My name is Samantha, im 13 years old and I know Im young but I give really good advice most of the time. Email me if you want my advice but dont want it public. I check my email periodically throughout the day, so it wont be long before I answer you. Im a lot better helping with relationships and animals and family problems. I have a huge family (10 people in my house) 2 cats, and I have only been (and still am) in one relationship, but ask anybody Ive given advice to--Im helpful. (yes I know, so modest) You can IM me too. I have school from 7:00-3:00 So I wont be around during those times, (those arent school hours but I wont be on during those times) but almost any other time Ill be able to help. REMEMBER! THE MORE INFORMATION THE BETTER ADVICE. You ask a stupid Question and you'll get a stupid answer.
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ugh,
okay. so i have an ex let's call him D. and another ex, let's call him J.
okay, so i hung out with D todayy, and made outwith him, like i do alot, when i went out with him.
=D
okay, but when i got home, J called me, and asked me out, i said noo.
he had broke up with me, bc he thought i still liked D. i told him i didn't but w/e.
truth is, i still like D. and when i make out with him, and hang out with him. [[which is all the time]] memories come flowing back.
today, i got quiet while we were hanging out, and he asked what was wrong, and i told him nothing. he gave me a big hug, told me that i could tell him if anything was wrong, and i told him nothing was wrong, after about 10 more minutes of silence, and him carrying me, he asked me again, and i said i was thinking about things. and he asked what things, i told him stuff. so he gives me a hug, and i tell i have to go, he hugs me and i leave,
i think he still likes me,
but idk,
=/
help.
what should i do about D.
we still act like we go out
he says i love you
and i ask how, he says "as a friend..." after i don't say it back.
with some sadness in his voice.
he's my best friend, i tell him everything.
ilove him.
what do i do about him.
and J.
bc J keeps asking me out,
what do i do.
about D and J ??? (link)
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Okay. D sounds awesome, I think you should go back with him. If you really do love him, when he says "I love you" Say You love him too. This guy seems to really like you, and you are lucky to have found someone at his age that is mature enough for this already.
J seems to be a player/desperate because most of the time when you say No, It means no, leave me alone, LOL. So just tell him you want to be friends, and if he cant live with that you should cut off communication from his for a while so he gets the picture.
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Me and this girl did everything but sex last weekend and now shes saying she doesn't want to
be my first and everything cause i'm still a
virgin. And im like ok we won't i promise. Then
shes like i don't want to hook up. And im like ok we won't. and shes like seriously? and im like
yeah if you don't want to.SO a little about her past, she broke up with her ex a couple months ago
because he cheated on her and that really messed her up emotionally and now has trust problems with
guys which is why she doesn't want to date me or hook up now and why she doesn't want to be
feeling these emotions. Well im starting to like her and i just don't get it. We had this almost same conversation about 2 weeks ago before we had
that one night of greatness lol but she said if your looking for a girl to date, im not it, and if
your looking for a girl to hook up with im not it. So idk wth's going on, any advice? thanksss (link)
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I think she just needs time. She is having troubles because of what happened with the other guy. She doesnt want it to happen again. Maybe she is upset partly at herself too, for having sex with a guy that obviously didnt vare about her much at all. but just be a good friend to her, let her know you'll always be there for her when she is upset, and when time heals what happened, she will be able to trust you. She is going thru major trust issues right now but Im sure that if you just relax and dont try to take anything any further, she will eventually make the next move she is ready. dont keep trying to make it go any further or shell feel pressured and cut off all contact with you. The Time WILL come, so just wait.
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ok so my bf cheated on me but he didnt like the girl he only wanted to hook up with her cause he thinks shes hott.
i need songs saying like i hope she was worth it.
please give me some. thanks (link)
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"Leave" By Jojo
&
Before he cheats By Carrie underwood
Sammilammi12@hotmail.com
Samantha
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okay so i hate bringing my boyfriend over my house. my parents dont let us shut the door anymore because i guess they see we are getting more serious..they know he is in a gang so now they think he is a criminal...which he isnt. my dad thinks im going to become a chola (thats a girl gang member in my boyfriends gang) and all i hear is how they think hes a nice guy but hes a bad influence. they treat me like i have no brain and cant make mature decisions every since i got a tattoo. its like the tattoo labels me as "DANGER SHE IS GOING OVER THE HILL" kind of kid. AND IM NOT. i make smart decisions. they think im going to turn into my older brother and get myself locked up. what do i do? i dont want my boyfriend coming over anymore and when i go to my boyfriends house im not aloud over for longer then 4 hours. and yes we are sexually active and im planning on asking my mom for birth control...i want to prove to her im responsible and im looking out for myself. i dont exactly know what im asking...i just want to know peoples opinions on my situation.
-15/f (link)
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I think you need to sit down and have a discussion with your parents. Let them know that your BF is NOT that type of guy, and wouldnt do anything to hurt ANYBODY. Give them some examples of the mature things you have done. And no, You are not immature for being active at the age of 14-15. What's new? Most people are like that anyway. But I think you should (after your parents realize how mature you REALLY are) ask your mom privately for birth control. If i were you, My mom (If she agreed) would get it for me but not inform my dad till I was older.. That's how she rolls. Are your grades poor? If so, try your hardest to bring those up. Do little things around the house like taking care of dinner for mom, or cleaning the bathroom up. Little things like that can raise your maturity level in your parents eyes quite a bit. HOPE I HELPED! Email me if I did!
Sammilammi12@hotmail.com
-Samantha
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Hi.
14/m
I've been going out with this girl. Its been almost a week. We've each gone out before but it was like 4th grade with other people and it wasnt "real". Now we're 14, its the real deal lol.
So weve talked alot and hung out alot (not sure whether to consider them dates or not) and I'm wondering, should I kiss her on the cheek in the near future? I HAVE HUGGED HER BEFORE.
Any advice on cheek kissing/making out is very appreciated.
Thank you. (link)
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I think you should kiss her on the cheek after one of your little sessions with her.. Hug her and then kiss her on the cheek. Smile and say goodbye. She will either slap you, or smile and skip off.
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