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Hi im 15 i attend Poway High School...Im in 10th grade..i love to go out with my friends, talk on the phone..SHOP...musicc i love music and concerts! The used is the best band ever in the whole entire world! well i guess thats it for now feel free to ask me anything im up for any question you can throw at me...

xooxox

Tina

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well my ex boyfriends birthday is coming up and we decided we were gonna spend the day together after school or the following day together! weve been broken up for almost 7 months now! ya i know a really long time! but through it all weve been like best of friends and we talk all the time! and weve hung out twice this summer! well he does tell me he knows we both want to be together but it wont work right now because he is dating another girl but they arent going out cause she cant have a boyfriend! and even after being broke up hes like i love u and i always will! and just last night he said he missed us! and i still really care about him! but anyways for his bday i wanna do something really cute! i was already thinking about making him a cake and decorating it all cute and getting him a card! but i was trying to think of something else special i could do to show him how much i care! any ideas? thanks so much!

yeahh thats a really cute ideaa and get ballons and filly them with cunfettie sp? and pop them when he comes and throw it all over him and you should get reservations to his favorite resturaunt or something or take him to a movie or out to dinner but somewhere nice you know...hope i helped


xooxox

tina


but i have to add this....if he really cared about you and liked you then dont you think he would of broken up with his girlfriend or whatever u want to call her because he misses and loves you? well that just gives you something to think about.

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Does everyone find someone that they love and that loves them?

well everyone saids theres someone for everyone in the world but honestly i wouldn't say thats true becuz there are people out there that have never found there special someone so honestly i would say no there isn't always someone in the world for everyone but for u i bet there will be hehe :)....hope i helped


xoxoxo

tina

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theres this guy troy. i really like him and he likes me i think. we hung out today and he took me out to lunch and i donno we get along really good. and we were totally flirting. the only problem is..its my best friends ex boyfriend. their still friends a little..but she broke up with him...its notl ike he broke her heart...she treated him like shit. she doesnt know how lucky she was to have to boy like that! he drove to see her all the time, doesnt cheat, always called, and never canceled on her. hes soo hott too.and he met my mom today. and she likes him to. and were hanging out friday...and when he walked me back to my door today he gave me like the longest hug EVER...but hes my friends ex!! err idk what to do..help?

ps..when they broke up i told her shes going to regret it cause hes such a great guy...and she was like then you can have him..but she said it sarcastically...omgg i dont know.. :(

if your friend was a friend then she wouldn't care about you going out with him she wouldn't stop 2 people that really like eachother just because thats her ex boyfriend..why wouldn't she want to see her friend happy? so just tell your friend how you feel about him and see where that goes...hope i helped

xoxoxo tina

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Sorry its kinda long... My boyfriend and I get along really good but he thinks I have too many guy friends. I am pretty good looking *not to sound big headed, its just what people say* so he thinks that whenever I go spend time with him I will cheat on him. He doesn't trust me at all. Just the other weekend I went to see my guy friend I have known since I was born. He moved when we were 6 so I go visit him all the time. My b/f called me every 30 min. to make sure I wasn't cheating on him. He didn't even want me to wear a bathing suit infront of my frnd. Of course while I was there I didn't cheat on my boyfriend. Is there someway I can make him trust me with my guy friends?
Thanks for the help.

in a relationship the whole big thing about it is trust u need trust for a relationship to go on..if he doesn't trust you then you should tell him well if i cant have your trust then why are we together..if he really liked you he would trust you and if he knew that you like him alot he would know that you would never cheat on him...try and tell him how much you like him and that might change his mind...hope i helped


xoxoxo

tina

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i'm 14 and in 2 weeks im going to be starting high school. this summer i met this really great guy..my friend introduced us. the thing is ive onlk really talked to him on the internet and the phone(hes not one of those internet weirdos cause my friend knows him). we are going to the mall just to hang out on friday and i really like him but am so self-concsious. I know im pretty. I actually think that, but sometimes i just get really nervous. ive never been on an actually date. ive been asked out alot before, i just never accepted cause ive been busy, and ive just never really like the guys that ask me out. since im starting high school i want to start dating. is there anyway to get me out of the habit of being sooo nervous?

yeah...just if you know your pretty...just have more confidence in yourself and just say whatever who cares what he thinks about me im me and thats all i can be...tell yourself that im sure he will like you for you...you have nothing to be nervous about...just have alot of confidence in yourself thats all...hope i helped


xoxooxo

tina

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my boyfriend cheated on me with my friends so to the people who have already helped me a lil more plz he chetedon me with 2 of my friendsshjould i still be friends with them or no cause one of them is still going put with him

I wouldn't be friends with them because they dont have respect for you or themselves..they arn't your friends if they did stuff with your boyfriend and had your boyfriend cheat on you with them i wouldn't be friends with them but then again it depends on who started it and how it came along...hope i helped

xoxoooxx tina

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I have a boyfriend and he is starting to get on my nearves.The other problem is is that i like someone else who doesn't even know i exsist!I need help figuring out how to tell my boyfriend I dont want to go out anymore and i need help figuring out how to get my crushes attention.And what if my boyfriend finds out that i dumped him for another guy?

please help!

be honest with your boyfriend and tell him why you dont wanna go out with him anymore and tell him that you like the guy and if he gets mad well eventually he will get over it :) and for ur crush try nd make excuses to talk to him dont make it obvious though and try and talk to him alot and then hopefully you will become friends and then you can take it from there

hope i helped


xoxoxo

tina

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