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Hey I am 14 and I have 3 boyfriends One who is 15-TIM, 17-MATT, and 21-JAMES. Is this wrong? Some of my friends think so but I don't I think it's fun! -?????- (link)
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u may think its fun now but in the end u will regret it. sooner or later they are gunna find out about the other guys. if u need to pick one, pick the one who has always made u laugh, the one that always brightened ur day, n then one u kno that ur relationships will last a long time.
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ok here's the deal, my bestfriend and i have known each other for about a year and a half, we dated for a long time before he told me that he wasn't in love with me, the thing is, we are "friends with benefits" and i'm ok with that, it's just it's hard because i am totally 100% crazy in love with him and i want to be with him and date him again and i'm not sure if he wants the same thing. he said that he was going to think about us getting back together but i'm not really sure that he wants to. what should i do?? please help (link)
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Friends with beinifits always turns out with someone falling for the other person but the best adive I can give you is to just wait to see how he feels about you. If he doesn't feel the same, there's not much you can do. You can't make someone love you just make sure he doesn't use you. If it's too hard for you to continue this "friends with benifits" thing 'cause you like him to much then -stop- and don't let him use you by getting with you just for the benifits.
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okay... i went out with this guy a few months ago, and then we broke up.. ever since then i have liked him a lot.. but when people ask me if i like him juss say no. now my other friend likes him a lot and wants to go out with him, i wanna go out with him too.. but i dont want her to be mad at me.. or think that i juss like him cuz she does. what should i do?
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u should talk to ur friend and let her know how u feel about him and see if she would be ok if u went out with him. thats all that u can really do.
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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I think he was just in it to play along, you should definitely move on there are waaaaaaaay other guys in the world dont let one hold you back from the rest
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ok well like i supposivly used to be ugly i guess.. cuz like now im supposivle pretty.. lol but like is that good for like when guys see me and are like uh yah you look soo much better?? cuz i mean thats obviously saying no i didnt like yuo in school but now i guess your okay?? (link)
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Some guys just say things like that to get some action or something... I dont think that feelings would change that fast just over looks...or they shouldnt anyways
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I'm 13 ans my boyfriend is 17 is that wrong? I love him and he loves me and he is super nice to me and does not nag me about sex he said its all up to me and we have talked about all that! So is it wrong????
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Age really doesn't matter, maybe to people around your age it does but when you get a little older it wouldn't matter at all, most girls like older guys anyways...
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So I've always been attracted to other gitls.I don't think guys are attractive at all.I have had ex b/fs and stuff but I think girls are hot not guys.Does this mean I'm a lesbian?Do you think its wrong?
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Well feelings change... You may be a "lesbian" now but who knows that might change... It's not anyones say in whether its right or wrong, you just do what makes you happy
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Lately my dad has been wanting to spend time with me, and for some reason I just really don't want to. I don't know why, but I feel uncomfortable. Like, he asked me to go to lunch, and I just said "I'll think about it", and then without telling him I went to a friends house, and slept over PAST the next days lunchtime, just to AVOID being asked again. What's my problem? I mean...I still like the guy, but I really want to b left alone. And lately, I've been liking my mom more. Pleeease help me!!! Thanks. (link)
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ok ur a girl and usually us girls feel more comfortable around them bcuz they are goin thro what we are. n not its not to weird to be hanging around ur dad. if ur want ur space just tell him. but i would give him a try. if u dont like it, then tell him how u feel
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what should i do when i really like a girl..but im scared to hurt her if we go out... (link)
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if u dont wanna hurt her then dont ask her out. just let her know how u feel about her. see if she feels the same way. just be super good friends. then u wont hurt her n u wont have to worry about anything bad happening. unless u truely do really like this girl. then go for it. dont be afraid of taking a chance. follow ur heart..it should tell u what to do. good luck dude!
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this guy goes to my school,well used to. and he is REALLY hot! but he had a girl friend,and new that i liked him. he was at a party and him and his gf were fighting. and he kinda liked me to. so he dumped her,and asked me out.now,im not usually slutty like that,but i said yes. well,after the party, i got home and thought about it. and i decided that i didnt want to go out with him anoymore bcuz i felt bad for the other girl,ya no? and so i called him and told him that i didnt want to go out with him.i think he said fine, but my phone broke up,and that was that.
but now,he keeps tellin my friends and other ppl that were still going out. i hate it,it drives me nuts! and im scared to call him up,cuz he always askes questions,and i feel uncomfortable.but if i let it go on, and get a new b/f,what will ppl think?
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u shouldnt care what other ppl think. its ur bussness. let then think what they wanna. even tho its not true. u need to talk to him. let him kno how u feel. even if u are shy, u need to let him kno that he needs to stop telling ppl lies. let him kno ur tired of the way hes been acting and stuff. tell him ur not goin out, and that u never were. u just wanna be friends, and thats it...hope i helped!
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I like this guy alot, and he's my friends neighbor there no problem. we both flirtall the time (anthony and me). its just that at sometimes he'll go i don like you what are you doen here but he'll say it sarcasticly. and then at other times he'llplay footsie with me. i like him alot. but idk wheter should i confront him, or just keep things the way they are. i see him alot during the summer so that wouldnt b a problem.and hes a grade aahead of me idk if that might be the problemt too. please help (link)
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Definitely go up to him! He sounds like he really likes you, but is waiting for you to make the move. and don't worry about that one grade. some girls date guys that are 2, 3, or even 4 grades ahead, and that can be a problem. here's what i'd do, but if your kinda shy, this might not work.
