Life Is an ASS Kicker
Believe me I know. I've been through up's and down's most of my friends come to me for advice because they know me as the 'logical' one. I help them think things true. Let me help you.
I Know Rejection
I know what its like to be dumped 5 days before your one year anniversary, and it fucking sucks. I know how it feels when the 'clique' you want to be in ignores you or ridicules you. Believe I know. I know how it feels to disappoint your parents, get into a fight with you sibling, and even feel alone.
Talk.
The best way to have a clear conscience is to talk it out. My father used to tell me that the best and softest pillow was a clear conscience. Let me absolve you from your worries. Let me be the person to pick up the pieces after your downfall. Let's just talk.
I'm interesting.
I'm not your average 'scene' or 'emo' or whatever it is their calling it these days. Sure I'm into that type of music, but I'm very well rounded. I'll listen to anything that isn't Brittany Spears-esque. (Sorry for any Brittany fans out there) My friends tell me I have a wicked sense of humor. One of my friends even said that it was 'dark' but then again, labels are just small rectangular pieces of paper, right?
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Me & my boyfriend broke up yesterday over a stupid reason. Tomorrows supposed to be the last time we see each other.
I really want to have a serious talk with him, because I don't want to lose him. What's something special that I can say or do for him?
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Ouch, I'm so sorry about the break up. My boyfriend broke up with me 5 days before our one year anniversary. (Is it me, or do I tell everyone I'm writing advice to about that?) Anyways, if it was a stupid reason over something like how you dress or act, then it's not worth it because you deserve someone better who will love you for who you are. If it was about something you did to him or didn't do to/with him just think about that for a second. Whatever the reason is, if it is 'stupid' you deserve to move on and stop wasting time on someone who won't waste time over you.
If you're still adamant on leaving him with a few last memorable words that he will always remember, the type of words he'll tell his grand children and he'll tell them he regretted ever letting you go, you tell him,
"You know, you were right. I'm sorry that it ended like this. But I guess, I really deserve someone who cares about me."
I don't know, maybe I'm just voicing what I should have said to my own boyfriend. But if he truly loves you and the argument was stupid. There's deffinitely the possiblity that you two should be together.
Life is too short, you learn to get over things quicker as each day passes by you.
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im really intimated by my boyfriends mom! i dont know why. shes not like mean or anything, and she's only like 5'. but shes loud-spoken and very boisterous.. and almost has like an angry tone when she talks. she cusses almost every other word [my family cusses some, but no where near the things she says] their whole family cusses a good bit, but i'd say shes the worst and uses every word in the book, especially since my boyfriend trys not to do it alot around me. i dont mind it much, but you'd think that she'd be more ..respectful..?.. when im around. she also yells a good bit and just has like a hateful attitude and a short temper it seems. dont say talk to my boyfriend about it, because he already complains about her yellin about everything and stuff. the thing is, im going on vacation with them for 3-4 days next week, so i dont know how to handle being around that! i've noticed that i get real quiet and am more of an introvert when she's like that. what should i do? 16-f (link)
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I don't know if I should be the one to speak because I got dumped a few days ago. But enough about my sob story, I was in the same exact situation as you were in. My boyfriend's-eh, excuse me- EX-boyfriend's family cursed A LOT. His two older brothers and his mother. I'm a very modest person and it's the truth when I say I do not curse at all. But everytime I was there I didn't enjoy the fact that in order to indulge myself in a conversation with the so said mother or my ex's brothers, I'd have to put a vulgularity in between every other word. So what I did was I sat down with his mother, which was very scary by the way, and told her that it really bothered me that she cursed a whole lot. So we talked it through. A few days later she told me she thought it was very bold -in a good way- that i voiced my opinion. it got me into good terms with her. Of course, that may not go the same in everyone's situation, but it helps if you voice your discomfort. Let them know that you won't allow yourself to be subject to such trashy words. Sho her and your boyfriend's family you have some class. It may make the vacation more enjoyable for everyone.
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