Hey. i'm emily and i love to give advice. just dont ask me the questions "o i'm so fat!, or, o i'm so ugly!, or how do i get him to ask me out!?". the answers to those questions are, be happy with yourself on the inside and flirt. okay? moving on then. i'd like to use my time as an advicenator to help people who really need the advice. not to the next girl who thinks she's fat or ugly. because you all are beautiful. thanks in advance for all your marvelous questions and i hope i helped out!
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thnx for you advise but yo what do u exspect me to practice on? sum random dudes on the street..lol (link)
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that would work. or a pillow? i read in a magazine that jesse mccartney practiced on his mirror but i think thats kinda weird making out iwth yourself. but whatever you think works.
hih
emily
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okay...i wanna go around and make out w/ people and everything but im afraid they'll think im a bad kisser...what shuld i do? (link)
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practice you loser.
hih
emily
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ok it me the same person with the problem about gefri and gerald um but when i was in fifth when we used to kiss it use to be tap and now im in 7th and every one is tounge kissing and im scared that if i go out with gefri hes gonna wanna french kiss and i wouldnt mind but i never tounge kissed anyone before and i m scared im gonna do somthin wrong and hes gonna tell people im a bad kisser cause i dont know how to french kiss now how can i learn how (link)
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just let him guide you i guess. and even if you are a bad french kisser he wont tell EVERYONE. i dont think he'll really care.
hih.
EMily
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ok im gonna try and make this short. me and my x boyfriend are broke up but we still act like were together. we still say i love you and everything. but he is moving to georgia and if he wants to get back together i dont know what to do cause i really love him but i dont know if any one has advice plz help i rate high!! (link)
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you gotta let him go. there are always more boys around. but i'm not saying you have to loose all contact with him... you can still keep in touch. just dont wait for him b/c he's probably moving on and getting new girls... and you have to get new guys....
emily
ps- could you please tell me what the guys name is. i think i know him.
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I'm 29 and I've been dating a 27 yo girl for about 8 months now and I thought things were going great. However, recently she planned her holiday season (thanksgiving and christmas) without even asking me what I was doing. Her rationale was that couples only plan things together when they are engaged or married. She tells me she loves me and doesn't understand why I was surprised that she made all her plans (which exclude me) without even talking to me about what she wanted to do. I have no intention of trying to change her plans. I just thought it was common courtesy to discuss it first and hopefully find a way to spend the holidays together. Your thoughts? (link)
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you are absoulutely right. she should have discussed it with you because you obviously were hoping on spending the holidays with her... right? try telling her you love her very much and was hoping to spend the holidays with her and if it wont be too much trouble to include you in her plans. she might be thrilled that you want to spend time with her or she might be hesitant because she was thinking of spending the holidays with girlfriends or family.
i hope everything goes well.
emily
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well i recently live in florida but was born an d raised in new york. well i just came back from a visit to new york to see my dad and winded up talkin to this guy whos on the 5th floor of my dads apartment he has an identical twin brother and it turns out they both like me . his name is gefri (jeffrey) and his brother is gerald. well heres problem #1. i really like gefri and im going back to new york in 8 mos. but people tell me hes a playa and i dont want him to do that to me while im ova here in fl and i dont like not wanna break up with him cause i reaaaaaaallllllllllyyyyyyyyy like him . problem #2 i kinda like his brother too .......
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!
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well you can always try out gefri and if it doesnt work out... go to gerald. wow. lucky you.... twins! but if you dont want to hurt anyone's feelings or if you dont want your own feelings to be hurt, than you can just stay friends with both of them.... possibly friends with benifits... ;-)
tell me how it all works out!
emily
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i make such a big deal out of little things with me and my boyfriend.. he thinks kristin from laguna beach is so hot so we fight wen he watches it.. its not my fault im jealous, but what can i do? (link)
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its alright if he thinks she's hott. so does a million other guys. and i'm sure he thinks your just as beautiful. as long as he's not comparing you to her than just let it go... its not like he's ever going to meet or go out with kristin... he's got you!
emily
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okay...theres this boy that i wanna ask to our end of school dance, but i already asked him whose hes goin with and he said no one and i didnt ask him to the dance. i have no idea how to do it. any suggestions? or any ways to get him to ask me? (link)
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you could just say it straight out, which usually works. if you dont make a big deal about it and tell all your friends, have them ask him for you where he'll feel more comfortible probably talking to you and not them. or you could ask him online or on the phone if having to talk to him face to face is uncomfortible for you. but just do it casually and he'll most likely say yes. but you better do it quick before someone else gets to him!
