what do guys 16-20 really look for in a girl? (please try to be specific as possible not just like good looks.. good personality)
please only answer this if you fall into that catogory!
most of them look forward to sex! but very few of them would like a girl that likes the things that they like.
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I'm not that used to doing this kind of stuff so pardon me if this is kind of strange. Alright so this girl and I have known eachother since the summer when she came over to babysit my younger sisters. This summer we spent everyday with one another hanging out and stuff. (Im also a sophmore in high school & shes in 8th grade so shes just 2 years younger than me). Now that school has started for us and since we dont go to the same schools we barley see one another anymore. Though at the end of the summer I told her how I felt about her and that I really liked her and she said she felt the same way. Though now a few monthes later here we are, my feelings have grown stronger for her but she says she doesnt like me anymore and never will again. Im so confused about where I stand and she tells me to move on and like someone else but I cant. For a few weeks she was all I dreamnt about and I feel so strongly about her.. I'm not sure whats going on. Is this some kind of test for her? Why is she saying this stuff to me... I feel so stupid for falling for a youger girl and making such a big deal about this. I need advice, so please help me out.
first i would ask have you done something wrong you think!!! or did you give her space at all. you could have gotten on her nerves later or she start liking someone else or she was just saying she liked you because you were saying it. i do that all the time to my boyfriend like say he says something that doesn't interest me at all but i still love him to death do us part.
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I'm 13/f and I really like one of my guy friends. He usually acts like he likes me. I hug people alot but when I normally hug guys they just put their arms around my neck, but he's the only guy who puts his arms around my waist. He's hugged me like that about 3 or 4 times(the only times I hugged him). Does he like me as more than a friend? Thanks, I rate high!
sure i think thatz a sign of likings do you think so! but watch out especially when he's not with you and check and see if you're the only one he hugs like that because if he hugs other females like that or males(kidding) thatz a sign he doesn't like you as much as you think. i hope i helped alot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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my bf and i started going out on dec 31. i went to my bestfriend's house later on that day to have a sleepover, but my bestfriend got mad cause he called my cellphone and she started asking me why i gave him my number. then she started calling me a whore and slut because i went out with "19652" guys (i only went out with 4 including my current bf). then, she asked me why i didn't tell her that i liked him and she started to accuse me of pretending to like him when i liked him months ago (i never tell her who i like because she would always give me an attitude). then i had to hang up on him. the next day, i didn't get to talk to my bf cause i knew my bestfriend would get mad. i finally talked to him online when i got home, but he didn't sound as happy or close as he used to. he used to joke around, but he barely even talks now.
why does my best friend get so angry whenever i like a guy?
is my bf just being shy, uncomfortable, or is he mad or something?
she is jealous thatz all to it she isn't really a best friend not even a friend
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Greg & I used to be best friends. And bf/gf. Then we broke up 9 months later. (A few weeks ago.) I'd love to still be friends with him but he acts like he hates me. I'm really upset because now he's going out with my other best friend, Amy, who SWORE she didn't like him as more than a friend and lied millions of times about how she couldn't imagine dating him, etc. I don't know who I'm more upset with. My traitor/backstabber 'friend' or my ex-boyfriend/ex-best friend who ditched me (after 9 great months of being close) for my stupid friend. She is all over him in front of me and he is all over her. It rips me in two. They've both forsaken me for each other. I want to die. Now I don't have any friends and it kills me to see them together. I love Greg so much and this hurts so bad. I have no idea what to do. I hate this. I wish they didn't like each other or something. It destroys me and they know it and they don't care. Greg & I used to mean everything to each other.I don't understand what happened. I don't really know for sure what my question is, but I need some kind of advice to keep me from killing myself over this. Sometime besides, "you'll get over it" because NO, I WON'T get over it. Not when it's there in front of me practically all day taunting me. I constantly want to cry. I hate my 'friend' and I feel like hating Greg too but it's impossible because I still love him with my entire heart. And NO, I can't make new friends because I go to an extremely small school & I'm far from interested in bonding with any of the people around here. HELP!
