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Well I am 23, I love writing and reading and going out with my friends. I love helping people I get it from my mother. if anyone has a question or would like to exchange poetry or short stories with me feel free,
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Jimi, A.K.A, Dimitris.
Gender: Male
Location: Wisconsin
Occupation: Sales Representative
Age: 23
Member Since: October 11, 2004
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i just dumped my boyfriend about 3 days ago .. we have been together for a long long time and when we werent we were always good friends .. so when i dumped him i said cant we just be good friends because i dont want this to ruin our friendship and he told me we were never friends and never have been or had a friendship and we were always jsut bf and gf .. and that really hurt me .. now im not even sure if i wanna be his friend .. today i just found out hes trying to get me jealous with 7th graders! and we are both freshman .. how does he think that works .. i think hes a pathetic asshole right now .. i need some opinions ... thanks love (link)
Guys will say very stupid things when they are hurt, Just look at it like our version of crying we normally get angry instead of crying and moping around, now I'm not saying men don't cry they do, and it's more then ok too. but your ex is just trying to make up for the pain and rejection he feel by saying that stuff as for the other girls he trying to show you that it didn't hurt him and he can get on with his life Go up to him and explain why you broke up with him and tell him that what he is doing is not only imature, but is the wrong thing to do to a good friendship. Hope things work out for you.
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Dimitris.


ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.

but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.

thnx
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Hey man I Know what your feeling, and it is a mix of emotions cause your so happy when your around her but now that you know yop have feelings for her you also feel nervous but in a kinda of wierd good way. Thats cool its one of the best things about being young. well my advice to you is just keep up what your doing it sounds like you too have a pretty healthly friendship going and that is the best foundation to build a soild realationship on. if she feels the same you do it will happen, but maybe she don't feel it as strong as you do yet and if you rush things it might freak her out so My advice is this just go with the flow...oh one more thing don't start to act really different around her you like trying to impress her by doing really dumb things you'll regret it in the future. well I hope I helped out a little you should let me know how things worked out good luck!
Dimitris




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