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I have a new boyfriend, and I actually think I'm in love with him. But I never get to see him, and he doesn't have a car so I always have to go pick him up for whatever we do (that's just getting annoying). The problem is I thought I might have still had feelings for my ex, so I started talking to him again and it turns out he's still totally in love with me ( I don't love him though, just kinda like him). And I see my ex all the time and he can come over when ever I want. He's always there when I need him to be. While my new bf can't be. And I have no idea what to do. Should I just cut it off with both of them for a while to get my head cleared? _(link)

In order to be in a good relationship ya'll need to be able to see each other.You shouldn't have to go and get him all the time.

I would keep talking to my ex and see what happens but I would break it off with the bf you have now.He's not being a good bf he should be trying to come and see you, but instead your having to go get him all the time.

hey i donno wht 2 do im relly confused cuz i started likin dis guy but my friend likes him as well n shes like my best friend n i dont want a guy 2 get in da middle of us.. & no i havent told my friend dat i have feelings for him too, cuz im scared of wht will happen..shud i just forget about this whole thing n keep my feelings inside?? PLZ help _(link)

You should tell your friend how you feel about him because best friends don't keep things from each other.

Your right don't let this guy get in between you two. A friend is more important then a boyfriend. She shouldn't let him get in between ya'll either.

ok me and my bf have been going out for like 2 months and it seems like were like best friends instead of boyfriend and girlfriend... is that a good thing? _(link)

Yes, thats a really good thing that means ya'll can be ya'lls true selves around each other.

I recently found out that my girlfriend was cheatin on me with my twin sister. yes thats correct. My twin sister. I'm not sure who to kill first. Who should I kill first?

Sincerely
Jim Bow _(link)

Oh my...Don't kill anyone just break it off and find a better girl! She's evil she's def. not a good girlfriend.

I was with this guy for like 2 months and I had feelings for him like I have never had before and well lets just pretty much say I fell for him. Well he had to get away from everything because he was going threw alot and he told me that if I loved him like I said I did that I would move on, and I can't move on I am in love with him and I don't know what to do. I will wait until the day I die for him to come back to me and take me into his arms again, I will do anything to get my baby back. I have cryed my self till I can't cry no more, I am crying right this minute. Please help me I do not know what to do anymore, and I am about to drive myself insane.

Thank you and Love always
Me! _(link)

I can see that you love him alot..and if you don't move on he will be upset and sad because I'm sure he doesn't want to see you hurt.He wants you to move on and be happy.He doesn't want you to hold back from anything that comes your way, and by waiting for him you are hurting yourself and I'm sure he doesn't want to see that happen to you. I suggest you just start hanging out with friends and try and get your mind off of him. When he has all his business straight he will come back. But for now move on to new things.

ARE YOU KIDDING ME!!!

He's 18. She's 12. That's illegal. It's stagatory rape. Turn his butt in. Lock him up. He'll think twice about robbing the cradle next time when he's somebody's girlfriend in the big house. :) _(link)

is this a question or a statement?

hey

ok heres the prob. i was involed with this guy and at first it started as a just for fun thing but then we both started having feelings for eachother and i love him and he likes me alot i also lost my virginity to him but hes a player ang goes with other girls and makes out with them and stuff like that and when i tell him not to do that he still does but i dont want to leave him because the stuff we've been through and i love him please help me out!!

xoxo,
broken _(link)

Sometimes you have to do things you don't want to do. If you know he has made out with other girls and he sees that you don't care then he will keep doing it. If he liked you alot he wouldn't want anyone but you and he wouldn't cheat on you. Player's do not make good boyfriends.

My boyfriend threatend to kill me because I do Indian Dances in the rain, and he doesn't understand that its just my way of communicating with my dead ancestors. And sometimes he trys to shove crayons up my nose. What should I do?

Signed,
Crayon Dancer _(link)

I thought that dancing in the rain is the rain dance and thats when you want rain to come.But oh well I may be wrong. Ok well I think you should stay away from him. If hes trying to kill you with crayons then thats really weird and he needs some help.

