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Im a female and 15. Well theres a guy ive liked for a few years that i went out with before. We're really good friends and i know hes someone who i can count on. Well i kind of fooled around with him before but it didnt really change anything, still good friends, and not going out. Well my friends think im going to have sex with him and i kno that he wants to.. He told his best friend whos also my friend before he wouldnt go do anything with someone he didnt care about or have feelings for. i dont know if i should avoid doing that though or not. And rght now im not a virgin anyway so i dont see it as a big deal but ive only been with one guy. I really want to be with him and everything and he's told people he likes me but he doesnt want to be in a relationship rght now but im hoping i can change his mind. I dont know what i could do to get him to want to be with me again... But i would do anything. Please help with tips or advice Thanks (link)
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You have to make a choice at this point, do you want to keep him as a friend or go further with the relationship, but once you cross the line and get romantic the friendship will never be the same, so make sure you are ready to give up a friend if it doesn't work out. Maybe that is what he is thinking too that is why he is pulling away.
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ok so i like a boy ALOT! and he likes me ALOT! but we aren't bf and gf...when ever he asks me to dance or skate at friends parties...something inside me says NO! i don't know what to do..and I DID tell him how i feel! PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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Well don't say no, what are you waiting for? You are like everyone else at the party just there to have fun, so just do it have fun. Don't worry so much about everyone else, just be yourself relax and have fun.
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Im 21 female. I feel trapped. I love my fiance and all but sometimes I feel the urge to run away. Far away. Away from everything including the only person that's ever loved or cared about me... him. I just want to be free. He says it's a hippie spell. The feeling of wanting to leave never stays away for long. What should I do? (link)
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If you feel trapped already in a relationship then you need to follow your feelings, before it's to late. If you get married you will really be trapped and it will not last, so go do what you need to do and don't worry about what other people want, do what you want. You only have one life, so live it!
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After you spent 3 years engaged to the man you thought was the man of your dreams and you have troubles that make the relationship end, how long does it take for the tears to stop? When do you start over. 37 yrs 2 chilren
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Oh my that is not an easy question to answer and the tears will be there until your heart start's to heal. That is a long time to be together and then apart, but your heart will heal and the pain will get less bye every passing day, just know that there is someone out there that you have not met yet that is looking for you, because you are there soul mate and when you meet, the tears will turn to smiles and you heart will be whole agian, don't give up your faith in love, it will find you again.
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OK, I've been dating this guy for about a month or so ...and a few of my friends think he just wants sex and im not quite sure either....One time he asked me to have sex one night but i said no. we've hung out since then and he tried to get me to give him head and stuff but i didnt and we still hang out and whatever but he hasnt asked me to be his girlfriend or anything yet so thats why im unsure nor even have we talked about it . all our phone conversations are pretty short and just consist of making plans and whats up how r u n stuff along those lines however we do talk once in a while for like 15 minutes....so my ? is do u think he just wants sex? and anyways to find out besides talking to him about it (link)
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I'll tell you how to find out if he just want's sex or he really likes you. Don't put out, if he keeps coming around even though you have not had sex then he probably wants a relationship, but if he avoids you after you keep telling him no, well than he is only after one thing sex. Remember if you don't put out it will keep them coming back, because they know you haven't slept with everyone and it will keep them interested.
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Yesterday my b/f thought i was mad at him which i wasn't. today he started being really sweet. he was walking me to all my classes and everything..(he used to sometimes but not all the time like today). Before his lunch and one of my classes he said "c'mon forget about your friends we need some alone time." and we started walking down the hall and he grabbed my hand. :) Now my question is do you think he just said that or do you think he really wants the time alone with me, because he was talking to his friend as we were walking (link)
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I think your boyfriend just want's to spend time with you and he feel's that you are upset, because he hasn't spent as much time with you as he should. He obviously has feelings for you and want's to show you that he cares, but you know how friends are and he probably didn't want to be rude to his friends, but also wanted alone time with you and school is a hard place to have alone time, so he just goes with the flow.
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