Hey there i'm sydney. I love to act, dance when nobody is watching, paly tons of sports, obssesed with the computer, LOVE to shop, and most importantly hang w/ all my friends.
Have any comments/ concerns/ questions...leave it to me!
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Well, 2day my friends decided to tell the guy that i like that i like him, and it totally screwed everything up, because i wanted to do it myself!
Also, he told them that he didnt like me at the momment, so, what the hell is at the momment suposed to mean?
I totally hate myself right now, and feel totally worthless!
Hev (link)
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Hey there Hev, Maybe at the moment means that he didn't like you right then and there at that time of day. Maybe he was having a bad day and didn't want to be bothered with that stuff. He might really like you but didn't like you then.
You might have a great chance. Just go with the flow.
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hey i got this problem of getting crushes on boys very fast, i tell everyone that hes my boyfriend but he really isnt lol. dats not da whole problem. I really like dis guy but i dont know how to tell if he likes me too, hes 15 and is da sweetest guy ive aver met. Please help and tell me how to tell him i like him and want to meet up with him.
luv ya all
katy (link)
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Well katy, just tell him what your heart desires and that you really like him...you also need to tell your friends da truth and not lie abuot that he is ur bf when he really isn't
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ok for starters i am mostly an idiot when it comes to relationships....with that out of the way i only recently realized that i needed to really like a girl to be with her for an extended period of time.....for the longest time i was horribly put down by people (females included) and i was basically made to think i am ugly and no girl is gonna want me....so for years now ive just felt lucky to GET girlfriends even though i know i can....and ive hardly been focusing on myself finding qualities in them that i like...problem is its hard for a person like me to find a realistic girl that i can like.....most that seemingly fit this category are taken or consider themselves "not my type".......i wanna know how i would go about making them realize that just cuz i like supposedly "dark" music and wear predominantly black and leather, that i may have some things in common with them and stand a chance with them...im a high school senior that will be 18 in a week or 2 (if that helps much)...if anyone at all answers this id be happy and rate you well. (link)
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Well, you should talk to them and tell them all the things that you LOVE so maybe you and her can have a amazing conversation that you both have in commen. Tell her that she should give you the chance becuase on the outside you might be ugly or something but really on the inside you are a great person and want to get to know this person alot.
Good Luck
Sydney
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I met this one guy around this time last year through my best friend. He lives about 4/5 hours away but I'm seriously really in love with this kid A LOT. We only went out for like 2 months but I just can't forget about him, but now we started talking again & he always gets my hopes up by saying "time will show everything" or like "I know everything" last week he called me at like 2am & he was all sweet talking ; plus he does have a girlfriend who hates me SO MUCH. She always acts like he can't keep in contact with me when he really does, after that phone call he called couple more times & we haven't talked till like saturday or friday but I'm so in love with this kid I'd do anything for him and I've waiting a year but I'd even wait 10 years.
So what should I do? He's not the type of guy that would lie. (link)
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Tell the guy that you love that if he really loves you and dosn't love his girlfriend he would brake up with her for you. If he loves you and his girlfriend tell him that he should tell his real girlfriend the truth and that he has been calling you and talking to you when his girlfriend dosn't want him to. You never know maybe she will even break up with and then he will be all yours. LUCK can happen.
Sydney
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SORRY ITS LONG!!! PLEASE ANSWER THOUGH!!!
My friends are really starting to bother me. They write notes to each other all the time and dont show them to me because they say i wouldnt understand. The notes are about guys they like. And in them they say that they are in love with them. They havent even talked to these guys before, but they say that they love them. And its not true of course!!! I know it isnt! Its not like i dont believe that you can fall in love young, because i do, but i know they arent in love considering that ALL of my friends claim that they are in love and that they are in love with multiple guys who most of them, they havent even talked to before.
So how is it that all of my friends can "be in love" with multiple guys theyve never talked to?
it isnt possible right? so how do i tell them this without hurting their feelings or sounding rude, im the bistandard here so i can see what theyre talking about for the truth, and not from hormones making them think theyre in love. how do i make them realize this though? (link)
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You should really just tell them what is on ur mind. Tell the what you are thinking about. Tell them that you think that they can't be inlove with someone when they never even met them before. Tell them that you want the best for them and that you don't want to see them get put down becuase the guy that they love dosn't like them. Also tell them that if they were your true friend they would show you who they are in love with becuase friends can trust other friends and if they can't trust you then they really arn't your friend.
Sydney
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Here's the DL.
I went to this wild party,
got really wasted,
hooked up with this guy that goes to my school,
and now everyone at school knows.
But see, that wouldn't be bad,
if only the kid were cute/funny/popular/etc.
He's the exact opposite.
He's ugly/creepy/weird/dork/no friends/etc.
I'm embarassed, but how should I play off the situation? (link)
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Just tell the guy and everybody else the truth. If you tell him that you don't like him and what really happened at the party he will forget about you. THE TRUTH WILL SET YOU FREE!!
Good Luck
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Hey,I was wondering since my boyfriend talks about cars and I know abosolutley nothing about cars what can I talk about with him on that subject so I won't feel dumb? (link)
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You should get the magazine called Atuo Mobile, change the subject. You can look through there and study all the things that he likes so the next time he talks about cars again you will be ready. Don't you have anything to talk about with him? Any intrests or concerns. Change the subject to something that you can both enjoy.
Sincerly,
Sydney
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14/f I have been with my boyfriend since January. Whenever we go out, I can never eat in front of him. For instance, when we go to six flags together, I usually don't get anything to eat, just something to drink. Same with movies, mall, what have you.
Well. In about a month, we have a Semi-Formal dance coming up at school. This dance includes a catered dinner before they open the dance floor.
I'm afraid to eat in front of my boyfriend. I'm perfectly fine in front of most friends and whatnot, but I'm not the skinniest girl in the world so I think thats probably why I'm shy about eating.
Its not that I think my boyfriend won't accept me or something, because I know he's not at all like that -- but I still won't eat when I'm with him.
What can I do to resolve this problem?
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It is very very unhealthy to not eat. Your boyfriend is your boyfriend he is going out with you becuase he accepts you from who you are. If he dosn't accept you from who you are he must not really be your boyfriend. You need to show him the real side of you and what you really are like. If you don't want to listen to my advice follow what your heart tells you.
~Sydney
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