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If my guy isnt making the first move, do I do it?? (link)
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well i don't know. see here is the thing, me & my boyfriend well it's kinda sad to say but we have been goin out for the 5th time. Well this is our 5th time. before when i liked him i made the 1st move by likeing him, then after that he made the 2nd move by liking me back, then i he made the 3rd move too my starting to hug, kiss, & hold my hand. I don't know where yu are is your relationship right now so i really don't know what to say, but I hope i helped atleats a little bit. good luck!
You know you love me,
*Nicole xoxo x3*
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im really confused about alot of things right now. I have been getting to know this 21 year old really well and we have become really good friends, but it seems like more than friends. I am only 15, and he always tells me that he wants a relationship with me but i dont want to take the chance of his getting in trouble. but the problem is he likes just about every girl that he meets..but he also has been hurt alot in life with girls, there have been girls that left him and went and slept with guys for drugs, so its not always easy for him either. My moms says if he ever touches me she will shoot him and im jus so confused because weve already done stuff she just dosnt know please tell me what i should do:( (link)
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You should stop hanging out with him. i know that may not be much of a big difference to you, but that is 6 years!!! Honey, look that is scary to me by when you said "we've already done stuff", that isn't right. he is in colledge, & not only is he older then you , he knows more then you!!! That means he could say somthing tht you have o clue what it means, then you will do it, & then you will probaly get into trouble. I know what I just said didn't probaly make sense at all. but there is realy nothin i can do about it now that you have already done it.
I'm sorry. I hope I helped.
you know you love me,
*nicole xoxo x3
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ok so heres the story please help i will try to make it short! Theres this boy let me call him fred thats not his real name but anyway he tried to break me up with my bf when i was 16 he did and then i grew to like him alot.Then i never spoke to him for 6 months and he told my friend when he saw me on the bus once he felt pain! he called me the other day and also texted me asking me to meet up but now hes on holiday.I feel like i really miss him now but i just want to hide the fact i like him, i don't know if he likes me? i don't know if he will contact me when i get back someone please advice me thank you x (link)
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Okay well he idd try to break you & your bf up right?? & I bet you really liked him to. i have a friend & lets just call him george he is right at this moment trying to break me & my boyfriend who I admire & love the most up. He ever started a "I hate nicole & *******" group. That is really mean. Well if you wanna find out if he likes you ask one of your friends, or ask one of his friends to ask him.That is what i would do if I were you. I hope i helped.
you knwo you love me,
nicole xoxo x3
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okay i have this guy friend that i'm really close to. were always playing w/each other but is it flirting? like today on IM he said "omg you looked so HOT today! j/p" and i said "yeah you too ;-)" but i mean is he flirting w/me??? were pretty open w/each other and everything. but he asked my bff out and she turned him down and i don't think he's quite over her... is this flirting? thanks (link)
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i wouldn't say flirting but i mean saying that kinda stuff like "j/p" you never know he could if ment that. Like he might not of known what your response was to when he said that so that is why he said like "just playing".I think that he may like you. I mean once my bff turned down this one guy who asked her out, so that guy moved on to me! But the thing is you never know if that guy really likes you or not. So really i think that is flirting!
Hope it all works out!
you know you love me,
*nicole xoxo*
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okay so me and some of my friends were havin a sleepover and we played truth or dare. it was so much fun we went streaking and tping and stuff but all of a sudden girls started makin out with other girls. then it was my turn and my friend katies turn who is like the prettiest girl in the school. all of a sudden shes naked and i like it! i start doing stuff to her and now im naked and its amazing! does this mean im bi? because if i had to chose i would go for guys definitly but idk what got into me..but i loved what me and katie did! it was amazing! help =-/ (link)
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Well i woldn't say bi but i mean that is weird. If you really arn't that type of person that likes girls, then i would defentally get out of the habbit of having sex with other girls. Cuz i mean did you ever think about this way, you guys didn't get tested, you could have AIDS,all kinds of crap like that. So in my opinion i would stop. I really want to help you, & i know the trouble your gong through. . .but there is nothing i can do now. You guys already "did it", so the only thing we can do is wait. & see what happens.
