Aw.
I know EXACTLY how you feel. I know how it is to look at someone EVERYDAY and know in your mind you will never be with them. It hurts, I know.

And I'm really sorry to tell you this, but there is absolutely nothing you can do about it.

I actually posted a question somewhat like this the other day about a boy that I was completely infatuated with. I wasn't exactly INLOVE with him but he made my heart skip a beat everytime he kissed me, everytime he walked by, everytime he looked at me. It was incredible. And then, all of a sudden he up and walked out of my life like it didn't even matter.
I know how it is.
And yeahh, it's hard, definitly.
But I learn to live with it.
I'm able to move on but yet, I'm still SO infatuated with this guy.

I guess my advice to you would be...
To talk to him about it?
Tell him that you love him and that you wanna be with him and he's all you think about and that he may not realize it, but he's hurting you.
And you can't sit there and take it.
Just talk to him.
It doesn't matter how you do it, but I prefer in person.
I mean, it's completely and totally up to you.
Forreal.

Tell him if he is afraid of being friends with you because he's afraid he'll like you again, he's not over you.
He still loves you, he just doesn't WANT to for some reason.
You both know in your hearts that you two should be together.
So why not do something about it?
Tell him straight up that you love him and that you guys were meant for each other and tell him how you feel, basicallyy what you just told me.
:]
And I'm extremely glad that you came to me for help.
And I will try and help you the best I can.
Love is tough. It's as simple as that.
And life is about heartbreaks.
You can't go through life without them.

I hope I helped you in any way, or even made you feel more reassuring.

I have AOL Instant Messanger. If you want to talk to me on that, my screen name is wtfkayluh1

I also have a myspace. The link is on my page.

And I absolutely LOVE updates.
So if you ever wanna tell me anything,
I'm here.
:]

I give you the best of luck.

Sincerely,
Kayla ♥

You know what?
I'm going through the EXACT same thing.


Here's what I did; and it DEFINITLY worked, by the way.

You go to that party.
You have fun.
You BRING ANOTHER GUY.
A guy friend of yours.

As evil as this may sound, honestly, it's not.
Trust me.
And you're not nescaecarily using your guy friend.
You're just having fun with him.
In front of this guy that you claim "has missed his chance"
And he definitly has.
I mean, seriously.
Apparently, as it sounds to me,
this guy is a pimp.
Or a loser.
You are OBVIOUSLY a sweet girl who just wants a sweet guy to care about them.
I mean, what girl DOESN'T want that?
I know I do.
But some guys just aren't worth it.
And as you think he is,
He's liking someone else WHILE giving YOU mixed emoitions on how you feel.
wtf.
Either he likes you or he DOESN'T.
He's trying to do both and that's not possible.
There's going to end up being a huge collision at the end.
So...
I suggest you "make him jealous" and make him see that you're definitly worth his time and that you can have fun and be the girl of his dreams.
He will be missing you within... ohh... I give it a couple dayss.
:]
Seriously.
He's an idiot and one of these days, you're gonna pop in his head and he's gonna regret EVERYTHING he's ever done negatively to you.
He'll wanna take it all back and wish that it was YOU he had liked instead of some girl he apparently will never have a chance with.
You're smart.
And you deserve wayy better.
I say you follow your heart.
Go with what your gut says.
Go with what you think feels right.
No.
Go with what you KNOW feels right.
If you doubt anything, it's probably not a good idea to go after it.
You should be sure of yourself.
And quit being so confused.
I mean, I know he is confusing you.
But don't let him.
If he did that to you, he obviously is confused about YOU so if you show him how secure and sure of yourself that you are, all of HIS confusion will disappear and he'll realize that the girl he's liked has been under his nose the entire time; he just never realized it.
I hate to be so harsh but...
You're what they call a "rebound girl".
I am too, don't worry.
A "rebound girl" situation occurs much like yours.
You like the guy, the guy likes you, the guy starts liking other girls, when the girls don't like the guy, the guy comes crawling back to you, the "rebound girl".
It's a stupid situation and VERY hard to get out of.
And the only way you can get out of it, EVEN IF YOU LIKE HIM VERRYYYY MUCH, is to turn him down.
Show him that you CAN live without him and you WILL if he doesn't man up and be SURE of himself for once.
I mean, how stupid can you get?
haha
But anyways,
I could write a book on the topic.
And I really do hope I helped you in ANY way and I'm extremely sorry if I didn't.
If you ever need to talk, you can always message me.
My myspace link is on my page and my AIM screen name is wtfkayluh1
So we can talk if you want.
:]
I love updates and would LOVE to hear about your situation and how it goes AFTERWARDS.
And see if it helped.
:]
kthnx.
Remember, I'm here if you need to talk.

Hm...
Well, the answer BELOW me didn't help much.
=/
Anyways,
I'm sorry I have to tell you this but...
There's no possible way to just, get over a heartbreak overnight.
It's a LONGGGG process.
And it take forever.
You have to be patient.
It may hurt and you may cry but you know what?
Crying is good.
It helps you get your feelings out.
Even if it makes you sad.
Crying is good or your sould, as grandma-ish as that sounds.
haha
There is no way to get over someone that you LOVED.
He/She will ALWAYS be on your mind and in your heart.
There no way to get rid of that feeling.
It sticks.
It sucks, I know.

Hun, you've probably heard this MANYY times before buttt...
I'm gonna tell ya anyways.
:D
There is someone for EVERYONE.
One day, you're gonna find a guy that'll sweep you off your feet and make you feel like you're the ONLY girl he sees.
Trust me.
You'll fall inlove and he won't do ANYTHING to hurt you.
Somewhere out there, there's a PERFECT guy for you.
:D
And you may have to wait a while.
He's not just gonna show up at your front door.
It takes time.

High school is FILLED with heartbreaks and drama.
That's all it is.
You're gonna get your heart broken every now and then but you WILL meet someone new.
I PROMISE.

Everyone does.
And he'll come to you.
:D
Heartbreaks are probably more painful than being stabbed but you know what?
You'll get through it.
I know you will.
:D

I'll help you.
If you have AIM, you can IM me at xoxokaylanicole

Or if you have a myspace, my myspace link is on my page.
:D

I hope I helped you in any way.
And I'm extremely sorry if I didn't.
[[♥KAY-LUHH]]

Hm...

Well,
My advice to you is to be EXTREMELY outgoing.
Maybe you're shy around THIS guy, but try not to be.
I mean, if you start talking to him and getting to know him, he'll start feeling more comfortable around you and come out his "shell".

Flirt with him.
Talk to him.
Better yet, become his FRIEND.
That's how a LOT of relationships get started.
Become his friend.
Talk to him LIKE A FRIEND.
Laugh with him LIKE A FRIEND.
Just be his FRIEND.
=D
That's probably the best think you can do.

Well, if you need to talk to me, I have AIM.
You can IM me.
My screen name is xoxokaylanicole
kthnxbye

I hope I helped you in any way.
And I'm extremely sorry if I didn't.

Best of luck.

Oh, and my myspace link is on my page so if you have a myspace, you can message me there or whatever.
=D

[[♥KAY-LUHH]]

I'm Kayla.

I have blonde hair.

Green eyes.

:]

Make me smile,
I'm yours.

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