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okay well me & my boyfriend just broke up like 2 weeks ago. he broke up with me because supposivley we never really saw eachother even though i'd ride my bike 2 1/2 miles like everyday to see him. we were going out since May 27th 2005. i still really like him alot. anyways, he just moved to the town i live in & is a grade ahead of me ( hes in 7th grade) & like every girl in that grade has a crush on him & i think thats the reason why he broke up with me is to go out with one of those sluts.i see him like every weekend & don't know what to think. i go skating every weekend & so does he so thats where i see him. when he hangs around other girls i act like i could careless but then i go & cry.this happens all the time & i can't get over him & i really want to go back out with him. what should i doo. ? :(

ok well if he finds a girlfriend try and get over her try not to go skating when he does if it just makes yoou mad like go on a friday night or a saturday night when ever he isnt there. you can hang out with friends most of the time when you are with friends you are having fun and that should get him off your mind for about as long as ur friends are with you. you can tell him how you feel and if he doesnt care than he isnt worth your tears seriously.

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Okay heres my problem...well anyways i have this boyfriend and he lives like 3 hours away from me and he is 2 years older than me..well there is this other guy that lives here and he treats me like gold and he is really cute but so is my boyfriend and like i dont want to to my boyfriend that i have done other things with the guy that lives down here but then i feel really guilty for doing that...soo i have no clue what to do??

well you can break up with your boyfriend since he is about 3 hours away or tell your boyfriend what you have been doing.

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hey umm well theres these two ppl I like
i like both sooo much, but I dont know if they like me
im always to afraid to ask them
i talk to them a lot and stuff but i dont know if that is good enough for them to like me
so how can i know if they like me??????

well you can ask a friend to ask them but you will never know for sure until you ask them or they tell you just flirt with them and the worst they can say is no they dont like you thats not to bad.

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i went out with this kidd like a longg time agoo and i think i still like him and every time i try to contact him the conversation is always really short i tink i still like him and he doesnt go to my school anymore what do i do. im pretty sure i like him

ok well you could still like him but if the convo is short and you dont rlly get to see him as much as before he could have a girlfriend just ask him if he likes you if he says yes than the convos you can make them last longer and hang out but if he says no than just try and find someone else that you like in your school it will be hard to get over him but idk for you cause you dont even know if you still like him or not.

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hey can you help me? one of my friends name is John and his friend pedro likes me but i like john and i really really wanna be johns girl but pedro is awesome to but i dont know who to pick but also i dont wanna pick tha wrong boy...or i dont wanna hurt any ones feelings because also john and me maybe goin out soon...we asked him today if he`ll go out with me at first he said no then he said yes so i think we go out...DOES THIS MAKE ANY SENSE?!? lol ill rate 5
thx plz help

since you like john i thionk you should go out with him i dont think pedro is good for you only unless you like pedro cause thats not really fair to him if he likes you but you dont like him. and it seems like you and john are going to be going out so yeah you kinda already picked between those two.

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uhh hey i know i just asked a question but uhh one of my friends smokes and i like him and he likes me ..i dont smoke at all im 13/f and hes 14/m and we might start goin out...should i smoke or not ..? im so confused..!

i wouldnt smoke just to please him. It causes a lot of bad things and its hard to stop breathing smoke in is bad also so if you want you can ask him not to smoke that much around you.

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ok so.. theres is htis boy i like and he likes me so he gonna dump his girlfreind for me but i am freinds with his girlfreind so i will feel really bad cuz hten he will like me what should i do?

well it depens on how good of a friend she is if she is really good i wouldnt take him away from her cause thats just you not being a good friend . if there relationship is shaky ask her about it first if she doesnt mind but if she really likes him i wouldnt even try it.

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hey! well heres my problem. i like this guy. he's the same age as me but in the grade below me.. we went to the dance together and all my friends were ragging on me because he's in the grade below. they think he's not good enough. but i really like him. and the big problem is that he only likes me as a friend..and when my guy friends try to get him to tell why he only likes me as a friend he doesnt answer. i just dont know what to do about all of this! can you give me some advice?? if so then thnx a million!

well it could be because he doesnt want to deal with your friends and all they have to say or that he may think you are older even though your not it could be because of the grade thing i dont know its different for everyone. You can write him a letter just something that says you really like him and you are wondering why he only likes you as a friend.

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heyy sup your advice does work but i need more advice ok there is this guy that likes me right but i have a boyfriend but that guy that likes me grabbed be by the hips and kissed me on the cheek and i dont kno how to tell my boyfriend and i didnt plan for the guy that likes me to do that but idk how to tell my boyfriend well to tell you the truth i did tell him but he was like ok dont let it happen again and he was like only my lips belong on your cheek and your lips but he didnt seem happy he look mad furious and really sad i feel so bad now idk what to do anymore i told the guy not to come by me anymore but he keeps on comeing by me he doesnt listen and im afraid that he might do something again aNd YOu kno i have to tell my boyfriend everything. WHAT DO I DO HELP.

ok you can call you boyfriend on the phone and tell him also if that guy comes near you just walk away from him try not to let him come atlest 6 feet away cause he could try and hug you from the back or something like that.

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ok so i like this boy but he is kinda a weirdo like he crys to much... but i still like him but everyone keeps telling me to duump him but i don`t wanna but i mean i can`t take his personality it just drives me crazyy... what should i do?

Well you can just try and change hi without him knowing you are changing him like when he crys ask him to go into a bathroom or just tell him not to listening to the people or w.e he is crying about.