Hope it all works out!
you know you love me,
*Nicole xoxo*
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Im kinda confused, i just had a wonderful bf that was better then any other 1 i had EVER, we went out the first time and my friend broke us up, then wen he found out a whole long conversation started and my best friend got us bak together, then we made a promise that if anything i will talk about it first be4 braking up... i really really liked him but after a while everything just fadded away, then i had to dump him and forgot the promise i had made, i asked ppl 4 advise on wat i shud do and sum said dump him... so i took there advise and dumped him, it was a hard thing to do.... he still kinda likes me (hav no idea y) and i do not know wat to do... should i make him happy and keep my promise, give him 1 last chance, or leave him heart broken... (link)
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Well you did say you guys have been going out twice. Didn't you? Well in my opinion that is my limit. I know dumping people is a hard thing to do especially if you like him, and he really liked you in return. Also don't take other peoples advice. He's your boyfriend. . .so you choose! You shouldn't let other people choose for you. Maybe you should talk to him about your feelings. About how you broke your promise & your really sorry,but if you don't like him then i mean that is just like using him. So if you don't really like i would sugest just asking for you guys to just be friends. If you do give him one more chance that would obviouly mean that you would have to like him.So i think you should just talk to him, tell him your sorry for breaking the promise, & say "Listen I just want to be friends". It's as easy as that. He'll get over you eventually so don't worry about a thing.
Hope I helped.
P.s I know what your going through that EXACT same thing just happend to me & now me & him are better friends then EVER.
Good Luck,
Nicole xoxo
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Ok so this Junior likes me & i really like him too its just that we dont talk alot & i dont see him alot. But I really wanna get to know him alot more so that maybe eventually we could go out..do you have any suggestions for what i could say/do to get to know him alot better... (link)
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Okay well what i would do, is talk to him. I mean that is the ABSOLAUTE BEST thing you can do to get to know a guy. i mean right? So just talk to him every once in a while, get to know him better, then maybe you guys will get to kow each other so well that you can goi out.
Hope it all works out,
you know you love me,
Nicole
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a few months ago, i was rejected by this guy. now i like his friend. i wanna ask him out, but would i look desperate if i did? (link)
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Probally not. You wanna know why? Cause liking somone is not a crime.You should ask the guy who rejacted you what his friend thinks about you. Then maybe the guy you got rejaected by maybe can become a close friend and you & his friend can go out. That is how i picture it.
Good Luck!
you know you love me ,
Nicole
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The guy i like is always lookin at me. does he like me back or am i jus paranoid? (link)
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Alot of guys look look at girls. Some look at them cuz they like them or they are just starting out somewhere. You know what I mean. Well if i were you, i would talk to him, or ask a friend to ask him how he feels about you. Then maybe you will find your answer.
Good Luck!!!
you know you love me,
Nicole
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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird? (link)
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In my opinion i would find that kinda weird. Because you are like supposed to charish those moments, not ruien them.
you know you love me,
nicole
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My friend that I have known for four years has a cousin who likes me and I kind of like him the only problem is my friend has just told me that he likes me. What should I do I don't want to come between them?
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You should just tell your friend you don't want to come betweeen them but just say like i kind of have feeling for your cousin. Don't worry she won't be mad. maybe later in the future she can acually have you guys hooked up & goin out! haha
Well hope it all turns out good.
you know you love me,
Nicole
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everything is starting to go wrong today two guys played me without me even noticing i feel so awful and depressed its been a few months since my last boyfriend and i really thought it would work out with the first guy i thought he would never hurt me then there was another girl and all the shit he told me i actually fell for it
then with the other guy i was falling for him hes interested in me and everything but now hes saying he has a gf i dont understand this shit
and when i think about it i have no intentions of going out with the second guy
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Okay wel it seems like you have a real way with guys.Look i feel realy sorry for you. I can't belive that they did that to you!!! The first boy said that he liekd another girl & you , and then the second one said that he had a girlfriend??? Well there really isn't anything you can do about it. There are just some mean people in the world & you just have to know that.
Hope I helped,
you know you love me,
Nicole
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Hey its me again.... I have a crush on my best friend (opposite sex) i mean hes not my omg best best friend but hes my best guy friend and i like him. I really want him to know how i feel but im don't wanna lose the relationship i already have with him because the last guy i liked wouldnt talk to me at all so i feel really lucky to likesomeone who will talk to me and all. i know that if i tell him im shy so i will start acting weird around him then he probably will too
OK... if i do decide to tell him how i feel i have an idea and im wondering if its a good idea or not....
i wont be seeing him for two weeks coming up should i have my friend on the last day before the 2 weeks go up to him and be like i think *my name* likes you but i dont know.... then he can think about it or w/e?? (link)
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okay, the point is, unless you go for it, you'll never know if he would ever like you or not. And that would be brutal.
If you two are as really close as you say, then even if you do make a move, and he isn't into it, he'll get over it. Quickly take my word for it. The same thing happend to me a couple years ago-and even though things didn't work out romantically {and belive me, it was all for the best },it didn't hurt our friendship one bit. Sure, there were some initial weirdness between us, but now we joke about it. And were better friends then ever.So I say, don't just stand there-- Bust a move!
Good luck!!!
you know you love me,
Nicole
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