I'm Kyler, and I'm genderqueer (both male and female). I support LGBT rights very strongly, particularly transgender rights.
I am a Buddhist Pagan, and I practice many things such as meditation and witchcraft. I enjoy helping people with spirituality-related issues.
I'm also vegan, and I love animals. When I'm older, I'm probably going to be an undercover investigator at a factory farm.
I also have a very complicated love life, so I can help with that too. :P
I love giving advice, and I'll answer any questions you have.
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Well am a 15 year old boy with not much of a social life. When i get lonely which is most of the time, i tend to watch porn. Recently, i decided to try watching gay porn and i liked it very much. I even cum faster when i watch Gay Porn than when i watch Straight Porn. Could it mean that am gay?
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Hey! First off, I would like to say that what type of porn you watch doesn't determine your sexuality. I have a straight female friend who prefers watching lesbian porn, but she's not lesbian and is not attracted to women. If you like gay porn but are not attracted to other boys, then you're not gay. At worst, that would make you a straight boy who is bi-curious.
Now, if you are attracted to other boys, then that's different. There wouldn't be anything wrong with that though! I'm a boy, but I've liked other boys since I was five years old (I am attracted to girls as well though, and I have a girlfriend, so I consider myself to be bisexual).
Whatever your sexuality is and whatever type of porn you like to watch, remember that you are actually perfectly normal. Many straight people watch gay porn and have bi-curious feelings at some point in their lives.
I hope that helps. :)
~ Kyler ♡
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I know for a fact that Vampires are not supposed to be dating werewolves, but is it ok if the other is rogue? Would the person in charge of the colony/pack kill the two lovers? I would like your help as soon as possible. IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IN VAMPIRES/WEREWOLVES DO NOT ANSWER!!!
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Hey! I'm in a situation like that now. I am a vampire, and my girlfriend is a werewolf. We didn't tell each other about our kintypes until after we started dating though, so things got complicated. . .
Her pack mates didn't like that she was with me, and she left her pack to join my Clan. The leader of my Clan is a hybrid (part werewolf part vampire) and she doesn't mind us being together.
I know in general vampires don't usually date werewolves, but if the love is real and it works out then who cares? My Clan is mostly accepting of all kintypes, and we don't care much about the old rules.
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Now please don't criticize too harshly, I'm already insecure enough. But I feel like I was meant to be born a guy. And that being born a girl was a mistake. I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual, but I want to be who I think I was meant to be. Am I sane...? :\
(Sorry, didn't know what other category to ask this.) (link)
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Hi! Based on what you've said, I think you might be transgender. There's nothing wrong with being transgender; in fact, I'm transgender myself. :)
In case you don't know what transgender means, I'll do a quick overview of what transgender means as well as similar terms:
- Transgender: an umbrella term for anyone with an internal gender identity that does not match up with one's biological sex.
- Transsexual: a person who is born in the wrong body and wishes to undergo hormone replacement therapy and/or surgery to match their physical gender with their internal gender.
- Genderqueer: an umbrella term for anyone with a gender identity other than male or female.
- Bigender: identifying as both male and female.
- Androgyne: one who identifies as a mix of male and female.
- Genderfluid: having a fluid gender identity.
- Trans woman: a woman who is born male, but identifies as female.
- Trans man: a man who is born female, but identifies as male.
You see, gender is a spectrum. Although the majority of people have gender identities that match their biological sex, that's not everyone!
Here are a few things to ask yourself:
- Do you feel that your internal gender identity and biological sex do not match?
- Which gender would you prefer to be perceived and treated as?
- Which gender would you be more comfortable living as?
- Do you plan on altering your physical appearance so your gender identity and physical gender match? (Note: this doesn't necessarily mean undergoing hormone therapy or surgery, as some transgender people are comfortable simply wearing their gender's clothing and either cutting or growing out their hair.)
- Remember that, like I mentioned before, gender is a spectrum. You can be male, female, both, neither, a mix of the two, genderfluid. . . Whichever you feel you are on the inside. Gender is not a binary -- not everyone fits into the "boy" category or the "girl" category.
Here are a few links that you may find helpful:
http://m.wikihow.com/Know-if-You-Are-Transsexual
http://m.wikihow.com/Transition-from-a-Female-to-a-Male-(Transgender)
http://www.hemingways.org/GIDinfo/sage/
The last link is not an article but a helpful test. It takes a while to complete, but it is very accurate. It is called the Sex And Gender Explorer or S.A.G.E Test and covers many aspects of gender identity and expression, biological sex, and brain gender patterns.
If you have any questions or need advice about how to come out to your parents or how to transition, feel free to inbox me anytime.
I hope this helped. :)
~ Kyler ♡
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So, my mother and father are both homophobes, which sucks seeing as though I have the keenest interest in girls. I am 17 years old, and live with both parents. I am unsure of how to come out to them, and would love some advice. Thanks, xx. (link)
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Hey! I'm bisexual and transgender, and my best friend of thirteen years is from a strict Catholic family. I haven't come out to her yet, and I don't know if I will for a long time. . . I can only imagine what it must be like for you, since you're living under the same roof with two homophobic parents.
Do you think it would be safe to come out to them while you're still living with them? If not, I would wait until you can move out before coming out to them. But if you do think it may be safe to come out to them, you could drop hints to them first. Maybe bring up some LGBT issues with them and see how they react, or maybe wear a rainbow bracelet or the like.
When you feel ready, you could sit down with one of them and calmly explain that you have known for a while now that you're gay, and explain that you still love them and did not choose to be this way. If having a face-to-face conversation is too difficult, you can come out to them in a letter -- whichever way is most comfortable for you.
Are your parents homophobic because of their religious beliefs? If so, I think this article will help:
http://m.wikihow.com/Come-Out-to-Strict-Religious-Parents-When-You're-Gay
Would you prefer to write a letter or email to them rather than have a face-to-face conversation? Then check out this article:
http://m.wikihow.com/Come-Out-to-Your-Parents-by-Email-or-Letter
This article has some good tips on how to deal with homophobic parents in general:
http://m.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Homophobic-Parents
I hope everything goes well for you and I hope this helped. :)
~ Kyler ♡
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