hih
Emily
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my boyfriend has REALLY bad breath. hes such a clean guy but he like breathes with his mouth open and its digusting. even when he chews gum i still smell it. and when were cuddling i just about die. and when he wants to kiss me it smells like dog poo and makes me smell..i cant tell him that will be totally mean...what can i do? (link)
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well, instead of saying, GO BRUSH YOUR DISGUSTING TEETH FOR ONCE!, just maybe offer him some breath mints. like before you feel as if he would kiss you or anything just pop a tick tack in your mouth and while they're out say, Wanna tick tack? hopefully he'll take it and for that one kiss he'll finally have fresh breath?
hih
Emily
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im refering to that girl that was saying that has the same situation that u r in. and im saying that, the guy she is talking about i think is me (link)
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o0o. well, um, tell me if this advice doesnt follow cuz i still sorta dont get it... but which one do you have more fun with? which one is easier to talk to or maybe more funny? just plainly saying, which one do you really like better. you cant control who you like, but just follow your heart. i know that sounds totally cheezy but it totally will be better in the long run. ;-)
hih
Emily
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WOW....i think that last one about someone liking "her" a few months ago is about me. it sounds EXACTLY like about what happened with me and her. see cause i told her a liked her..but few months have gone past and i told her and her freind that i like someone else. she didnt really sem offened when i told her or anything cause she didnt say anything. the weird thing is that it seemes like she is flirting with me since we went snow tubing with "her" and her freind. It's just that...i like her still..but i just dont know if she likes me and i dont want to chance it if she says no....
P.S. sry it's long lol (link)
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wait.... WHAT??? i didnt get that at all. write again in english please.
Emily
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Hey. I like this guy, but I don't know how to tell him and what to do. I'm worried he won't like me back and he's in all my classes, so if he said no it would kinda be embarrsing! Also, his parents know my parents, so I'd fell like a total loser!! The thing is I really like him and think about him a lot, so I don't know what to do.
Thanks.. PLEASE HELP (link)
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Hey.
well... here's an example situation that happened to me...
I went to powerplay and all my friends told the guy i liked i liked him. So now he knows, but we totally still act like regular friends. We say hi in the halls and talk to each other at his locker and stuff, so nothing really has changed.Most likely it will be the same... if you act like nothing has changed, he'll act the same way. But if you are looking to ask him out, it might be complicated that your families know each other. If you dont tell him you like him... then he'll never know and you'll NEVER have a chance... trust me on that one. so it will be a good thing he knows if you tell him and if you guys really like each other then it shouldnt matter if your parents know each other. maybe thats good because then your parents and his parents wont be all paranoid because they dont know the kid you are going out with. but its all totally up to you! hope i helped. have anymore questions feel free to ask and i'll anwer best i can!
Emily
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ok there's this guy that I like and he and I are old friends. And now, looking back I think he liked me a few months ago, but doesn;t anymore. (i didn't like him then) Now I think he likes this other girl, who likes him back. If they started to go out i would be so upset, because I like him a WHOLE lot. What can I do to get him back??? help! please,i'll rate! (link)
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wow, i'm sorry but this sounds EXACTLY like my problem i'm dealing with right now!!! wow, thats exactly it... if this is someone i know.... tell me... wow, couldnt have said it more alike.
Emily
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Here’s the information you need to know before I tell you the problem.
-The people who are involved are me, my brother, and our friends M and G.
-Our parents are on a benefit basketball vacation because we all play.
-I give my brothers team there plays
-M is on the opposing team and my brother and G are on the same team.
-M asked me to the formal before all this happened.
Day 1) okay well it was the Friday my dog got put down, my brother had a basketball game, and I went into a crying fit so M and G tried to help. then I went over to Gs and I went home afterwards and M came over to be with me because it was storming.
Day 2)I made the winning shot at my basketball game, M gave me a hug before I could get to G, and I broke away from him to get to G. we went out to lunch, I walked home with G, just the 2 of us. M got mad. I got home and before I got there, my friend called and told me that M said yes to this girl for the formal. so I flipped on him and ran outside and then he came after me and said he wouldn’t have said yes if he knew i liked him, cuz he thought I wanted to go with G. and then I told him he hated me and he said no, i love you. so I dont know.
1 and a half weeks later)another bball game, for the boys. M got a technical, and so I said, its ok M. and he was like, I love you, and he yelled it to me and the ref thought he was talking to him, so he said ok that’s it get out of here. and then M was like, why I was talking to my gf. and he was like right, I am sure she’s your gf. so he came over and gave me a really long kiss, and G got upset. So the ref resigned the technical. But that doesnt matter.
I don’t know what to do, at all!!!
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ok, first, this whole story sounds a little exaggerated. i mean, its very detailed and some sounds made up... i'm not saying it was, it just sounds that way.... and second, what is your question? you just told your story, but it seems like there is only a general question.... which i still cant figure out. write to me with a specific question and i will do the best i can to answer and help
thnx
Em
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ok, so theres this guy at my school who has a girlfriend of ten months...long time...i know...but he ALWAYS flirts with me...ALWAYS....everyone can tell we like eachother and hes not the player/cheater type but i dont really think he wants to be with his gf anymore. shes really ugly (not to be mean) and im way prettier than her..i dont mean to sound like a bitch but its true....but our class is going on this trip to a camp next monday (v-day)...shes not going...and the trip is 2hrs away and were taking a charter bus...and he was like "oh wanna sit with me on the bus" and its the kind of trip where everyone is bringin their pillow n blanket on the bus...so i dont know whats gonna happen...and we have this assignment to do friday and he was like OH DO U WANNA BE MY PARTNER?? and he always comes over to my desk and like plays w/my hand or something..hes just flirty....does it sound like he likes me? do you think anything will happen on the bus?? (link)
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well, if he's that flirty, sometihing might happen on the bus. but you might wanna ask him if he's interested in his girlfriend anymore because it sounds like he's sorta cheating on her. and think about it, if you finally get him to be yours, and he goes and flirts with another girl, then how would you feel. Think about it...but having fun on the bus when she isnt there isnt the worst thing ever... ;-)
hope i helped!
Emily88
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13/female... you know me
I apoligize for the length of my question.
I'm in love with this boy "Albert" who goes to a different school than me and I'm beginning to think that the whole thing is just stupid, but I have my doubts. I really like him, but haven't seen him for awhile. I lie to my parents so I can wait for hours online so that I can talk to Albert. It's really pathetic, but he's the only guy that would go out with me for the time being. Not many guys like me and I'd love to go out with Albert because he understands me and loves me for who I am. The catch is, I don't know if he for-sure likes me. So, what am I to do in this situation? (link)
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If he's a guy you really like, then you should stick with it. But dont wait online for hours because even though you really want to talk, dont act desperate because guys arent worth that much. spend more of your time with your friends because they definitely stick longer than guys. By the way, i think i know who this is and if you know that i know, im me so we can talk about it more.
hope i helped~
Emily88
and please have a happy valentines day!
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hey okay...i need help BIG time! ok well like i like this guy he is in 10th grade and i am in 8th grade and we are neighbors and have been friends but like we kinda are goin for the more than friends kinda thing but like this guy i went out with in like october likes me again but he hurt me really bad and like..idk who to still go for or just ignore both or wat?? PLEASE HELP!!! IDK!!!
love r (link)
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Well you said it yourself you like the 10th grader better so i'd stick with him if i were you... plus you said the other guy hurt you, and we dont want that ever to happen again, so stick with the 10th grader....
hope i helped!
Emily88
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now and as we all know Valentines Day is really soon but i cant seem to figure out what to get him, i dont want to get hime like cologne or jewlery or clothes, something diffrent but i can't figure it out and i really need to figure out soon, can someone please help me out PLEASE (link)
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Is there anything that you two share in common or maybe have an inside joke that you could interpret into your gift? i know chocolate is a little too common but, hey, any girl who gives a guy chocolate is gonna be high in his book. Or any other type of candy..... Wait! you could totally get him Lucky Pix! have you heard of them? if not go to www.lucky-pix.com and you can order one. They are guitar pix that 14 year old guys created and they are really kewl. i'm getting a red one and they are awsome. so totally check that out if he likes guitars or think of them as totally kewl even if he doesnt like guitars.
hope i helped!
Emily88
happy valentines day!
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heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall! (link)
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actually by law the age limit to be boyfriend and girfriend is 4 years apart. so you just got it! have fun and fill me in on what happens!
Emily88
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i am crazy about a boy at school but he dosent like me but we've been out before and i wanted him to give him another chance i just really like him to an obsession that i dont no what to do should i leave him
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wow, never saw that long of a sentence with taht much stuff... cool. anyways, has he said that he doesnt like you?Has he said he does? if you like him so much, then sure, ask him out, but make sure he has his eye on you too or else if he says no he'll stick out like an orange m&m in a green bag. but its up to you really. Hope i helped! fill me in on what happens.
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