Q: How could i tell my boyfriend that i loved him without really saying the words "i love you." Also, if my boyfriend is mad at me for any reason, how could i fix it quickly?

Q: my boyfriend and i are having problems cause i cant cum or have an orgasm... What do i do???

Q: i been seeing my boyfriend for 2 and years we also work together i only found out he was sleeping wit some one eles that we work wit i went mad i posted it up on facebook and mention both there names he went to t boss and showed him texted messages i sent him in anger sayin i was goin to confront her they both went to hr and reported me i after getin transfered to another site that i cant stand i lost alone and dont know wat to do i want my job back were i was but can they do that it dident happn in t work place i ant even seen her

Q: ok so i had this extremely weird dream i think it might be a sign or something but i was talking to this guy for a while things were going well until i found out he was telling his friends the things we would do together (mind you we did not have sex) so i got pissed off and stopped talking to him for a while then i kinda brushed it off because i know all guys like to brag to there friends but then again it was somewhat disrespectful anyways recently he has been texting me and so i had this dream that i was in his car and then he dropped me off at his h.s. and left and never came back i remember being really mad and felt rejected in the dream....i don't know it just was really weird and when i woke up it kind of made me think, i'd love to hear your advice and i am a 17 year old girl going into senior year if that helps?

Q: 22/f. Not that any of you can read my mind, but any kind of insight would be wonderful. I apologize for the length here, but I need help.
Okay.
When I was 18, my boyfriend at the time had just broken up with me. He had been emotionally abusive, and quite good at convincing me that I was unattractive. Even so, as the vicious cycle goes, I thought I loved him. So these friends of mine said, "You're hot, who cares what he says? Let's do a photoshoot and we'll show you, and you can show him what he's throwing away."
So we did. But, uh, it got carried away, pretty much, and turned kind of pornographic. Like, straight up shots of my *ahem*, and things...I didn't even remember it getting that carried away. I was depressed at the time, and I swear I wasn't even mentally present.
A couple of years later, I did yet ANOTHER nude shoot, modeling for a guy friend of mine. We did more artistic shots, but a couple of them were kinda raunchy. I thought I was doing him a favor, modeling for him so he could work on his portfolio, and I thought it'd be fun to see myself looking hot. It never occurred to me that he was just trying to see me naked, but that's what my current boyfriend says.
Now I'm 22, I've found the man with whom I envision myself having a future, and we're ridiculously happy and in love, but he is absolutely HORRIFIED and disgusted by these indiscretions. He finds them immoral, and he gets panicky when he thinks of my naked pictures being out there. I do, too, don't get me wrong...but the first pair of friends let me search every computer in their house (they're a couple; they live together) and delete ALL pictures of me. My guy was mad at me for not getting copies of them before I deleted them, because he wanted to know what he was dealing with...and he has a right to know, it's true. I just wanted them gone, you know? Even so, my guy's convinced they have copies of them hidden somewhere.
Anyway, I digress.
My boyfriend wants SO BADLY to understand what the hell I was thinking. Why the draw? Why did I want these people to see me naked? Why the hell did I let them KEEP the pictures? Why was I so open about my body and sexuality when I'm really very self-conscious and shy about it?
It drives him crazy to hear me say I don't know, but I really don't! I don't know why I did those things, and I hate myself for doing them. It's disgusting and slutty, and...just...UGH!!
Anyone have any ideas? ANY insight? Any thoughts? Comments? Something?

Thanks for your help...:'(

Q: lets go with me and my boyfriend have been having sex im on birth control and when i started going on birth control me and him started not using condoms and i dont really like using them. well the other night he was like i wanna try a condom with lube ok lets try then again last night he used a condom and i was just thinking why again? so i was like um no were not using those i dont like them and hes like really and i go yah. then no b.c i didnt want him to get mad. now all i was thinking hes having sex with someone else wtf! and i felt like if i asked him that hed filp b.c it might or most likely not true. so basically the mood was torn and he got mad b.c i left him hanging and now its weird. and i was like if your going to change the way we have sex you should tell me why and he said it hurt last time with out one then i dont want babies and w.e so your telling me three diff reasons and i was like your not the only one having sex with me here so i think i should know why and he like ignored me on that question. so i dont know what to do.


and just a reminder im well old enough to be having sex and me not using condoms is none of your business so i dont like to hear that i should be using them i know all i need to know, ive had one partner so has he.

Q: I mastuerbated to internet porn and i feel ashamed like i have cheated on my girlfreind. would you consider this as cheating on her i love her soooo much! please help

Q: 20F.

I'm just wondering ..why do guys always try fingering a girl first? It's like they want to so badly but I don't see what they get out of it? Do they finger a girl because they think they'll get some in return? Does fingering a girl turn them on? I guess i'm just confused. And if a guy fingers you ..don't you feel sort of obligated to pleasure them back??

Q: I'm 20/f, dating a 20/m.

My boyfriend is 6'2" tall, and he's about 210 pounds, which I think is pretty normal. I've never thought he was chubby or even "teddy bear" sized, just that he wasn't exactly thin or scrawny. I know he was a lot heavier when he was younger, but by the time I met him he'd worked a lot of the weight off, so his weight looks to be about average.

Suddenly, in the past two months, he's started talking about how much he HATES the way he looks, how he "better get used to not liking who he is", and how he's upset because "he'll never get to where he wants to be", physically speaking. He joined a gym (I joined with him, because I want to start eating better and excercising), but he's constantly talking about calories and pounds lost ALL THE TIME.

In the one month that we've been going to the gym, he's stopped eating all junk food and candy, and has stopped drinking EVERYTHING except water and skim milk. He's lost almost 20 pounds in the last month, and he's still saying he hates how he looks.

I tell him I love his body and that I'm really attracted to him physically (it's true), but he brushes me off. He calls himself chubby and fat and he gets so upset that he won't even talk to me about it. It's like he refuses to believe me.

Tonight he said he wasn't leaving the gym until he burned 1000 calories, and he keeps saying things like "i'm just going through things" and "I didn't know this would be so hard". I'm REALLY scared.

What can I do? I'm crying just because I'm so scared and worried about his health, safety, and happiness. PLEASE HELP my boyfriend :(

Q: OMG please help me , i really like my bestfriends crush and i think he likes me too , we talk every single day , he told me that he doesnt like my best friend though , what should i do should i tell her i like him ? , but were all going to the ,ovies on soon , and he said he doesnt wanna sit next to her , he also said hes bringing two of hid girl friends but i dont want him to cause i wanna sit next yo him what should i do ? plase help !

Q: ive been feeling weird,drained,and hopeless since i got rejected because getting his attention wass my main goal but now i feel nothing.what is this feeling and what should i do

Q: Two days ago, I had a fight with my boyfriend on AIM. It basically ended when he just stopped responding to what I was saying and we haven't talked since. I know this probably sounds like a stupid teenage fight, and maybe it is. But I honestly don't know what to do and need some solid advice.

I hate not talking to him and I just want us to work things out. And we start college in a couple of days- we're gonna have classes together and see each other; if we don't make peace it's going to be awkward. But on the other hand, I was the one that started it; I called him out when he really hurt my feelings. He apologized, but that was when I was still bitching at him. He was being extremely sarcastic and didn't even mean it - it was more of an "I said I'm sorry it's all my fault again so please leave me alone now" apology. If that makes sense.

Anyway, I feel like if I'm the one that breaks this stupid silent treatment, it might go over like what I said to him before didn't really matter. But I WANT us to talk about it and work thorugh it.

What should I do? If I SHOULD talk to him, what do I even say?

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