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ok so i have an issue im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend everyone says its bc i dont make it odvious i want one but how do i do that im also not that great at flirting bc im too busy trying not to make a fool out of myself i want to know how to flirt the right way to get a guys attention without looking slutty or desperate and i dont want to hear the basic laugh and smile bc thats not specific enough for me i need to know what to do and fast so that when i go into highschool i can make an awsome impression! (link)
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Hey! I was reading your question and noticed we have A LOT in common. Pretty muc all you said is what I had to go through last year (I am 15 now). I know what you mean, you do not want to say something stupid, but it's hard to think of the right thing to say. Anyways, if you have a really close guy friend, you should see if he wants to practice with you. Just talk to him like you would talk to anyone, then after, ask him what you should do to make yourself sound better (but nothin slutty of course). But have girl friends there too to evaluate you. Heres a very important flirting tip - Be interested in what the guy has to say. If you do not look interested, he will not be interested in you. If you need any other tips or hve any other questions feel free to ask me! Good Luck and I hope this helped!
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i'm new to this and i dunno how to send a private message so im just going to thank you through question thingy. i jst want to say thanks for your advice, i hate making people upset, worried or whatever(im a freak, i know lol), so every small thing i think i do wrong i get help to make it better :P i really appreciate your help =]hope i could help you sometime if you have a question. cya :] (link)
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no problem, I am new to this to so its ok. I know what you mean, sometimes I do not like saying things at all in fear of the response because I do not want to make anyone mad. So its ok! Anytime!
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Okay so im fifteen and there is this girl thats 13 and she really likes me and i like her, but is 15 too old 2 b dating a 13 year old? well, were secretly going out with each other, nobody else knows cuz we dont want our parents knowing :] but we've been caught by both our parents hugging all the time but they dont seem to mind.. much :p her parents dont, mine does :S anyway were ALWAYS holding hands and hugging when were alone but when were in public we hold hands secretly, noone see's ;]i dont think she wants to kiss yet though. i always kiss her on the cheek, head and neck though and she loves it but im just wondering about this.. she went out with 2 of my other friends but they broke up for stupid reasons.. they wernt really that nice to her either.. like, the 12 year old (as tall as me) broke up with her for not seeing him in 2 days cuz she was inside sick, they were going out for 3 months at d time(he only gave her 1 hug within them 3 months).. then the 13 year old talked too dirty all the time so she broke up with him in d first week.. but neither of them gave her much hugs or held her hand or anything like that.. she told me that im the best bf she ever seen or had and she's always hugging me and when we have to leave each other she always lets me kiss her cheek if were alone, or if were in public she hugs me and whispers 'i love you' and 'i miss you already' after i say it first. she said that im so much better than the other 2 guys aswell... but there is a few things thats weiirrdd... we live right next to each other, so if either of us are out the backgarden we can see each other from our windows. but when ever she's at her window or im at mine she waves at first and smiles at me, but then she completely ignores me when i try to call her again.. i catch her sneaking a look at me every now and then though.. like if i call her loads she'll answer but if i call her like less than 5-10 times she'll ignore me.. but whenever i have to close my window i blow her a kiss and she would blow one back (most of d time), sometimes she just looks on the ground and ignores that i did it.. oh and my brother asked her would she kiss me (i didnt ask him to) and she said no.. but she kissed the other two guys when they asked her (i dont mind tho, im just wondering why), and she says she likes me more :P we've liked each other for 1-2 months now but were only going out for 5 days today, haha :P but she kissed the 13 year old on their 5th day ;O =P its not even that i want a kiss that bad its just.. you know what i meen :P
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Q1. Is 15 too old to date a 13?
Q2. Do you know why she ignores me like that?
Q3. The kiss thing :P
Oh and one last thing.. when ever i have to leave her, even though we had a really good time, i still feel worried that i annoyed her or i didnt say goodbye properly or something... even though i probably did... i know these things are only SMALL problems but im just wondering :] thanks. (link)
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Hey! I do not think 15 is too old to be dating a 13 year old. I know a lot about this kind of stuff because it goes on all around me. I am 15 as well. So anyways, thats only two years. She probably ignores you because she feels like you do not cal her enough. (Believe me you call her PLENTY! =D)you have to consider she is 13. Although that was two years ago, I grew up a lot ince then. At 13 I was like her! I always wanted to be on the phone, constantly. But now, it's different. So she probably gnores you because of that. Maybe you should talk to her, she should understand why you feel the way you do. And the kissing, you have let that come on its own (I know you don't have to, but I do not know what she would want). Like you said, you haven't been goin out very long, maybe you should wait a little bit longer and if nothing happens, maybe you should make the first move. Hope this helps you! (Oh and by the way, don't worry! I get all worked up over small stuff too so its totally ok! To me, it's the small stuff that matters!) Good Luck!
