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My name is Kelsey, I am 13, and I love giving advice.

Ask me about: sex-even though I am still very much a virgin I grew up in an OPEN family.. even my grandma talks to me about it lol, love-I tend to read boys like a book; I am a girl so I kinda know what we are thinking too lol, eating disorders-I spent alot of time reasearching these because two members of my family had them and my best friend was anorexic, rape-I know that you need someone to talk to about this stuff and it hurts.. I know a few people that this has happend to, pets-I know about everything there is to know about pets because i have wanted to be a vet since i was three and still have a passion for animals.. many hours of reasearch has resulted lol, depression-been there done that.. I have been off and on with depression for a few years now and am proud to announce that i have been depression-free for about 2 months now, fashion-I have a big sister.. what do you expect

PLZ DON'T ask about: family-I don't have a "traditional" family life and well.. lets leave it at that. lol
E-mail: KelCSullivan@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Shertown, Texas
Age: 13
AIM: KelCSullivan
Member Since: March 9, 2005
Answers: 50
Last Update: May 8, 2005
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What happens when your majorly in love with the perfect guy for you... and just one day he says yall should be just very good friends! Yall dont go out but yall have been before and yall were about to go out again? What should I do? (link)
there comes a time in everyone's life that they have to let go..

the only thing that doesnt die is true love.. if he loves you he will come back and if he doesnt, then you need to get over him..


hey kelsey!! this is kayla!!! i just wanted to ask you who i would good w/ at our school... and be honest plz... and give me a few choices! you r such a good friend!!!

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ummmm .... idk.. sorry llol

actually i will prolly tell you this at school cuz im too lazy to type.. lol


What do I do when I am trying to get over a guy that I am not sure ever loved me but dated another girl across the country while dating me and I try to ignore and try to not show that I still have feelings for him but I know I still do and he has been in all my dreams lately? What does it mean? How could I get him back and keep him from lieing and cheating on me if I did want him? Do my dreams mean anything?
(I am 13 female)











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well you need to get a better guy.. obviously this guy cheated on you juts to hurt you, and trust me, once you get over him he will come crawling back


haha im like the only one that asks you questions but thats ok because i donno o and what is a quief lol j/k haha this isnt really a question its like a conversation to myself? haha w/e l8er (link)
ok.. sean. or dillon, cuz you r the only ppl who ask "questions"... lol


i think i like this guy...but i have dated him before. i dont know why i like him. everytime i see another guy who is really cute, he always comes into my mind. i dont know why he wont leave my head. the problem is, he has a girlfriend now and we barely talk. we go to different schools and we are barely friends. even though i never see him the past always comes back to me. can u help? (link)
if you like him then you will ask him out... in person. lol


About a week after i start to like someone asks someone else out...its happened to the last 3 guys. I don't know what to do. The last one got dumped by the same girl that he had tryed to go out with a week before after 2 days (Which happened the last time he tryed to go out with her) and now i think he likes one of my best friends. Help me.


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you cant force sum 1 2 like u... so u r SOL


Kelsey...who do you think I would make a cute couple with when it comes to looks, personality, etc.? And be Honest!!!

XOXOXOX~Detro (link)
well i think you would look cute with austin..

for personality: raul

for style: brian..


so yeah thats those 3 ppl i think you would be cool with lol


i have the most BEAUTIFUL girlfriend her name is Kelsey Sullivan!!!!!!!!! (link)
well.. idk how i can help you
lol


GUYS I NEED HELP

today is my 7 month anniversary wit my bf. but he moved to indiana 2 weeks after i met him. so we decided to be able to have a week each month wit a guy/girl cause well.... i need love in my life (( if ya know wut i mean ))

so yea bcuz todays my 7 month anniversary wit him hes flying in. he called my friend 10 minutes ago to let her know he was on da plane, so sum1 cud pik him up. she knows wut I've been doing so she warned me... cuz he wants it to be a surprise

my flick is here right now, and he gets off da plane in 10 minutes. i have NO idea wut to do... and my Indiana guy is ugly

im scared... and.... GRRRRRR

this sux... i didnt even memba... (link)
your screwed... shouldnt have cheated


Every day after skool or wherever I am with my boyfriend he always gives me a hug and says ok, now your coming home with me. (Im not allowed to have a b/f in the first place) I like dunno what to do cause he always gets a sad look on his face. Any advice? (13/f) (link)
explain to him that if he really likes you then he has to understand that you arent even allowed to have a bf.

