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Hi..I am the typical girl ( age 23) confused by a guy:S There was this guy I was seeing for about a month. We hung out a few times as friends (met through a friend) and then we went out one night to a club and ended up together the whole night..dancing and then he kissed me and was holding my hand. So anyways we left the club and went back to his house to eat takeout. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex. I tried not to and he stopped a couple times because he said it was up to me but I couldn't resist the urge sp I told him to keep going. I don't usually do that type of thing but I hadn't had sex for 4 months and couldn't help myself:S Anyways I figured okay this is it. I just ruined the friend thing..even though we only knew eachother about a month. But after he wanted me to cuddle up with him the whole night and we fell asleep like that. He set his alarm for me because I had to get up early and then I went home the next day. A couple days later he called me to hang out again. So we ended up going out for about a month, we never had sex every time we hung out but when we did have sex we'd have it at least 2 times that night. Finally after a week of me calling and him not having time to hang out or whatever I gave up..Then a couple weeks later my friend met him in a club and he asked her why I stopped calling him..He said he thought we had a good thing going. :SShe asked why he had stopped calling me. He said he lost my number because he used to just use the caller ID and call me back when I had called. So anyways I ended up running into him again later that week and we chatted and he asked me to call so after a couple days I figured why not. So that night we went out and hung out with his friends, then got fast food and ate it at his house. Then he wanted me to stay because it was late and I told him I wasn't having sex with him that night. So he said that was ok..we'd just cuddle and go to sleep. So that's what we did. We cuddled up together and talked until I fell asleep..
I am soo confused because he never used to call me much ..I used to have to call him.Now he wants to go out again and I don't know what to do. Does he just want to have sex with me?? Because we both admitted that it was great when we did.
I just need to know what your opinion on how he might be feeling is?
Thanks I would really appreciate it
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i think you should give this guy a chance, he could just want to be with you, but the only person you can really ask is him and get the answer. I think you should go out with him, and make it clear to him you dont want to have sex with him, and if thats the reason he wants to be with you then he should just give up and stop trying because its not what you want. I hope i helped, and leave sumthing in my inbox sumtime and tell me how things went. Hope i helped
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okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me? (link)
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dont listen to what some of these people are saying. Just because your pregnant at 15 doesnt meen your going to end up on the streets or anything. my sister got pregnant when she was 15 and kept the baby, she is doing very well right now and she has a job, im glad she doesnt believe in abortion because life would be so much diffrent with out my niece. I hope you do keep the child and that your parents let you, but if not then i hope you wont regret it forever. also this is a very important matter so you should sit your parents down and tell them and then have them drive you to the fathers house so you can talk with him and his parents. I wish you luck,
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Ok...me and this guy have been talking/hanging out everyday for the past like 5 months...i have been staying the night at his house n everything, and we have done stuff with each other...hes the perfect guy, i get along with like is whole family! and i really really like this guy n he has told me how he has liked me alot...how can i get him to notice that i would like to go out with him? (link)
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i think you should just tell him straight up that you like him and want to go out with him, but if youre not bold enough to do that then you should write him a note and leave it on/next to his bed telling him how you feel about him and tell him that you want to go out with him because you think he is perfect for you. I hope things work out for you, and i hope i helped.
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Okay,so me and this guy have been together for about 10 months, and he is completely faithful to me, like he doesn't even talk to other girls hardly ever, and he never hangs out with any other girls but me. But the other night he went to a party last minute and was completely wasted, and girls showed up and one locked him into a bedroom with her and started coming onto him, they ended up having sex. I found out about this a few days later, and he completely regrets it and he siad he had really no clue what was really going on that it went fast. we broke up, but we sitll talks and he says he wants nothing more than to be with me.. and like hes not even that kind of guy.he's not forceful, aggressive, or anything in that naturee if u know what i mean? and i mean we really had something speciall and i dont know what to do.. just let him go or try and makes thigns work? what do u think
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personally i think that you shouldnt go out with him again, i was in the same situation as you back in feburary, i was totally in love with this guy who i was with for almost 11 months, he was a sweet, cute, and romatic guy. and then he went to a party, got drunk, and had sex with this girl, he had a choice not to but he did, unfortunatly i still trusted him and he once again cheated on me, but this time he was completly sober, so my honest opionion is once a cheater, always a cheater, i dont think you should take that risk, its just going to hurt you
i hope i helped u...
if you need anymore help with this or want to talk more then IM me, xcx cort xcx
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Ok i need help there is this girl in my school that i like but i am afraid to ask her out because we are really good friends and i dont want to ruin our friendship please help me out. (link)
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me and my boyfriend's 9 month is on feb.4th and for 2 years before we started dating me and him were bestfriends... i think if you ask her out and try hard to make the relationship work then it will turn out fine... just look at me and my boyfriend... hope i helped *Courtney*
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I wrote a question about the guy i saw a while ago and got many great anwsers... alright I went to see him and he gentally grabbed my hand and started rubbing my thumb you know how they do that when you holding hands, we layed down a watched a movie. We were just cuddling. When the movie was over I went out into the living room and he came out there and started talking to me... he told me that he really never meant to hurt me and he will never do it again. I was scared when he told me he loved me and didn't say it back.. he told me to call him but I am too scared. Should I call him and if I do what do I talk to him about.. I need advice before I pick up the phone and dial his number... please help I can honestly say I love this guy... do you think he loves me?
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If you really truley think you love this guy then you should call him and get some answers to what your asking us because he can answer wether he loves u or not better then anyone else. Just talk to him about your relationship and see how things go from there... I hope i helped!*Court*
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