you have low self esteem im sure greg isn't the big news around town he aint the finest in the or around the bin he couldn't because he don't look betta than mine just kidding! but yo ex friend is a slut gotta because if she wuz a real girl scout or friend she wouldn't do that. ill go crazy couldn't be me because both of em' would get they ass told off. something wuz goin on behind the blinds or curtains while you wuz dating this dude becuz they wouldn't be talking this day so miss thing already had him behind yo back. you feelin sorry for you dont gurl go find you a new one who likes you not miss adopted slut fest of america. you walkin round wit yo feelings on yo back sayin you still love him gurl go on. youll neva eva make it through life i understand youre hurt all so bad but don't you be hurt make one or both of them hurt, im not sayin you go fight them wit both of them you maynot come out on top but hurt them with how you act because you lacking around thatz what they want they want you to hurt they want you to be in pain so youre basically saying theve won!!!! on no gurl no they didn't
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ok. this is my new years resolution
i will not, under any circumstance, try to contact him. i wont IM him, i wont EMAIL him, i wont call him, comment him or anything. he is still a friend but our friendship lies in his hands now. he wanted "space" so im giving it to him. ok so theres this guy and we hadnt talked in like several days and i was completely in love with him. ok so thats why thats my resolution cause i just want to be over him. so today my friend calls me and says brian wants me to call him. and of course im excited. but then at the same time. im like wtcrap why do i have to call him? if he cared he would call me. but in a way i want soo bad to call him. but i dont want to get hurt again. ok so heres the question. i dont want to break my new years resolutionbut i also want so bad to call him. and i know if i call him it will proably just leave to another heartbreak. but if i dont, i know what ill be missing out on. so what should i do?
you know what i like you if he really cared he would call you don't call him that way the truth would come out and that way you wouldn't break your new years resolution. if he don't call thow it up and keep on goin' youll make it with out him i know you can do it!!!!
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I have liked this boy off and on for about 3 years. The thing is he lives in another state, i see him almost every holiday because he is my neighbors nephew. We were going to date until we got into an argument and he called me some horrible names. I really like him again but i dont know if he likes me, he kept staring at me at my neighbors new years party but im really confused. Whats your advice??
if he really liked you he wouldn't call you horrible names you feel me come on if he liked you really youll would still be together in a distance
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i am an 18 year old female. i have been on and off with this guy for three years and have had very good and some bad times...right now we are not going out, but we act like it. we are not seeing others and spend tons of time together. i love him and he used to love me but now he says he is confused about what love is. he doesnt want to go out and i dont understand how the title and how we are now are different. he might be going away for the summer. he is not seeing other people so i am wondering if anyone could explain maybe where he is coming from and if there is something i am not realizing or anything...thanks
no flaming feelings but do you actually believe hes not seeing anyone else. think about it no no no no no that is not true babe go fine you someone else if he is cofused then you are confused i betcha he aint the finest in yo town!!!
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Ok i'll make this breif i like this guy and i thought he liked me to at least it seemed like he did he called me after i gave him my number and he asked me out, i said yes of course, but all of a sudden he stopped calling me and when i saw him the next time he said he had lost his phone and my number and he asked for my number again. i gave to him we resheculed our date he called again like 4 times, but then he stopped calling again and i dont know what this guy is thinking does he like me or no? any advise, or input will be greatly appreciated thanks
tell you tha real thing he has someone else i know! im so sorry.
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I like this one guy, & he flirts with me. But he is also a huge flirt with other girls. [ He has alot of girl friends] & Everytime he says something sweet to me, I fall harder for him.Does he like me ,or is he just being nice?
I know this may sound stupid, but advice would be nice
SWEET, SWEET BABY, POOR BABY NO!!!!!! he doesn't like you, i hope i didn't hurt your feelings but thatz the truth if he really liked you he would only flirt with you dont get me wrong he may like you but not just you others too. im sorry just real!!!!!!
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