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Is it bad to have wet dreams? (link)
No it's not it's a natrual thing for everyone.


Here's some back ground information


~~~~~~~What Are “Wet Dreams” (Nocturnal Emissions)?

A wet dream is the uncontrolled ejaculation of semen from the penis during sleep. The fluid is creamy to clear in color.

What Causes Them?

Wet dreams are caused by sexual excitement from dreams, and or by physical stimulation like rubbing against blankets, the bed, or a full bladder. It is very normal!


Who Gets Them?

Guys get them! When boys enter puberty a lot of hormonal changes occur. These changes will result in many, but not all boys experiencing episodes of spontaneous erections during sleep, during the day and wet dreams. If these episodes do occur there is no need to worry or feel guilty because they are part of normal sexual development.

Most boys experience wet dreams between the ages of 12 to 18. Generally boys have less wet dreams once they start masturbating or once puberty is over. Also if teenagers become sexually active will experience fewer, or no longer have wet dreams.



What Do They Mean?

Wet dreams are a normal part of the many things that are changing in the body during puberty. Not all boys have wet dreams and that's okay too, it doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. If you do have a wet dream, it just means your body is maturing sexually, which is a step towards becoming a adult.~~~~~~~~



My Fiance's best friend just bought her a vibrator, I feel like i am not doing my job right, or maybe she just isn/t attracted to me. (link)
No. Of course she's attracted to you. i'm guessing that is a joke of some kind. You know one of those "before you get married thing" My best friend did the same thing to me and my boyfriend didnt take it seriously. We just laughed it off. people do this all the time to their friends if they get engaged.. well, not exactly the same thing , but similar things Don't think not attracted to you. If you two are engaged then she loves you.. that's all there is to it.


I need some help. There are some boys at my school that I like to hang out with. They are not the best looking but its whats on the inside that matters. Any good tips to tell if you are in love?
Sincerely,
Mea* (link)
dang.. well your always looking forward to talking to them and like funny feeling in your stomach also sweaty palms and dry mouth yeah


okay. one of my best guy firends...yeah...i think im falling for him. ive been thinking about this for the past 3 months. we're really close and i really love spending time with him. my school's semi formal is coming up and id really REALLY like to ask him.
but i have some issues.
a) i dont want to ruin a quality friendship by throwing "love" into the mix
b) I dont know how to "ask" guys out. im just not really "into" the whole guy thing...WHTA THE HELL DO I DO????
c) how do i even know if he likes me? what are some hints that he would drop? because my friends are pretty sure that he feels the same way about me as i do about him. but im just not sure!!

HELP! (link)
ONE THING!!! chill out.. it sounds to me that u and him have been friends for a while.. if so there is a chance that he feels that same way.. hints of him liking you... always wanting to be around you.. glossy eyes when he looks at your basic flirting... and sticking up for you if u need it ask him to the dance and see where it goes from there


if my neighbor came over andh e was on my trampoline and i was in the spa and he kept like talking and showing off and looking at me does that mean he likes me??? shouldi tell him i like him or ask him how he feels about girls or what??? (link)
Alot of guys show off and stare when they like somone. Some just do it for the fun but not likely. Try to talk to him and see what he says if he says n e thing that sounds like he likes you keep it going


Well I think the subject pretty much gives away what I'm going to ask you...what should we do?

We went to see a film (The Last Samurai btw) on Sunday.

I'm 16, he's 18. Clubbing (my friends suggestion) is not really an option).

Any ideas? (link)
For a second date. Hmmm.... in all honesty i don't think that clubbing is a good idea only that alot or drugs and alcohol come into the picture. Try something like going out to dinner and a walk on the beach i did that with my boyfriend and it worked out.


how can i tell a boy i like him (he is my neighbor)with out anyone finding out like his mom cuz she doesnt liek him having any girlfriends or stuff like that and she doesnt want me ot tel him that i like him cuz she says that we are"good friends right now" (link)
well , if you two are good friends go to the movies with him *as friends* and when your alone if you get to be alone tell him or go over when his mom isn't home and he is tell him then.




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