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hey uhh im 12/f but my birthday is comeing up on october 13th and i havent gotten my first kiss...whut age did u get yer first kiss at and whuut do i do when he wants to kiss me??
alot of boys wanna kiss me but i juss tell them im to shy and i dont like them..but i really like this kid and hes been staring at me and stuff and idk whut to do
plz help

ill rate 5

I was 12 for my 1st kiss it was on my 12th birthday. ok well he could like you if he is staring at you if the boy you like wants to kiss you go ahead and kiss him kissing is not bad and its also good that you like him. you can just gte closer to him and he might get the idea you want to kiss him and he will probaly kiss you back but for now in school hang out with him.

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i dont kno what to do i have a boyfriend but i never get to see him i dont even have his phone number.
IM getting sick of never seeing him.I havent seen him at all dude i was so close to seeing him but he was taking a shower and i was in a hurry so i left i was about to see him when he was playing football agenst lamphere but i would have to wait like 4 hours until he would finish the game. And whenever he comes here im always gone god he doesnt even call me so that i could kno to stay home? i dont kno what to do plz help me.

well you can talk to him on aim or yahoo if you have that if not than you can go to his house again ask for his phone # or go to another one of his foot ball games but wait till it is almost over if you dont know the time bring you friends and ask him when you get there when it is going to be over and hang out with your friends there than. but once you get his number you can just make plans talk more everything.

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Hey, im 12, female and i am in 7th grade. there is this guy that i found out liked me and his name is ben. me and him were becoming really good friends the past 2 weeks. we flirted a lot but i never really liked him... one of his x-girlfriends told me that he liked me. i thought she was kidding but it was getting around our school real fast. everyone came up to me like your going out with ben? or omg ben lieks you !! and i never went out with him and i dont like him that way and i knew he liked me. i feel so bad to say no becasue he was such a good friend. i wish he never liked me becasue it made things kinda weird between us... he acts different...one of my really really good friends- fred told him that i loved him as a joke and got kinda mad... but i told ben that i didnt love him adn he kinda got hurt and i feel soo bad.. what should i do? how should i act? should i say something to him? im so confused

ok well you can just try and hook up with someone else so he gets the idea your taking. also you can say that you dont like him that way you want to be his friend and thats it. just say that your sorry and stuff....

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ok.. well i broke up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago... in class he is always staring at me and its really annoying and somewhat scary... my friends are annoyed by it to.do you think he still likes me? what should i do to get it to stop?

*aNnOyEd*

well yea i think he still likes you. you can just not look at him and hang out with other boys


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Me and my brothers best friend got really involved and I gave him my varginity!! Now I am not allowed to be near him becuase my brother feels that it would hurt me more. The fact was that he used me and I dont hate him. I want to see him so I could tell him how he really made me feel but no one will let me! What should I do? (i am now almost 16 and he is 20)
What should I do? I want him to know how much he hurt ME!

well you can call and talk to him like that or call him to met some where and tell him how your feel just dont tell anyone your going to see him or when your brother hangs out with him you can ask your brother to bring you alone just to tell him.

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well there is this boy and he always stares at me and i mean ALWAYS but in a good way but too much and he makes me laugh and is really nice to me..well today was picture day and there were 3 sections you can get your picture taken there were 3 girls taking their pic at the same time in different corners of the room ..well he watched me get my picture taken..and in spanish class our seats are in rows and we got to choose our seats and he chooses the the next to mine but ONE Down ...im suspecting he has a crush on me...what do you think.. im so0o confused P.S i now sit next to him in reading and im really like nervous around him ...today he didnt stare at me or talk to me

ok yea i think he likes you but you can also tell him you like him back or just keep doing this and flirt with him and maybe some thing good will happen....maybe he just had a bad day or something and he didnt want to take you out on your happyness see how he is tomorrow

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Ok first i would like to state i am a male 13
And i am in love with my best friend

A little backround info first Okay me and my best friend talk about everything!!! but shes been getting on me a lot about not smiling, looking depreesed, being all moody about what i say and do. now i love her to pieces but im getting really close to not hanging out w/ her anymore, Besides the fact that i like her and she knows and doesnt even eknowledge it. just w/ us being friends she is driving me Crazy

How do i tell her to shut the hell up about all that shit nicely
(i am a really sensative guy but shes on my last nerve.

Sorry i babbled on like this i gave a little too much info

well you can try and ask her whats wrong and give her a few days but if she doesnt change just hang out with your other friends for now till she changes around but you cant tell her to just change how shes feeling cause there could be something really wrong if she never acted like this before

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I am 13 Male

When my best friend (a girl a have a crush on) asks me a question about if she should go out with a certain boy whose side should i be on...
should i be on her side and say " Oh ya definitaly go out w/ him.
Or should i be on my side and be like "uh No you should stop looking at a ever other F ing boy but me.
Im sorry if this ? Seems dumb but i need advice hense me coming to this website

I rate Fives

PLEASE i am desparate

well you can tell her that you sorta like her

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Theres this boy that I met a while back, and I sorta like LOVE him! It's a weird feeling. When I got back that day from meeting him, I started imaginaing marrying him! He was so sweet, caring, and funny!! He was like my perfect boy! The thing is im 13/f and I don't even know if he likes me!! He's 14 and my family only sees his family once or twice a year!! Any advice on this situation?

well you can get his phone number and hang out with him sometimes or just to talk to him on the phone and since you dont really see him much you can tell him that you really like him and also you can ask him if he likes you and by the next time you seee him he probaly would of forgot.

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How long into a relationship would you wait to kiss [peck & make out] with your boyfriend/girlfriend? Thanks.

it depends in how close you are in your relationship. Just do it when ever you feel ready for it. I'd wait about a month cause you dont wanna rush anything

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