We are all looking for that inner peace we believe is out here waiting for us. Someday. We live what we learn and ask, Why me? Stay in the day. Thats where the inner peace is. Tomorrow doesnt matter. Laugh a little more. cry less. Dont expect change unless your willing to change yourself first.
I will answer your questions using all the lessons i have learned in my life. I will do the best i can. Someone helped me and now i want to do the same.
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I am a 20 year old male from florida. I started dating a girl about a month ago, also I live with her. She is bi-sexual and that sort of bothers me, but I can deal with it. She spends a lot of time online, at least an hour or two each day, talking to people, some she knows offline and others she doesnt. She left herself logged in to one of her accounts today and so when I went to use the computer it was on her message screen from some free online friend network thing. She was exchanging messages with a girl from orlando who was also bi. The first message is my girlfriend responding to a post from the other girl about "girl seeks girl in florida for love" or somthing close to that. They have exchanged a few messages, kind of flirty, and im not sure if I should be worried, upset, should I talk to her about it? We have a pretty good relationship so far, I think, and we talk about everything. What should I do? (link)
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I think you need to ask yourself "if it was another man she was talking to online and seeking would this be a problem for you?" Do you want a serious relationship with just one person? If so does she? It doesnt matter if its with a woman or a man your girlfriend is flirting and looking for a relationship outside of the one shes currently in. Is this what you want too? You started dating and moved in with someone all in the same month. Yes i think its time you sat down and talked..Good luck!
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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years, living together for 3 of them. In this time, he has never celebrated my birthday unless I specifically told him where to take me. He initially told me his family didn’t celebrate birthdays but I found that to be false. Every year he has a new excuse, even when I make it clear that I’d like him to celebrate my birthday in some way—even if it is just a card. This year was the worst. He started a fight with me and then told me he had planned to take me to dinner except the fight ruined it. But he never even made reservations anywhere. I just can’t understand why he insists on hurting my feelings like this or how to make him understand how important it is to me to be treated special for one day a year. We have his daughter from a previous relationship (who I have helped raise since she was 2) every weekend so we do not get to be romantic very often. It seems silly to me to break up over this, but I can’t take his thoughtlessness anymore. (link)
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Is he a good boyfriend otherwise? Does he treat you mean? Is he usually a good man and just doesnt get into the holiday or birthday thing? The answers to these questions are important.My husband is a wonderful man but he doesnt think much of birthdays and holidays. I was hurt at first but came to realize as we get older (im 33) that other things are crutial in a relationship. I celebrate my birthday and holidays like they are the biggest thing in the world. Ever since i started getting off of him to be someone hes not he started to enjoy the plans i made and it has made a world of difference. Your the only one who can decide if hes worth the compromise...
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