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hey guys! just to let you know, i am the same person as decemberbaby but i didnt like that username, so i had to make a new one. so dont got to the other one anymore! thanks!
Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina
Age: 14
Member Since: March 4, 2006
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ok here im 13 and im ready to do "it" again with my bf the thing is i cant protection the first time i was close to be having a baby and i was lucky but everytime im around him i dont know how to like stop getting horny u know what imean i dont want to get pregneate help me!!!!lol (link)
you are 13 and you do NOT need to be having sex, but, if you absolutely NEED it, use a condem or birth control.

kathryn


I know that people say you are too young to be in love. But does that mean I can't tell my boyfriend that I love him?

13/F

Thanks so much !! (link)
no honey!! i think that is just something parents made up to keep their kids from dating. you can tell your boyfriend NAYTHING you want to tell him!

kathryn


Ok, so I'm 16. My boyfriend is 17. It's getting increasingly harder to be anywhere alone with him without parents getting paranoid and feeling they have to "check on us". We're both responsible people who make responsible decisions and although both sets of parents know that I feel quite sure there's nothing that will make them feel differently...so that's not what I'm asking. I'm beyond trying to change them.

What I want to know is how to get around it...
I just need some sneaky ideas =P (link)
sneaky....plan a "sleepover" at one of your friends house (girl) and ask them to cover for you if your parents call there. instead, you can go hang out with your boyfriend.

kathryn


ok.. i wanna loose wat b4 the summer.. this way i can like look good in a two piece.. all i wanna do is get rid of the stomach... and the thighs.. but rite now all i care about is my stomach.. i weigh around 130 pounds.. and im 13.. but like everyone says im skinny... but like... i mostly weigh 10 - 15 pounds heavier cuz i have muscles... i have a little stomach but i mean its noticable.. how can i decrease it and how much do i have to do of it per day?? oo yea.. this guy has a crush on me.. but he told my friend he wil lask me out wen im skinnier.. and i eard him say it.. so like... i wanna lose the weight... (link)
go to www.am-i-fat.com AND www.mypyramid.com. they will tell you what you need to eat, how much, and how much exercise you should be doing every day.

kathryn


To preface, I came across this site because I did a search for someone that has passed on and found out thatthey used used to have a column here.

From my prespective, she and I had a special time together almost ten years ago. She was two time zones away yet we would be in touch everyday for a few months. I realize this is only a short time, yet I had initially ended it.

In the shortime thereafter, she and I would keep in touch and then because I acted stupidly with words she and I would not converse less and less.

Four years later, I took a trip out to where she lived to visit other people and ended up one night at a bar where she was and we were able to spend some private moments there talking and playing games that were available to us at the establishment. I felt, at the time, a certin affection for her that was similar to when we would be in constant touch with each other.

From that time until a year and a half ago our interactions were minimal - but the special place she held in my heart was something that was still there. She had told me once that when you love someone you love them forever and she said she still loved me. I had been resigned to the fact that the love of which she spoke was more than likely less intense than when we had originally interacted.

In late 2004 I had made arrangements to stay at her place because work obiligations had put me in a position so that I would be located where she lived. I did that in part because I wanted to see her again, spend time with her, and even though I could have found a place to live close to where she lived, I wanted to be able to spend some time with her and since she agreed I thought it'd be best.

Unfortunately, plans changed due to circumstances and when given an offer to go back home (albeit for a short period of time) I chose that instead of going to her. I wish I had chosen differently.

I found out through a friend that she had passed on late last year and I felt obligated not only to myself but somehow to her that I should go to her memorial service. I went to her service and let no one that was there know who I was in relevence to her nor why I was there. I went because I wanted to say, "goodbye."

It has been almost six months since then and I find myself in a position in which I think about her still. I sometimes feel that if I had not gone home that perhaps things would be different and I know that it is not something to concentrate on but at times I do feel as though maybe had I chosen a different course of action that perhaps things would have ended differenty for her.

I know she is in a better place now but somehow, selfishly, I don't find peace. I love her, will always love her and maybe I'm confused about things but I even then I do hope over time to find peace.

So, I suppose my question should be - will a part of me always feel this way? Will I grow to understand this over time, on my own? Or is there something there that will always be, to put it as loose as possible, nagging me? (link)
Just keep on praying abput it and God will do the rest. As soon as your born, he has your life planned out from start to finish. It's like a big puzzle, and this is just one piece. If you keep praying, God will take care of everything and your puzzle will be finished.


kathryn


ok there is this guy i have talked about befor and well i asked him out for my friend because we both liked him and he told me to tell her he had a girlfriend so i did then for the next few weeks he keep flirting with me then he like missed a week of school then yesterday at school he was pokeing me in my sides and like we both help the spechel kids and he told me i was comeing with him to a class with the kids so i did then i left early to take one back and he got back and he hugged me witch is weird because i have never ever seen him hug some one what is up with him (link)
i would go for it! if you really like him tell him! dont tell your friend right away. let her find out by herself. you can always make new friends!

kathryn


O.K so theres this really CUTE guy in my neighbor hood and today we were playing b-bal just me and him and 4 other guys. Then me and him played some 1 on 1 together I was fixing to win but he grabbed the ball and said softley I dont like you no more now, but the rest of the day he kept hangging around with me and we were on the same team together and his brother wanted to swich players and he wanted to switch me and then the guy said no keep her shes a good player.

Does he like me then?
How do I get him to like me more? (link)
drop some big hints that you like him and hopefully he'll see them and give in. you have to remember that 89% of guys want you to make the first move. this might be the case.

hope i helped!
kathryn




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