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I find my self asking questions on this site about anything and everything that im feeling just to know that some body out there cares and wants to help. i havent had a girlfriend in 5 years'ish, and the only girls in my life that i have ever wanted to love all have boy friends now. feeling like iv been left behind... maybe im too closed off to people, i used to get bullied as a kid a bit but then i grew up and actually became quite normall with a bunch of a friends and the peopel that used to bully me i have forgivven (kids do stupid stuff and i try not to dwell on the bad things) they have all grown up too now and are quite decent people really when it comes down to it. (not all of them grew up though..) anyway's i guess because of that i spent most of my childhood thinking that i am unwanted among other people besides my family and the few friends i had back then. now im 18 (male) and i guess, beneath the forgiving happy allways smiling face that so many people at college allways like to see me as i guess i am just... lonley as hell, i dont open up to many people and if i do its on the internet because i can be annonymous if i want to be. i try to tell people how i feel but they allways talk to some one else about it, taking today for example i was passing notes to my friend (who's a girl) and the convo wasnt a very interesting one so i wrote somthing about me being a bit horny and why the hormones dont lay off a bit till i get a girlfriend as a joke. its sotmhing that i would share with her because i could trust her... she laughs and reads it out loud in a silent room. i went bright red with sheer shock embarrsesment and anger but as i allways do bottled it in and plugged me self into some heavy metal to burn my anger in somthing creativel'y brutal. i guess while i was getting that off my chest i forgot what my real question was... sorry its a long read, but detailed advice would be greatly appreciated to help me along with this problem i got, thanks.
by the way i dont think my friend got why i was upset and i wouldnt tell her, does she have a right to know? i keep telling my self i dont tell people whats wrong with me because its either not thier problem or i care for them too much to make them unhappy and involved with my problems
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Hey you know do not beat yourself up. I feel that way all the time, believe me! All my friends they almost always appear like they are having a good time, (which in turn makes me feel left out)and there I am in a different mood not feeling what they feel so I do not tell them because I do not want to bring them down. I totally understand you completely. I have bottled up too many things in life (which I now regret even though I am not really that old at all!) so if you want to tell her you should. Maybe she will even understand where you are coming from, just like I do. Hope this helps and best of luck to you! =D
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hi everyone.
firstly i'm 16.
there is a guy i really like. he knows this - i've told him. he has said he likes me too.
anyway we had a fall out over something stupid - not serious at all, i can't believe we even argued about it.
but he won't talk to me now, at all. i have tried to call but he didn't answer. i text, no response. it's been 2 days now. i am not going to keep bothering him, but i like this guy more than he thinks.
i am getting the feeling i should just give up, because he doesn't want to talk to me?
help please!
loves x0x (link)
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Hi! Well, first of all, I totally know where your coming from. I am 15. You should probably just give him some time. If he wants to talk to you he will come around if not, things happen for a reason. I know this may sound lame, but it's true. The same happened to me and the guy I like but now were just friends. It took a while for him to come around, but he did. I don;t know this guy you like, but if he's not a jerk, he will talk to you. For now just relax. Hope this helps!
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im 40 (man) and live in chicago she 23 lives in michigan we have been talking for 1 yr and a half we have fallen in love to the point of she had said she allways wanted to be with me and planned a future allthough we talk sevreal times a day she has put off meeting and now says she is overwhelmed with our realtionship and wants to slow down is she with someone else? or is it her age ? why the big change she has written me many letters and cards saying how she wants us to be a (family)and she never wants to not be in my life and im the man she has been lookin for she does like older guys but im the oldest she has met and she says she has fallen for me we do exchange pics and cam and exchange gifts im toatally in love with her as well she is a smart profesional woman college educated and im a single father with a house what do i do to find the truth out she has a difficult time expressing her self unlike before were she allways told me she wanted us to allways be toghether she said shes becomeing messhed with me and shes geting scared i know she does love me ive tryed to break away and she crys and says she doesnt not want me in her life ? im so confused and in love ,,,help
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Hello! Well, I think she does love you just as much as you love her, but I think that she is just overwhelmed. I know it may not make the most sense, but I totally understand. Think of it this way, she really wants to be with you, (or else she would not cry for you)she probably just has a lot to think about. My father had the same problem, he was about your age and the woman was about 25 or 24. They liked each other vey much and wanted to be together. When she says she is scared, she is probably scared of commitment. I know for a fact she loves you but she is just thinking about her feelings about you. Try not to worry. Best of luck to you! Hope this helps =)
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i wanted to take some pictures for my fiance....like you half nude and stuff. i got a disposable camera and i= started to take some pictures well its hard to do a whole lot when im the only one holding the camera so i was wondering if someone could give me some ideas so i could finish off the roll of film.....like different positions or outfits or expresions......i just need some ideas
thanx (link)
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Hello, I am not to good with this subject, however, I tink something that would be hot would maybe be some where you would lie in bed just covered by sheets. I have seen celebrities do that so that might be okay. Sorry if this was not the best advice. Best of luck to you and your future husband!
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