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Q: can you french kiss with braces? i met this guy i really like and i think were ready to take it to the mext step.
of course you can! just be smooth, and everything should be okay, be confident and everything will be ok!

Q: Some background information before I start: I'm in high school. My boyfriend just graduated high school. We have a fairly strong relationship and plan on living together as soon as we both finish college. He's had one other serious girlfriend, who he dated for 3 years. He loved her but went too far one night with another friend of his. Though he was completely honest about it with her and they tried to repair their relationship, the damage was done, and they broke up. He met me soon after, and our relationship began.
Even though I know we truly love each other, I can't help but think that I'm only second best in his heart. He has conflicting feelings about his ex-girlfriend still, after all of this time with me. He says that he can't stand her anymore and wouldn't talk to her if he saw her, but it's clear to me that somewhere inside, he still loves her.
This is where the problem begins. They're going to college together. The chance that they would see each other is very high, and knowing the type of person my boyfriend is (the type who likes problems resolved and who can't forget problems), he would talk to her. I know he wouldn't plan to do anything with her and that if anything did happen, he would tell me straight away. But I'm scared that it will happen, and that he'll choose her over me. I would be truly heartbroken if I lost him.
I'm scared to talk to him about this because I'm afraid of the truth, hearing what I don't want to be true.
What do you make of this situation?
P.S. Sorry about the long post!
Personally, i do not think you have a thing to worry about. You need to be confident that he loves you with all his heart and everything will be okay, never doubt that until he gives you a reason. He is a grown up, if he wants to talk to his ex he can, he is not doing anything wrong. Just because they talk does not mean he is cheating on you, just let it be. He might just want to mend the fences with her so he can get some closure and have a stronger relationship with you, thats not a bad thing at all. Try not to over analyze it, and when you do just think to your self that HE LOVES YOU, he picked you, and he is yours now. forever and always.

Q: ok hes only 1 yeah older but still.
im scared hes going to want to kiss me and im scared cause i dont know how..im 13 and hes 14.
like how do i know if he wants to kiss me? and how do i kiss him. like, all the ways to kiss.
lol and please no links.


Thank ya!
well if hes older than you he most likely will want to kiss you at some point in your relationship.He will definatly give you signs before he leans in for a kiss like saying things literally like kiss me. he will grab your chin and grab you closer, he might also give you a peck on the cheek when you guys say good bye . as far as how to kiss is very layed back to think to much about it or else it will be uncomfortable. Follow what his lips and tilt your head with your eyes closed. if he wants to make out he will slip his tongue in and if you dont want to just pull away he will appreciate it in the end. if you want to go for it just open your mouth bigger and massage his tongue with yours. hoped i help

Q: how do you say yes ?
and like
how does someone ask will you go out with me ?
wanna be my gf?
or what !?
helpppp
ok well if someone that u like asks you just say sure, yes or ofcourse look at thim in the eye and say yes if they are asking you out be like sure id love to if they ask you to be your gf/bf be like ya or say yes and give them a hug BUT REMEBER TO LOOK AT THEM IN THE EYES!!

Q: i say making-out is kisssing for moree than maby 10 seconds but my boyfriend said that making-out is kissing and touching each other while your kissing.he'se convinced of his side but im very sure im right i just wanna make sure.
ok well making out is a multidude of things:kissing for longer then 10 seconds, feeling you up, tongue action...a kiss is more of a peck you kno? hope this helps..if you have any questions at all just come talk i check this alot if you are interested you can have a contact info

Q: this is a question for girls or guys...but i am really really scared about my relationship with my boyfriend...so i need some experienced answers.
how can you tell if a guy is still "emotionaly attached" to his exg/f????
thank you
you can pretty much tell if his whole mood has changed fast, if he starts talking about her to you and to his friends, he talks to her when your around him or just in general, and also if he is afraid about going to the next step with you

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