or you can ask your parents if you can go to your "guy friend's" house


okay im going to get to the point, i lost my viriginty to a boy who is 2 years older then me, were werent going out but i like him alot, and im not one of those bout it type of girls either. But anyways i lost it to him and we kept talking and we also kept doin it. It sounds dumb but we never really talked in between, we talked sumtimes when we were together but that was it. Every time i asked him somthing about himself he would get defensive, i know he has had bad past realtionships and he doesnt trust girls but...i dont know, then i finnaly spoke up about the way he treats me like his hoe, and he said fuck it but then changed his mind and apologized. He is like an emotional roller coaster and i care for him alot, and i think he cares to by the things he does but he doesnt want to, you know what i mean? hes in a gang and considers that his family but recently they just ditched him in a situation where him and one of his homeboys were stuck to face like 100 guyz by themselves they just all out bailed on him, and he got mad and turned around and yelled at me "and you were not talking any more", i really care about him but i dont know how to reach him or w.e hes complicated, and i wanna stop the fucking, and become more of a friend, but i wanna be with him, i dunno im so confused. I know i should move on but i cant help it, im stuck to him hes my first. But i really want to understand him too, any advice, thankx ill rate you...xOx (link)
i kno this may sound hard, but drop him! he is in a gang, doesnt talk to you between sex, and if you ask me it is lust not love. find another guy. be happy with someone else


sorry its so long..but please help.. 16/f Okay i think i have a problem with my attitude with my boyfriend.. like i am so happy with him and we kid around an stuff but for some weird reason out of no where i become a bitch.. i reall cant explain why all the sudden i become like that.. i dont get like that with anybody else but him.. we have been together 8 months.. and probably ever since december i been like this.. i really try to understand my self and try to get why im like that but i cant.. he never gets mad about it or anything really he usually sits there and says *aw my baby's mad* then like i cant be mad anymore... which like i said i dont know why i am in the first place... but after a while he'll ask whats wrong when he knows im calm down and he's holding me.. and i tell him *i dont know whats wrong* then he thinks that i dont wanna share my problems with him...which its not that i cant tell him whats wrong if i dont know my self...then he gets mad bout it and then *i cry* thats one of the worst feelings i get is when i see him mad or sad at me or around me.. and then after that he gets like sad cause i cried.. i really want this to stop.. this doesnt happen everyday..maybe like once or twice a week but thats too many times and its gettin old..my friend told me she thought i was doin it for attention.. which i thought bout that for a while... but i get all the attention i need from him.. this is really my first actual relationship with a guy so i havent been like that with anybody else and he the first guy ive actually loved.. but i guess i need advice to understand why i might be like this and what might cause me to be like that.. and if anybody else is like that please explain why you are.. i'll rate anything high as long as it helps in some sort of way..much luv and thanks in advance to who ever answers.. (link)
wow... that is the same thing that happens to me! same situation too... well what i do is i try not to say mean things about n e one or n e thing and i stay happy! maybe this will work for you


Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what? (link)
well tell your gal how much she really means to you. kiss her on the cheek and tell her you'd be lost w/o her


well the girl im going out with is beautiful but she doesnt think so and i know so but she is always saying that she is fat and ugly and i dont think so i want her to stop saying that she is fat and ugly what should i do?????? (link)
well obviously she is VERY insecure... tickle her until she says she is skinny and whenever she says she is fat or ugly tickle her.. even if she is fat, laughter makes you loose mad weight. lol


My boyfriend always got love notes from his gfs and we were talking yesterday and he said I was the only girl who never wrote him any love notes so I was wondering what do you write in love notes other then I love you because I tired to write one but I dont think it turned out to be anything like a love note soif you can please help me out thx ill rate if ud like (link)
start by saying "I have never loved any one the way i love you" and just write all the things you love about this person. if you cant write in paragraphs then make a list. n e thing will make him love you more for it


okay.. okay.. i like this boy adn he likes me, i never thought he would but he DOES! and he gave me a kiss on my head last night, and he said i'll get more next time :-D.. so he means kiss and this is stupid, but i'm scared.. even though it's what i've wanted sooo bad.. and another question.. is it bad to be happy for myself, i don't want to rub it in my friends' faces but this is the first time i actually got what i want..

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Well... first things first:r u going out?

next.. its is natural to be scared, so i am scencing that it is your first kiss. just relax... its bound to happen sooner or later

and last.BE HAPPY!!! lol rub it in your friends faces and tell me about it! lol


Y R U sooo darn fine? (link)
I am not?! lol but its ok if you want to think that! ;)




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