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Ok well i'm 13 and i was getting to know this girl. She just broke up with her bf. And she told me that she liked me. C the thing is i didn't know her that well and i started to try and talk to her more. I was starting to like her but i've only seen her once and only talk to her online. But i started to like her. Only i just started talkin to her 4 days ago. So i told her that i wasn't gonna ask her out until i got to know her better. The problem is now she's goin out with another guy. Is there somthin wrong with me should i have asked her out?
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No, there's nothing wrong with you at all...You did the right thing by waiting until YOU are comfortable...and to be honest with you, she COULD very likely just be trying to make you jealous by going out with the other guy. And if not, she's probably not worth your time anyways if shes gonna lead you on by telling you she likes you then hooking up with someone else. Hope we helped!
.:*Em and xTina*:.
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i was dating this guy for about 3 months and things got pretty serious. we spent every day together and he would stay and my house and vice versa. his ex girlfriend called one night and he broke up with me to see if things would work with her and they didnt. he called about a month after we broke up and said that he made a huge mistake for breaking up with me cause i was the best thing that had ever happened to him. we got back together and things were great, actually better than ever or so i thought. one day when she called again he started getting weird again and told me that he once again needed time. i took all of my stuff from his house and said that i wasnt playing second best anymore. i gave him all i had and thought that this was it. that he was the one. and unfortunately im a mess over him. i know he treats me horrible in this situation but ive never been so inlove with someone before. and i dont know what to do. someone just help. please. (link)
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Well for one thing, it was great that you told him you weren't playing second best anymore. If you hadn't of said that, who knows, he might keep coming back. It's understood how you feel; being in love with someone so much, and when they treat you bad, you just love them even more. A lot of people would tell you to get over him because he's not worth it. Yeah, that could be true in a sense, but it's not like it's wrong to love someone like that. We know it's hard just to decide NOT to love someone anymore. Maybe if you confront him, and tell him exactly how you feel, you'd feel better. Just remember to never lose hope, because there's always a chance. Don't wait for him or anything, but you might always love him, and that happens. You'll probably have feelings for him until you meet someone new. Always have faith!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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I'm 14 and I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 months ago, because we never talked or were able to see each other.Now that were broken up I see him more and more. We started hanging out. Well the other day he told me he still loved me and still wanted to be with me,but I didn't tell him it back because I didn't want to get hurt again.After that we started walkin with his friend and I had a stupid moment and kissed his friend (I've liked his friend for like ever),but I never stopped loving my ex.. Should I feel bad for what I did? (link)
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Techinically, you shouldn't feel bad because you're not dating your ex. But if you feel guilty because you love him and you know he loves you, that's a different story. Be honest with your ex, and tell him that you're afraid of getting hurt again. Your ex might have thought that you were trying to rub it in his face when you kissed his friend. Honesty is the key here and if he doesn't understand you, it wasn't meant to be.
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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ok im a 14 year old boy and liked by alot of peeps. (girls 2) but everytime i try 2 get close to a girl i mess up and say stupid things and they think im a jerk wat should i do?????? (link)
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Maybe if you planned some things to talk about ahead of time, you won't be so nervous. For example, you could mention a new song or something that happened in school. Just about anything would work (unless it's some OUT THERE topic, of course). Also, if you think about what you're going to say right before you say it, it won't come out as weird as you think. Hope we helped!
.:*Em&xTina*:.
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