Heyy it's dorkothy! I'm not new at this at all. All my friends come to me for advice and yes, I give great advice. So come to me with anything. I'm ready for ya!!
Website: dorkothy
E-mail: DoryRose@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: W. Yarmouth
Occupation: hm...student?
Age: 13
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Member Since: January 2, 2006
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Ok well, there is this kid. I kind of like him. And he't not one of those kids a lot of people like. I kinda wanna tell him but I'm afraid things will be REALLY different with him. Especially because he's, I guess you could say, not the biggest person of liking girls. That and I'm also kind of afraid of telling my friends. One of my friends liked him last year but I kind of thought it was funny. That was because I didn't know him. Now I do and I'm afraid that if I tell my friends, they will laugh or something. EVERYTIME I tell them who I like, they laugh. It makes me feel bad about myself sometimes. I just don't know what to do. Help...? (link)
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If they are your friends..they will understand PERIOD. No BUTTS about it. If u are able to call them friends..then they will understand. go for it. and if they make fun of you...tell them that it hurts and that it is your decision, because it is. Don't be affraid to tell your friends something they shouold know about their friend who they love.
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i'm in love w/ my best friends boyfriend. He's really sweet and everything and idk. She doesn't treat him right either. She's always checking out other guys and is all over different boys. He hates that but he doesnt want to break up with her. It seems like at sometimes they really like each other but i dont know. =\ (link)
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oy. wow. That is a hard one :-/ maybe you should talk to your friend and tell her that she isn't treating him right. But maybe she isn't flirting with other guys. She may be really good friends with guys. I have a boyfriend and I always hang out with other guys. But he doesn't mind because i ask him for permission. Maybe you are looking at this wrong. as for the in love with him thing...thts an ut oh :-/ maybe u can wait till they are over...middle school relationships NORMALLY don't last forever :-p
dorkothy
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ok....so my best friend is now becoming friends with all these other girls...and i dont mind that, but since then, shes just....kind leaves me out of everythinggg....she only talks to me in school and wer used to talk on the phone almost everyday..and we dont even talk on IM...and wen we talk in school, she only talks about all her other friends..and we NEVER do anything together anymore..she ONLY goes out with those girls..i dunno...i guess i might be jealous but im not sure =\...its just that shes leaving me out of everyythinggg..and i feel like shes the only real friend that i have...so now i basicly stay home....i never go out anywhere..i feel like icant make any other friends or sumthin like that....help me pleaseeee (link)
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You can make any friends you want. Talk to her about it. I felt the same way with one of my friends. I talked to her about it and at first she got mad at me. But then she realized that we had grown apart and that it just wansn't the same without me. So we hang out all the time and stuff and yes..she hangs out with all those other people still..but she asks me to tag along now. awesome..right?
--Dorkothy
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ok i have a problem there is alot going on in my family right now and tht is making me kinda depressed. but then when i a already fealing realy bad. alot of ppl tht are my so caled friends
start saying stuff to me wich makes it way worse so i feel even worse. but then i try o go to sum of my clese friends to make me feel better and only a few can help but this problem keeps on hapening daily (link)
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ok. i rlly dnt kno how to answer this...IM me if u can and we can talk about details and stuff. i wnt ask ur name and everything you say to me is confidential. I'll be praying for you
--Dorkothy
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Ok so mi friend is always being mean to me and i wanna say " I don't wanna be your friend anymore" but if I do say that then she would say OK and then the next day asks for me back. What should I do? (link)
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Ok. I had the same situation and I didn't want to say that because she would just come back crying to me after a few days. You should talk to her and tell her that you REALLY do not want to be friends. If she says ok, then that is very good. It is easier on you. If she starts to have a fit...just walk away. If she trys to bother you and ask you back tell her that it is 'over' and that you guys aren't friends any more. It will be hard, but you don't want to be stuck with this forever now, do you?
--Dorkothy
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Ok so a friend and i are fighting. i don't know HOW to stop it all. please giveme advice on how to talk to him and not fight!! (link)
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Ok maybe you should give eachother space for a little while. Let each of you cool down and then bring it up CALMLY. and try your hardest not to yell at all. If you guys start to fight point out that you just want to stay calm and help fix all this. If this doesn't work, come back and tell me and I'll come up with something else :-)
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