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Hi, heres my love story... Theres this girl I really like but I just can't seem to make the first move. I don't have any friends and would like to get to know her alot. I just don't know when to approach her or what to say. The only time I see her is on the school bus. Of coarse theres loads of her friends and people on the bus. What good advice can you give me. I would like it from both girls and boys, but mainly girls. Thanks. (link)
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well since you ride the bus you know where she lives, so if your brave enough you could just go up to her house n introduce yourself, just he like hey im so n so i ride your bus i was wondering if u wanted to hang out sometime with me, its easy to say but its hard to do, i know i been there where i have liked someone and didnt know how to tell him.. but your really gotta have the guts to talk to people and dont be shy..!
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Me and my ex have been talking again for some time now, i recently re developed feelings for her, she shows concern but i can never get a straight anwer from her when feelings of her and i come up, does that mean she still loves me? (link)
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well for one she could still love you, but if you not sure i would sit own n talk to her about it, tell her how you feel and everything, and then see how it goes from there.. okay how that will somewhat help you!
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ok i was going out with a girl for 9 months....then she broke up with me...and i found out she still loves me but she doesnt want 2 but she does and i love her 2 i asked her out but she said no.....and like everyday she loves me a little more...but i want her 2 love me a lot so she will go out with me so ladies if u were the girl here wut would a guy like me have 2 do....buy a flowers and chocolates? write a peom...find a poem ill do anything for her....so wut should i do? (link)
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well, you say you "Will do ANYTHING for her" well tell her how much you love her, tell her you want to be with her and that there is no one else you would rather be with only her, tell her you would do anythnig for her you love her so much, be supporative to her decisions, and if that doesn't work, then i dont kno what to tell you, but thats what my old boyfriend did and he got me everytime
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Sorry it's so long, but I desparately need help. This is an easy 5 because there's so many things I need help with. Alright, I've asked a bunch of questions on how to get my crush to like me, and it looks like I just need to ask her out! I need some help doing that, though. First: I want a nice special way to deliver it, like they did at the end of Bye Bye Birdie. Can someone help me there? Also, someone suggested writing a poem for her, I suck at poetry, can someone give me tips? Besides, her name doesn't have any rhymes.... Then there's my parents. They've been betting on whether I'm gonna get a crush before my best friends (we're all nerds) and obviously don't know about me and my crush. How can I tell them? Note: I'm a shy person. Come to think of it, where's a good place to ask her out to? I don't really see any worthwile movies out apart from the Aristocrats, which I can't see until I'm 17. So what's a good place? Dinner? Bowling?
And finally, there's rejection. What happens if she says no? I'm a shy person, and I really don't want to have her say no... I mean, she said she liked me as a friend when I told her I liked her, and instead of getting over her, as time passed, I thought about her more. I've been devastated since, and this is the only way. Please help!!!!!! (link)
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well for starters to tell you parent just be totally upfront with them..tell them there's a girl and you really like her..Now.. to ask her um bowling no never ask someone out bowling..take her out to dinner and then maby after go for a walk in the prack you can sit down n b like look at the stars there so beautiful.. just like you type of stuff then just ask her!! its not very hard and for them poem wellif you leave me a msg on my inbox i ould help you with at just go to my advice column n click get advice and it will go to me and i can help you with a poem if you rly want one.. and if she says so just be like well can we still b friends DO NOT GET NERVOUS!! just stay calm and b like thats fine but can we still be friends.. alright hope i helped you out good luck!!!
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There is this weird girl named Meggie. She constantly stares at me but wont talk to me. I've heard that she tells everyone else that we're going out but i dont even really know her. This really freaks me out. What should i do? (link)
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well..maybe you should get to kno her..and well if you dont like her then you should tell her right away so nothin gets too serious.. and when she stares at you just say sumthin to her like what r you lookin at and if you dont want to be mean just be like hey what r you doin.. and since this freaks you out maybe try to avoid her for awile..i donno this is a tough one but hey it might just work
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I am kind of sad because all of my friends have a b/f and I dont...... I know it sounds child like but it has been this way for a year now... I mean I am not the best looking but I still want someone.... idk what I should do..... btw 15/female (link)
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well get out and meet new people.. dont be shy about it..if you see someone who catches ur eye go up n talk to them..and like you shouldn't want to have a boyfriend, if ur not ready for a relationship, he might want sumthin to last and you might want him just to be like your friend..you are your own persondo whats best for you and not everyone else
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ok i like this boy and i have probably talked to him 6 times in a year. i have liked him for 2 years now and lots of people have told him i liked him but he thought they were lying so he didnt do anything about it. i just talked to him today about his classes and and we had our laughs but other than that how do i become more than just someone he see everyday and only talk to 6 times a year. i just want to be his friend first but i get really nervous and then i dont talk to him. like i said i dont have to be his girlfried just someone he would like to talk to or someone he can trust! please help!
thanks!