~ you go up to him and sit right by him. you're just talking, whatever...FLIRTING...must flirt! then like just stop talking...so its silent. then smile and say, "you have something on your face'. he'll say 'where' and then gently, softly and slowly kiss him on the cheek (if your brave...THE LIPS) the relationship should go from there :)
hehe! hope it helps! good luck!
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kay, I'm currently dating a guy named Eric, but my ex keeps ciming around telling me he is going to use me and stuff like that, my ex wants me back, and he's trying hard to get what he wants, i haven't told him about Eric 'cause it's only been a couple days, is he jealous of my friendship with Eric that he knows about or is that just me? (link)
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i think he is jeoulos and he is lieing to u about eric playing u, because he wants u for himself only, i think u should follow ur heart, and if u like eric and if u think he likes u back go for it. ur ex is just making this stuff up bcuz he is jealous and he just wants u back.
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Hey. I'm a 13 year old girl who is obessed with being in a relationship. I can't be alone. I've been with my boy friend for 9 months and we've broken up numberous times and i just seem to get back with him. I thought the world was going to end when we broke up, almost like im obessed with being with someone, like i cant be alone. He doesnt always treat me good, but he does sometimes. I just dont know what to do anymore. Does anyone have any suggestions with what i can do. I've tried to get over it but i keep running back to him, like a lost puppy, and im afraid that this will lead to worse thing when im older and in a more serious relationship. Please help me.
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ok u do not need a guy to make ur life perfect or to even make u happy. thats what ur girls are for. ur just 13 and u should wait awhile till when u kno u r ready for a serious relationship. dont rush into things really fast. wait for the one u kno is the right guy. dont keep running back to him. ur not a little kid and if u keep doin it he will think u r a little kid and that u really are obsessed with him n he wont like it.
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Ok, this guy I met at a party well he likes me and I like him and he told me this and he told me he wanted 2 get 2 kno me better and he also said that he wanted 2 b in a relationship w/ me but yesterday i got an email from him saying this girl he had a crush on 4 a long time asked him out and now they're going out. what should I do? should i email him back and say how i feel? help!!!! (link)
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yes i defenetlly think that u need to tell him how u feel. i bet u he will change his mind, bcuz he will be mad bcuz he missed out on u. so tell him how u feel and see what he has to say
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i have a feeling my boyfriend is cheating on me, everytime i call some girl will answer and she says hes not there and just hangs up the phone without me even getting to say ok or bye, i know its not his mom cuz i know her voice and he doesnt have any sisters, and i know that no family is visiting. what should i tell him?? (link)
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tell him what u think is goin on, of coarse he will deny it but u should find out more clues first. u probablly are right that he is but once u find out that he is for sure..u need to tell him that u are goin to leave him. im sure u can find better then him bcuz if he is cheating on u then he doesnt resect u.
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idk what to do anymore. theres this guy that i met last summer, we hooked up n stuff..then stopped keeping in touch for the longest time bcuz he lost his cell phone...when he finally saw me one day in april, we kept back in touch n everything..we started to hang out agian.. we began doing more things together..but i feel like hes using me. when we're alone together..hes different.. he seems so into me..like he really likes me. hes not one you can trust tho. some of my friends think hes bad news and dont want me hanging out with him n his friends anymore. for some reason i cant do that. hes coming back to my school next year. im going to see him n his friends everyday. i still sorta have feelings for him..i know im going to get hurt. last night i had fun with them..but as the night went on, he started acting diff. idk if i want to deal with him anymore. im starting to like his friends more than him. i told him how i felt..he denies that hes only using me..but i just cant seem to believe him. should i keep hanging out with them..knowing someday i might get hurt..or just end it never knowing what would've happend? please help me im so confused. (link)
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Well if you tell him that you think he's using you, of course he will deny it, even if it were true. In any relationship you are going to take a chance, because anyone you give your love to could hurt you... no matter who it is. In this situation I'd say go with you instincts. Especially since you arent head-over-heals for this guy, you just kinda like him . Obviously your friends see something bad in him that you do too, make sure you figure out what that is and hope its not just fear of a relationship. :) Good Luck with that I hope everything turns out right!!
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I have a neighbor and he likes me he says and i really like him and i have liked him for a really long time and i have noticed lately that he has been avoiding me and it is really bugging me. i invited him to go to our school's fest thing and he said that he would call me back and he never did and i think he hasnt talked to me since then. its making me really sad cuz i wanna go out with him really bad! tell me what to do! (link)
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he probablly is avoiding you bcuz if u guys go out he woundnt ever want to hurt u. and he doesnt want to ruin ur friendship.
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hey umm i went out with someone named Kyle 2 years ago for 6 months and i dont kno what happened but we broke up. For a while now i have been getting all the feelings i had back. I really love him so much and i cant get over him! He likes my best friend and my best friend colleen flirts with him back but i told her i dont like him [[ i lied to her ]] and i really like him but its over. what do i do? (link)
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Talk to him, tell him ur feelings. Maybe he feels the same way about u but u just dont know it bcuz he might he afraid to tell u. U also need to tell colleen how u really feel about him. if shes ur friend she'll understand.
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should i go back out with a guy that cheated on me 2 times?
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hehe i kno who u r but i wont tell any1! lol I would say no, dont go back out with him. If he cheated on you 2 times then hes obviously not the right guy for you and he doesn't respect you the way he should. Because if u go back out with him he just might end up hurting u again. Just try your best to be good friends. Follow your heart, it will tell you what to do.
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