about

I think I'm a very loving person. I like helping and teaching people. I'm 13, my name is Elaine. N' thts it

advice

hey i need your help.this is going to be kind of long.but here i go:
So i met this girl, emily, ok at a picnic, our parents are family friends. Emily is 2 years older than me but we became friends right away.
She also has a brother, Adam, who is in the same grade as me, 9th. Soo i got her number and adams email on the day of the picnic.Soo me and emily talked on the phone everday and we were so close. I also talked to Adam online every once in a while. We were so bored online one day when he asked me to call him. So i agreed and i did.We saved each others numbers and text meseged each other and over time we became pretty good friends.Emily did not know about any of this; especially because she would be soo angry because in the picnic, when i would talk to him, she would be pissed.Soooo time went by and i saw her a lot, and i saw him occasionally when i'd go over her house. Last week he called me, and he asked me out. I told him i wasnt sure and id think about it. I thought about it for a few days and i called him back. I told him we can try it, but if it doesnt work we would just be best friends again. Soo about 2 days after that he traveled with his family on vacation. We email each other occasionally but im going there in 2 days so i will be able to see them. But here is my problem: today, i was talking to emily online, and she was being very mean and cold. When i told her i mssed her she'd say things like: oh is that why you dont send me messages and you send mssgs to other people?. I was soo scared..that she had found out something about me and adam. She kept asking me if i wanted to tel her something..and i kept saying no.
I mean she would be really angry if she found out. But, i mean me and adam arent officially going out, soo i can keep playing stupid and in the end when she tells me ill just say that were just friends..is that ok u think? plz give me good advice im really scared rigth now, and if you were in my position wat would you do.thanks soooo much hun

if emily was really your frend then she would totally understand but tht was something you should have told her like way in the biggening but now you jst made everything more difficult o well you have to tell her as soon as possible because if you dont then the problem will jst keep growing

[view]

ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now. but there have been people telling me he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. and i do know that his ex-girlfriend still really likes him. what do you think i should do?




-kelly

never ever ever break up with sum1 based on a rumor tht you heard about always tlk things out first then based on wat you find out its always your decisiion

[view]

to make things easier the guy i like will be - j and his friends will be a

my two friends met last year at a party i had. i told her that i liked j and i kinda liked a so she walked up the j and was like hey want to make out. and they made out and i cried. i am still friends with her but still mad at her because she knew i liked him. and just last week i told her i like him. and that friday she made out with him again) i have a right to be extremely mad at her right? should i trust her agian?

xoxo thanks xoxo

if i were you i wouldnt be tht persons frend because if they went tht low to hurt me then they arent my real frend and they deserve to rott in hell for wat they did

[view]

how do you know if a girl like you?

well it all depends but mainly if she seems like she doesnt like you then she really likes you.

if the tries to stay as far away from you as possible she might like you

or if she ever avoids you at any cost she might like you.

it all depends on the kind of person she is

if shes a shy quiet person she would do those up there
if shes more dramatic and self confident then she'll be more like the 1 tht "CUX" is saying

[view]

I'm 13 and a girl. Okay so this guy asked me out and I like him a lot. But I said no because I don't want a boyfriend. (i'm dumb) But now he's going out with this other girl and I can't flirt with him anymore.. And i like hugging people A LOT. But I can't hug him anymore either! And i always tell people that I love them.. but now I can't do that, either! They're always together and it makes me so sad because HE DOESN'T EVEN LIKE HER! he said he loves me but he wants a girlfriend. I'm making him sound like a jerk but he is awesome and fantastic! At his birthday party, I WENT THERE TO SEE HIM! but I didn't get to talk to him because he seemed to try to avoid me (i guess he thought he might flirt and get into trouble)


What do I do?

Signed,
Confused

well you should tell him or its probably jst better to right a note r sumthing or email. n tell him tht u were stupid n u would really like to be going out w/ him. then if he really likes you over tht other girl then things should fall into place

[view]

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker