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Hello everybody...Well this is my first real advice column and i will answer every question **look at some of the questions i have answered and you may agree** I would really appreciate it if you do not leave me mean things in my inbox such as "you suck at advice giving" and other negative comments...thank you, Kyle

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Ok there's this boy i hangout with that likes me and does all this stuff to me and i dont like it. he puts his hands down my swimsuit bottoms when we're swimming and trys pulling my bikini top down so he can see my boobs. I've told him to stop but he keeps doing it and now i dont know what to do. I dont like him like that and i think hes trying to get me to have sex with him but he's not the one i wanna be with. I like someone else and i've told him that and he still doesnt it thinking its ok! HELP ME!!

hey...this could be a big problem and i agree..you need to put an end to it! what you should do is tell him that you DO NOT like him, and that you think it is pretty disgusting cus you think of him as a friend and if he still doesnt stop you could file sexual harassment or just not talk to him. so i hope it turns out well!

Kyle

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Ok you might know who this is. Ok i have liked this guy since Januaryish and I have liked him on and off. Well this time I have been trying to forget about him, but he is starting to call me now. I went camping and i met this guy named bob(name changed)and i really like him, but he lives in appleton so that could never work out. I was telling someof my friends that he gave me his # and stuff and he was in the chat we were in and he was like ok I am leaving and he got out. Do you think he MIGHT like me a little. Its ok if you say no, i just want to know lol (he is calling me now so I will ask you a ? later too lol) THANKX IN ADVANCE!! ♥

Hey! well...ok what i would do is just not try to forget about the january guy just try to think of him differently! that works sometimes and then with bob, i would just try to be friends wiht him sorta cus you cant really alwys tell if you like somebody just from a week with them ya know? well im not sure what else to tell ya! other than u rock and u dont need to have a b/f to tell you that!

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so heres the scoop:

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me

heres the story:

we were supposed to see a movie and he ditched saying that his arm hurt bad from sliding in softball which i would have been okay with if his brother didn't tell me he was really hanging out with 2 other girls yeah so aside from that i called him and left him a message then called him and he answered i asked if he had checked my message he said no and i said don't check it i'm really sorry about it and we lost connection i called him back a couple times but he rejected my call later at night i went online and my friend told me she had seen him while he was supposedly hurting his arm at softball except once again he was with 2 girls i don't know what to think anymore do you think he could be cheating or should i trust him on saying he didn't do anything

it sounds like hes cheating if a couple people are witnesses especially if the people are friends of his then they wouldnt lie.u mite want to talk to him again tho!

Kyle

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Okay....I like this guy that lives like an hour away...i really want to go out with him, and it would somewhat work cause my dad lives by him and i go to my dads every weekend. But then again, I don't want a "long"-distance relationship...what should I do?

well first i would ask myself...how much do i really like this guy??? and if you think a lot i would tell the guy how you feel and ask your parents if you can spend more time up by your dads. i dont no how well that will work but its just a suggestion otherwise there isnt much you can do

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I've had a crush on my best friend for like, 2 years now, and last night, we were really close. She even kissed me. WELl now today I found out that another one of my best friends are are going out with her. I'm happy for them both but I thought that we really had something last night. What should i do about it?

hey! i think ik who this is...but ya ok what i would do is just tell her what you told me ^ there! and if ur who i think u r the person will definitly like that! Hope I helped!

Kyle

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Hey i have seen you walk around places and i think you r sooooo hot i really want to go out with you and i want you to finger me. SAY YES i luv you hottie!!!

hi...1) Who Are you? 2)You must be confused about who this is 3)i wont finger you... 4) dont forget to tell me who you are

Kyle

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{{ you probably know who this is }}
ok i really like this guy. and i have been trying so hard to forget about him but there isnt anything i can do! I know we never actually "had anything" and there wasnt really anything there, but I really really love this kidd! he makes me smile and knows the right thing to say. and I told him I liked him and he didnt really say anything..it kinda hurt me. Now summer seems to be going really fast and before I know it I will be in highschool and he will be in middle school..i know I should move on because there will be other options for me, but I cant let him go for some reason..please help me out! ♥ &&

HEY! u are super duper awesome! **well im suffering the same problem...and i wish ik the answer to this...** remember we are in the same boat sadly...but i would just tell him how you feel again maybe...or just flirt a lot...i hope i helped ya!

Kyle : )

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well my boyfriend called me at about 7:15 tonight telling me he had to run a few errands for his parents and asked me to hang out with him when he got back around 8:30 so at 8:20 me and my friend went outside to wait for him but his car was already there... we were like okay if hes home then why didn't he come over then my friends boyfriend came and my boyfriends brother is friends with him so he came outside to talk well my guys brother not knowing we were going out said that my boyfriend was up in his room watching a movie with some girl... of course i got really jelous because not only was he a half hour late to hang out with me when i was told but now he was up in his room with some chick!?!?! see he told me before we started going out that if i was his girlfriend i would have to understand that he has a ton of girls that are friends but i'm just not sure he ditched me to watch a movie with another girl and when i called he didn't answer his phone either i trust him but i'm really not sure of this one do you see any signs that he could be cheating on me because i don't want to be the girl that finds out the hard way PLEASE HELP!

