Ok, so I am a guy, but I kinda prefer hanging around with girls most of the time. I'm straight, but I don't have much patience for the whole guy talk scene. I'm mature for my age (And i'm not particularly young lol). My main goal in life is to get a family I love and own a house of my own xD
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I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long! (link)
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Not too long at all.
Not knowing you or your guy, I couldn't say for sure. There may be factors involved that I'm unaware of. From what you have told me though, it sounds like he originally thought it would be perfectly fine to do, but then when you started bringing up secrets he got scared and decided to hide rather than be up front about it.
The first thing you have to remember is that no-one is perfect, and what he's done isn't honestly that bad. Unless you have told him previously that what he has put on this group is private. What's more. Alot of guys like to boast about their current girlfriends, especially when it comes to sex. If he wasn't doing it in this group he'd be doing it somewhere less obvious.
Of course I'm NOT taking his side. I'm just making it clear that this isn't really something you should break up over, if you like him as much as you seem to. However if it does bother you this much, confront him about it! Tell him you found it before he made it private and that it bothers you. Hear his side of the story. Let him defend himself before you do anything drastic =]
If he denies the whole thing after being confronted directly (and you're SURE it was him who has made this group, etc) then THAT is something you should dump him over. Outright lies shouldn't be tolerated in a relationship, after all, he could be lying about other things aswell as clearly lying to you isn't a problem. (This is only the case if he denies after confrontation though...)
Sorry if that was too long an answer ;)
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how do u make out with a guy at the movies this is my first time n i need to now what it means an how to do it (link)
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I'm assuming you're quite young. I whole heartedly apologise if this is not the case. With this assumption comes the fact that your boyfriend is also most likely young (Again, I apologise for any incorrect assumptions)
You're both young, so neither of you know what you're doing. Wanna know the best way to kiss? Make it fun! Laugh at each other for doing it wrong, and most importantly, let each other know that it's ok to not be perfect. You don't need to be good at kissing to be a good girlfriend, it comes with practice. He wont care if you suck, he'll be too happy that he got to kiss you ;)
I hope it goes well. Just relax and let yourself go with the flow!
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I have been with my boyfriend for about 8 and 1/2 months now, and we've done a lot of kissing. We also have done fingering and blow jobs, hand jobs and such. I was wondering what else i could do to keep my boyfriend satisfied, but without having sex because i am afraid of pregnancy. Does anyone have any ideas? (link)
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I lost my technical virginity at 16, I had a girlfriend from 14 years old to that time, so I know what you're going through.
My best memory was of me sitting next to my then girlfriend in class and she would play with me under the table. That was fun because of the risk factor.
If you don't like the idea of during school, try on a bus or train.
That might not be your thing, but it definitely got me through two years of abstinence :)
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