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just start out by sayin hi n everything to him when you see him in the hall... and you can ask for his screenname and then talk to him online or if u get enough confidence ask for his number.
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Hi I'm in the 6th grade but anyways well wen i'm in skool there is this boy who whacks this chair against my chair, calls me stupid all the time, hits me and kicks me and all that crap and yet hes nice to me but i just dno if thats a sign of flirting and him wantign to get my attetion or just him hateing me and we are friends he sed it himself...plz help i'm just real confused (link)
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when boy act real stupid around girls and are mean to them most of the time its b/c they have a crush on you but as they get older they learn to flirt
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how do i scrunch my hair? (link)
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well when i do mine.. i pull it up in a messy ponytail until its dry then.. use hair spray to keep it in place.. it works pretty good...
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Ok! I am 13 and a girl and my boyfriend is 14. He has a younger brother my age. He wants to keep our... um... love, a secret from almost everyone, expesically his mother and father. Now here's the problem, he said that we have to do that until his 16 when his aloud to date!!! I do truely love him and he loves me. What should I do? I don't want to keep it a secret but he said he'd break up with me if his parents or brother finds out! (P.S. I don't want to hurt him cuz he just broke up with a girl that he was dating for 2 years! She just said we're done and walked away! I don't want to hurt him...) (link)
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well.. it depends on how long you have been with him.. i seriously don't think you are "in love with him" and my parents say the same thing..."your not allowed to date till your 16"... the big ordeal.. anyway tell him his parents are in a good mood just be like i really like this girl and i asked her out n she said yes.. to parents dating...is like going in a car with another person to dinner or a movie... but to people who r 13-16 see it as im his girlfriend and hes my boyfriend and we are dating.. but i think to his parents they mean goin somewhere with someone else..i know that was a little confusing but tell him that they shouldn't care if e has a girl friend.. just don't call it dating around them.. you are just boyfriend/girlfriend!
Hope i helped...even though it confusing!!!
Let me know what happens Goodluck!
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Hey Heather... it's Kelsey. Can you help me with something? Just please dont mention this to anyone else!!! Hardly anyone else knows!! Except my truest best friends you jill kayla hannah steve (kayla's boyfriend) and jeremy(the one that i like)
okay theres this really hott guy that i like. It's my BEST FRIENDS BROTHER!! he knows i like him alot! i was with him Saturday night and Sunday night. i stayed at his house with his sister. bUT ANYWAYS.... okay.. my friend and her boyfriend were wrestling.. me and (lets call him Skipperdy) well me and skipperdy were wrestling and having all kinds of fun. He'd like lay on me, out his arms around me.. breath on my neck(i thought i was gonna get a hicky) but anyways i didnt. It was really dark in the room. Anything that made light... it was covered. We tickled eachother and we got really close to kissing but didnt. I was like OMG!!! WOW!!! i mean words cant even explain how i was feeling. Then his hands were on my hips and were moving down slowly.. i didnt care.. later he grabbed me.. didnt care.. only becuase we were having so much fun. we were watchign movies together with our friends and things like that. It was the most fun i have ever had with a guy. And he ws the only one (guy) that ever touched me that much. I was so happy to be in his arms. i liked him once before for a while. We held hands alot the alst time.This time he always lays beside me... he lays sideways on his hip and curls his knees under me then i lay on my back and put my legs over his... then he put his hand on my stomach and alittle up my shirt. i thought he was gonna do "something" but then started tickling me again.This happened all night. As u can see i had a lot of FUN!!! It was the best night i have ever had!!
My question is... how do i know if he likes me? i really like him and his sister told him that i do. i didnt care if he knew. I think we're all doing something this weekend too after we get done working. Should i talk to him about it or just ignore it and have MORE fun than saturday night?
Should i talk to him about it or what? i sat with him again at lunch today and i might stay at his house again tonight. and i'll be there this saturday night too. i was supposed to stay last night but i didnt. What should i do?
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yes talk to him asap
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alright so one of my friends was talking to the boy i like. she said "ooh you know who you'd look so cute with?" and he says, "no, who?" ... she says my name... and then he changes the subject. she didnt say what his facial expression was- only that he changed subjects. can anyone translate to their best ability of what he might have been thinking.. ex: "oh i like her... better not say yes and change the subject," or "ew her.. better not say anything or she might be hurt"... if you need me to better specify things- ill ask again later (link)
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well im just not rel sure about this one but i think if he changed the topic real quick he probably doesn't like you sorry to burt your bubble if you like if him.
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