)
I understand him because I sortof tend
to be exactly like that, guys hate it as well as girls do.
its either 3 of the following hes confused
because hes probably afraid he might get hurt
or in some way hurt you.
hes actually not as "ready" as he said he was
to date you and is having second doubts.
or the sad truth behind it may be he is talking
to somebody else.
But if hes the honest kind , he might actually be busy trying to keep himself busy with life.

you should probably confront him ,
ask him if he really wants to start dating again
and if he admits he doesnt or admits hes not ready
yet, dont be a bad sport and stick around as a friend or a best friend cause one way or another
hes going to realize hes always going to have u
to talk to and be there.
;) most times this eventually always helps for future make-ups.



- MSunbelievable




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