Hey! Ok ya this is a hard situation...what you might want to do is talk to the other girl and make sure she nos wats going on...like you said you dont want her to find out the hard way. Oh ya! and definitly talk to your boyfriend to see his side of things!


Kyle

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like 3 days. And we've made out like 8 times, and hes fingered me and everything, and now he want to have sex...is it too soon?

well ok i dont know it all depends on how old you are and everything...i would say its too early to have sex but thats just me! i know some ppl who will have sex like anytime in a relationship. but if you do have sex at least use protection! hope i helped!

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What happens when u get fingered? i am too scared to ask ne one else.Thanks if u answer this!!

um ok this is a really wierd ? considering that im a guy...well i asked one of my friends that is a girl and she said "you or someone else sticks 1 or a few fingers in your "downstairs" area and then you get a nice sensation thats feels good" so yaidk hope i helped?
DntTurNMeAwaY

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Me and my boyfriend have been together since I was 10 and he was 14. We are now 14 and 18. well about 3 months ago my boyfriend got me pregnet with twins. And now he could get arrested cuz i am a minor and he is an adult. I am scared to tell my mom.She will beat me, and throw me out of the house. Should i get an abortion?

hello...you should DEFINITLY tell ur mom cus she will probably find out no matter what...if you dont press charges i dont think that your boyfriend will go to jail either! and i wouldnt get an abortion becus ur killing an innocent child which is really sad and mean

Kyle

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I have been married for 5 years and have been with my husband for 6 years. He is a Army soldier. We have lived in Germany for the past 4 and half years. My husband just recently told me that our hole marrige was based on lies, and that he has never been in love with me!!!! He told me the truth about everything!!!! He has cheated on me so many times that he can't remember!!!!! My question is what can I get in the divorce? Do we have to split everything, and can I make him pay for pain and suffering?

well im not sure cus im only 13 but i think you guys split all the money in half and you split the debt and you sell the house unless u can agree on something...again im not sure tho...im sry i couldnt help more!
Dnt Turn Me Away

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Omg I need help so bad right now. I got dumped about a monh ago, and now I have a new boyfriends who's totaly awesome, but the thing is my ex still loves me and now he wants me back, and I hung out with him and then I relized I wanted him back. So now he's telling me if I dump my boyfriend, he'll take me back. I really want him back, but than again, I really really like the guy I have now. PLEASE HELP!

Hey...What i think you should do is just wait a little bit and stay with your current boyfriend and see if anything happens **maybe like a week or 2** and then you should decide and if you cant decide just think...did you like going out with your old boyfriend or this one more?

Kyle

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ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
Thankx*

i would tell him how u feel. you no just go for it! whats the worst that could happen? him say oh im sorry i dont like you like that. but if hes a good friend he will understand! i hope i helped!

DntTurnMeAway

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well see last year i had a HUGE crush on this guy and then i stopped liking him because i thought i could nva happen. Then at the end of the school year he started walked with me to my math class everyday and i started and still do talk to him online for hours and we talk about everything. then the other night he sleptover in my brothers room and right in front of my brother we were fliritng iwth each other unitl 3 in the morning then the next moring he tried to wake me up by thrwoing things at me and we chilled until his mom came to pick him up. but the problem is hes one of my brothers best firends..do you think he likes me? or that anything would happen between the two of becausehes my brothers friend?

I think you should just ask your brother to talk to the dude and say something like "hey do you like my sis or something?" like that.I hope I helped!

Dntturnmeaway
PS You could always talk to him on your own

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Ok, I think we have all been here, but I've been really thinking about my past lately. Mostly my love life. My problem is this: my first girlfriend really had a vicelock on my life. We went out for a little over a year. We nearly got back together last summer, but someone I thought was a friend severly knocked that for a tailspin. Me and "C" ended on very bad terms. A nuclear bomb coulda done less damage. But I look back, and I realize, I cant escape the fact that I am NOT over her. I can't tell if I just feel guilty, cause it IS my fault, Im big enough to admit that, or if I do still care about her. I want to write her a letter to apoligize, but I wonder if it will fall on deaf ears. What should I do?

hey...what i would do is call her and talk to her for a long time until all your feelings are layed out and most are fixed near the end of the convo you should no wether its guilt (if it is it will be gone) or if its love (it will still be there) if its love let her no and just say i have like you since that summer and tell her bout how great she is and stuff
Hope I helped!
DntTurNMeAway

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