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I am 16 years old and have this wanting of sex...My boyfriend and I have been going together for about 3 months now...We have talked about it and both really want to do it. ... But were scared of gettin pregnant...and scared that our parents will find out and we want be able to date each other any more..what do we do?
Signed, Wanting (link)
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Dear Wanting,
If you and your boyfriend have talked about it and really want to do it, then there's no stopping you. My advice is to get tested for STDs first. BOTH of you. Its just safer this way. Although, with a condom there is a chance that you can still get pregnant because nothing is 100% effective. There's always risks with sex but if you are willing to take those risks, then I say go for it. As far as your parents, I would think it would be a better idea to not tell them. They might get a little upset with the whole idea.
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In November, this guy liked me. I liked him too. We didnt become a couple until January. We've been together since the 12th of January, and Ive fallen in love. Hes the best thing thats ever happened to me. But I have a problem. Ive been having some family issues, and i wasnt myself for the past 2 weeks. Its too late. Today was the last day of school, of 6th grade, were going on to middle school, and he doesnt love me as much. Were trying to decide whether to break up or not, but i really dont want to. I love him so much. It will be hard though. Were so young. No one has ever made me feel this way. I miss him so much and have been hysterical all night. I dont know what to do. Someone help me either get over him, make it work, or atleast calm down. Its gonna take more than that though. (link)
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You love him? Are you sure? When you are young, you don't really fall in love, its more of infatuation. You may really like this guy but you most likely dont LOVE him. Don't waste your time with this one guy. You have a long life ahead of you and you will meet new people. Who knows? Maybe in middle school, you will meet someone else that means just as much as this guy means to you right now.
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So, there is this guy and I still really like him, but we already went out and I'm pretty sure he doesn't even think about me as more than a friend anymore. The thing is he isn't really "boyfriend material". He gets bored of one girl and then goes to the next. I still like him, but I know I shouldn't because I'll just get hurt again.
I am trying to get over him. I've tried so much! But it seems like even when I'm hanging with my friends I am like... fakely happy. None of my friends know I still like him.
I still think about him. I've tried to give it time but I've felt like this for about a year now. It's like I'm crazy over him. Will I ever get over him? And what can I do to help me get over him?
Thanks so much. (link)
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It sounds like this guy is just a player. I struggled with this same problem too. You just need to tell yourself that the guy that for you is out there and this guy right now is missing out on a great girl. Its time you met different people and if you just act yourself, guys will see you for what you truly are and like you for that and that is what really matters.
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I'm 13 yrs. old....I've never made out with any one.....Well lets cut to the chase I've never had a boyfriend at all....I've had alot of crushes but never an actual boyfriend....is that good or bad? (link)
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I, myself am 13, so I know exactly how you feel. I just got my first boyfriend a week ago and I have never made out with anyone either! Its not bad at all! Don't think that just because you are 13, you need to do all of those things. You will when you are ready. Don't attempt to make it happen. It will eventually. And everyone has crushes and a lot of them. You are definetely not alone, many girls your age haven't done any of those things yet.
What I mean is, its okay that you have never had a boyfriend or made out with one yet. I wasn't meaning that it was okay that you haven't done anything sexual. 13 is pretty young to be doing those things, so I wasn't talking about that.
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