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Hi,
my names Hermione as you may have guessed. I found this site whilst browsing one day and i though it was a really lovely idea and i wanted to be part of it. My firends are always coming to me with their problems because i'm always the sensible one. so i thought it eould be nice if i could help other people too.
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hi,theres this girl we have kissed but it was just her kissing me an i said im a better kisser then her lol she said well next time i see her i can prove it to her..in 2 days im teaching her how to play basketball and when i see her im going to tell her to close her eyes an im going to french kiss her i wana no how to make her get goosebumps and where to touch her like on her check and run my hands down her spine an that like in the movies when a girl doesnt no what to do after the kis

or girls tell me how you liked to be kissed thanks.. (link)
Aww that sound really romatic. sounds like you've got it planned enough. It's a natural thing, like it's already in us that we know how to do it. Just be natural, it will feel right, don't plan it too much or it'll loose its sponteneity. Spontaneous kiss are really romantic so i think thats all you need to do. Just go for it!
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ok so this guy and me have been bff since forever!!
so recently i started to like him and i told him he said he thinks he likes me too..
only thing is he has a gf
he has been sayin for over a month that he is gonna break up with her but when ever i ask about it now he trys to avoid the subject.
he has been flirting alot lately
and we have gotten more "physical"
and he keeps tellin me how he loves me and doesnt want to lose me.
then why wont he break up with M??
i need help does he like me or should i just go back to being friends? (link)
It sound like he does like you but he's torn between you and his girlfriend. It sound like he doesn't wan to make a decision. maybe he doesn't want to risk your friendship, i mean, if you date, and then break up you have to be sure that you could go back to being just friends. Maybe he's scared he'll loose you and so he's delaying breaking up with his girlfriend so he can be sure because it would be awful to loose your friend over. But you can't let him mess you around forever. He has to decide at some point. you've told him how you feel and he's said he like you back, so i think you need to talk to him again. Ask him why he hasn't broken up with her. Try and talk through it.
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i have not made out b4 and i am going to this weekend but i have a retainer and if i take it out i have a missing tooth is it hard to make out with a retainer? thanks (link)
If your used to wearing it then there shouldn't be a problem at all. It wont feel any different, if your used to wearing it.
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I'm a 16 year old female and I have been dating a boy for about 3 years, we are very close and really care about each other. We are also about to move in together in a few months. But i also have this other guy he was my first love and i dont think we ever truly let go of one another. The other weekend he and i went camping with some friends and we got alot closer it feels as though we rekindle that old flame. I love my current boyfriend alot and dont want to lose or hurt him but when im with this other boy i feel that same love for him.
What should i do?
Someone please help.

Signed,
Confused Heart (link)
Your first love is always really special, it's something you'll never forget. Which is why your feeling this towards him. You first have to find out whether your ex feels the same way you do, and whether he wants a relationship and its not jsut old feels rising to the surface that are quickly going ot be forgotten again. But you've got to ask yourself: is it really worth throwing away your current relationship on the hopes that you'll rekindle the feelings you both had? It's as simple as that, if you feel that it is worth the risk then you have to trust your feeling and go for it. But if not, if your not sure that you want to risk what you've got then you have your answer.
you've jsut got to trust yourself.
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Alright, my bf doesn't want me to come with to pick up his best friend at the airport because he says it's his friend and I don't even know him. But what's the big deal? He makes a big deal about it and I just want to come with my bf.

What do you guys think about it? (link)
Don't worry about it. you boyfriend is probably thinking about you, even if the way he put it doesn't show you that. If he hasn't seen his friend in a long time they'll be catching up and talking non-stop about stuff you may not know about (especially if you don't know his friend). So Your boyfriend probably just doesnt want you to feel left out and uncomfortable. Plus, if you're there then he feels that his attention had to be divided between the two of you which means that, either you'll feel that your being ignored a little bit or his friend feels like he's being ignored. your boyfriend probably just wants to do this by himself to make the situation easier for everyone and i'm sure you'll get to meet this friend, of course your boyfriend will want to show you off to him, but you can do it in a better, more comfortable situation.
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how can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating on you? (link)
If you suspect your boyfriend is cheating on you then there isn't really a way of finding out. Relationships are based on trust and if your doubting him then the trust is being tested. If you try underhanded ways of finding out, such as reading the messages on his phone, if you find out he's not then you'll feel so guilty that you suspected that he was. OR if you get caught he's going to be more angry than if you came out and asked him straight. So my advice is to ask him, but be tactful about it. Ask him if there's anything he needs to tell you, or how he feels your relationship is going. If he's going to tell you then you'd be giving him the best time to. you could even tell him how you really feel about him. All these things may make him reconsider his actions (if he is cheating) and he may realise what he's doing is wrong, and if he's not thn no harm done.
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What should I do if my cousin keeps callin my boyfreind just because they work together? She says that they just have a "sister brother" relationship ,but he says that he can't stand it when she calls. I confronted her about callin him everyday and told her to stop but she keeps callin! When I try to talk to her about the situation she acts all childish and doesn't want to talk. So I try to talk to my other friends about it but they tell her what I be saying even though I want to tell her myself and now my boyfriends upset because he thinks that I want to fight her so he wants to sqaush the whole thing. 17andconfused! (link)
I know she's your cousin and you did the right thing by confronting her about it first. but if it's your boyfriend that doesn't like her calling him then maybe he should be the one to talk to her. If they have that 'sister brother' relationship then they should be able to talk, or maybe you could talk to her together. Just say that you dont appreciate her calling, keep the conversation casual and don't let it get too heavy or she might feel as though you're both attacking her. Just explain how its making you feel and she should understand.
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