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hey, i was going out with this guy for almost 2 years, but then he dumped me and then he told me that he stoped liking me, but everyone says he still does and idk who to beleive him or everyone that he talks too? lyl feather
PS im 13 years old and a female.

I would call him or talk to him sometme and ask him what happened, dont jump to conculsions cause you never know what really is true.. good luck and let me know how it goes..
lyl
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ok so yeah i really like this guy hes so sweet hes a on the varsity football team as a sophmore hes a wrestler and so hott!! we are friends and everything already so i think that it would be good. hes like the perfect dream guy the problem is that he is my cousins best friend and they have been friends for the longest time too and his friend has been there for him through everything even the death of his father. so yeah i really want to go out with this kid but i mean i dont want to hurt my friendship with him or the relationship with my cousin or their friendship what should i do?

I would tell your cousin that you really like him. Then i would talk to him about it after you talk to your cousin~ i wouldnt be afraid though about going out with him because if you really like him that is all that matters!
good luck n tell us how it goes!!
ff&k

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What do i do i have the hots for mr.stangel!

laugh out loud jessica

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My friend is going out with a guy that's a year younger than us (whom i like too.)He's like my best guy friend and i feel a little protective of him because a lot of people just want to go out with him for his looks and it's so annoying to me because they don't even know him the way i do. He flirts with me online and we can besically talk about anything. His girlfriend now won't even talk to him and she wants to break up with him, although i don't think she will. Please help! What should i do! i can't talk to him alone anymore because of her and i really just want to be with him! Should i ask her how she feels about him and and how she feels the relationship is going, in a friendly way? I'm not sure what i should do. I need another person's oppinion. Just to let you know, i'm 14, he's 13.

I hate that when people go out with people for their looks, and you really know the person. I would defintly tell your friend that it is unfair to keep her bf hanging on this long if she doesnt like him. Then, i would let her break up with him and then be there for him, hopefully he will bounce right back! Then you can talk to him and you dont have to worry about her going out with him just for his looks!!
xoxoxo
hope i have helped
tell us how it goes!
FF&M

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OK here it goes. I go out with this girl and we used to spend time with each other all the time until i moved. So right now we r having a long distance relationship. Now everytime I talk to a certain girl she thinks I am cheating on her even when I tell her time to time again that I love her and I would never ever do nothing like that. She writes things about my friends that i don't like and that really gets on my nerves. Basically she doesnt trust me at all. Should I dump her or should I just talk to her. 13/m

I suggest that you talk to her more about the trust thing. One of the most important parts of realtionships is trust. Then, i would respond to her letters just talking about the new place where you moved and how u miss her and she will get the point that you dont want to her about your friends that you dont like. If she continues to blame you of cheating, i would break up with her because that is just too much added pressure for nothing that you did wrong. Good luck with this and plz tell us how it goes~
xoxoxo
KK&F

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im madly in love with my best friend, lets call him chandler (sorry i like that name lol). well chandler knows i like him but he still wants to be my best friend because he knows that i like him and i never want to lose him. well i really want to ask him out but last time i asked this guy out he said no because im more of a girl whos friends with a guy and not girl friend material. i think chandler sort of agrees with him so how do i make him like me? we like the same stuff and we are always constently touching each other and laughing like its no big deal. i really like him but i want him to like me the same way back. any suggestions??

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MaD LoVe

As you make it seem, he likes you but he is afraid to go out because he thinks of you as a best friend and not a girl friend. Definitly talk to him and tell him that REALLY REALLY like him and that you KNOW that you guys will still be friends throught the realtionship and even if you break up. And if that doesnt work then i would just accept him as your best friend. Because frendship is the start to a great relationship. Let time work itself out and see what happens!
I hope everything works out great for you! :)
xoxoxoxoxo

KK&F

dont forget to tell us how things go plz~

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About a month ago, I got asked to go to a concert. Well, this guy's mother asked my mom if I wanted to go and bring a friend. Our parents are like best friends, so that's why he didn't ask me in person. And I have no problem with that. So I invited a friend to go with me. We had a really good time. My friend and I were the only two girls there. All the guys that were there were really nice to us. There were seven of them. He picked us up and brought us home too. He was really nice to us. Anyways, the guy that we went with- I don't like him as a crush, but we're friends. He has a girlfriend, but it wasn't at the time of the concert. I was just wondering what that means. Like, are we just friends, or more. I think that we're just friends, but what are some other opinions.

P.S. I've been over to his house a lot to swim, he's been over to mine for lots of stuff too. But our parents are really good friends and so are our sisters.

Its hard to say if u guys r more then just friends until u talk to HIM about it.. Then you should consult him about if you honestly like him or not..
good luck~ and dont hold urself back! :)
xoxoxo, FF& m
dont forget to write back telling us how it went or any ?'s!!

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idk when to hug my bf?

You should hug your bf when you guys r together like after skool or something.

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