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Q: Okay, has anyone out there been in a situation where you think you're getting a crush on someone and you really don't want it?
That's kinda the situation I'm in right now. He's my guy friend...I refuse to like him. I have a boyfriend whom I adore to absolutely no end. My guy's perfect for me, and he has plans, and he loves me, and I'm safe with him.
My friend, though, has recently been hinting that he likes me, and he knows I have a boyfriend - so he won't try anything. Some little part of me, though, almost wants him to.
What the heck is wrong with me? I think part of it is because he's a good friend, and we have a lot in common...but I know for a fact that it wouldn't work - I've tried relationships where I had almost everything in common with the guy, and they REALLY didn't work. Especially not with someone as competitive as I am. I'm majorly into music, and those guys were too. (So is my friend I'm talking about here)
How do you kill a crush without making yourself hate the guy? (That's what I've done in the past, and I don't want to hate him 'cause he's a sweetheart...)
GAH.
Help? Lol.

Hey Girly
It sucks!but just think about your guy and how much you love him and.. you can just think about one thing you dont like about your guy friend. that way you dont hate him but you arnt falling for him
*~* hope i helped*~*~

Q: I like this boy and I think he could grow to like me if he knew I liked him 2.Problem is I'm too afraid to find out in case it's the wrong answer.Even if he does consider it my ex(bastard)would surely steer him in the other direction not out of jealousy but out of spite .Plus he didn't go out with me for me .He just wanted somebody to kiss.Besides he used to flirt with my friend right in front of me.

Hey girly,
Just go for it.Or if you dont want to confront him yourself have your friend do it for you.But make sure he is away from all of his friends and make sure the friend you choose is someone you can trust.Well I hope i Helped. And if you want im always here on youaremybaby6!
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