How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? _(link)

Woah you should dump him. He's a sucky boyfriend. I can't believe he says he doesn't know you. You do not deserve that. Dump him and find someone else.

everytime I get a boyfriend and my dad hars about it he gose off , what should I do???!!!! he torments me!!!!!! _(link)

He's just being a dad. He's trying to protect his little daughter. He needs to see that you are growing up. Don't worry about "dad" he will just have to accept the fact that you are growing up and that you will be getting boyfriends.

theres this really hott guy at my school and i already went out w/ him before but he dumped me...i still like him alot! should i ask him out or not? _(link)

Go for it, It can't hurt anything. It will at least let you know the truth

There'a a guy in my grade that i am BEST friends with. I know everythign about him ( not exaggerating) and he knwos everythign about be. I am closer to himthan anyone else i ahve ever met. Theres jsut ome problem...

I really like this kid. He makes me feel really special. I told another one of my close friends baout it and she just told em that she had figured. She told emt aht me and this kid had flirted so amny times before. including when he had another girlfriend.

I really like him but i dont knwo if i shoudl tlel him or not because i dont want to ruin teh friendship that we already have. I love being his best friend btu i like him so much. please tlel me what you think....Oh also, he sends me mixed signals as to whether he likes me too or not... could you also tell me some of the signals i shoudl look for? thanks _(link)

I think you should tell him. I'm sure it wouldn't ruin the friendship because in order to be friends ya'll have to like each other. Tell him how you feel trust me he will listen.

ok well like 2 weeks ago i got closer with this guy who was in 8th grade n went to my middle school (i was in 7th grade) but i've never talked wit him before..n we started talkin n gettin to noe each other better n i think i like him, n i got my friend to ask him n he said we're better off friends even tho he flirts with me all the time n tells me im hott n evrythin. all of my friends (both grls & guyz) say tht he likes me but won't admit it..its weird cuz hes goin to high school n evrythin n i probly wont see him for another year, but i wnna noe is dere maybe a reason dt he mite not wnt to admit it?? _(link)

Maybe he won't admit to it because he's fixing to start a new section of his life and is scared he will start to like you to much. I'm sure he's not embarrased to say he likes you, I think he is just scared,and the way he controls that is by denying how he feels. What I would do is just be friends with him and see what happens in the long run.

ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this _(link)

Physics are just like horoscopes they aren't true they just try and get you to believe things. Don't listen to that physic because it will ruin your relationship and then there won't be a future for you two. Go with how you felt towards him before you went to the physic...don't let the physic change how you feel.

Okay, I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend that I've only been with for like around a month. But when I'm around him I don't really feel comfortable with him anymore and a few days ago he tried to get me to smoke with him by saying if you loved me you would... and i was really mad cuz im not big on drugs. I don't really want to be with him anymore, But he likes me alot. If you were me what would u do? _(link)

I would dump him. If he liked you alot he wouldn't pressure you into doing things like that. He is so not worth it

I think i like this one guy who got into a lot of trouble at our school what should i do?
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Girls and bad boys go hand in hand.

Get to know him and see whats under that bad boy image he has, I'm sure he has a sweet&caring side to him.

well. i have this really good friend. (a guy) and well he has this problem. this one girl he LIKED SO MUCH...acted like a total jerk and steppped all over him. i feel terrible first of all. and hes almost "scared" of liking ANYONE and 2nd of all...i like him and i keep hinting- HELLO?!!? I LIKE YOU!...how do i get him to notice me as more than a friend. and how do i get him to change his mind 'bout girls.
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He's just getting out of a heartbreak so it might take a while for him to recover from it.I think right now he needs a really good friend.So be yourself and maybe when he has recovered he will notice that you are the best for him.

Also talk to him and let him know that not all girls are like "her" and that you would never do such a thing to him that might help him get over her faster.

hi um my neighbor knows i like him and i think he likes me but today he had like 5 friends over and they were inside in the basement and like i heard one of them say to me hey logans gf! and i ignored her but then logan was like heyyyy rachellll! and u know what i mean but yah i dk if he likes me and i wanna go out wiht him really bad!!! please HELP! _(link)

Well obviously you have been on his mind because he said something about you to his friends. I would just wait when he is alone and then go and talk to him and see what happens.

ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! _(link)

Just tell him you aren't ready. If he likes you then he will understand and wait with you. If not then all he wants is one thing and you just don't need that.

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