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Alright i have been hanging around this guy 2 years older than me for about a month.. my friend totally hates him for many reasons , and my friends mother works with students that are in the same class as this guy . they tell my friends mother that he is on drugs and that he drinks alllll the time at partys and stuff.. but when he is around me is a whole new person.. i realized that i dont want to get a bad rep by hanging out with him so how should i tell him that we shouldnt hang out ne more..( plus : he fingered me , and im afraid he will like go tell everyone shit about me =/ ) .. but yah how should i tell him that i dont wanna hang out ne more?? THANKS

Just ease off hanging out with him. Make plans with your other friends. When you spend less time with him, your friendship sort of diwndles away until he doesn't really want to hang out with your over some of his other friends. This way he will also not have any reason to say something nasty about you.
-Cat

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OK me and my 10 year old sister want to meet this actor named Jacob smith, But we dont know how and we live in minnesota and it is realy hard to meet an actor when you live in Minnesota.....How can I meet an actor that is prolly far away from minnesota??

Try to purchase tickets or passes to any shows he might be doing. But don't expect too much, many people go their whole lives without meeting an actor.
-Cat

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i have been with this guy for almost 8 months and he still doesnt trust me. i am going to collge next year and everytime we talk about it we get into fights. he thinks that im going to cheat on him or we will never see each other. but there is also this guy who has been my friend forever and i have alwayz watned to be with him.. now i have a chance to be.i really love him and he really loves me we have alwayz just had bad timing with each other. should i break upwith my bf and be with the other guy or what. my bf andi fight constantly and i dont ever do anything cuz he gets mad. he doesnt ever want my friends around and when they are the talks crap where they can hear

plz help
confused

Sounds like you should dump your boyfriend. If he doesn't trust you and you don't trust him then it's not a very stable relationship, and it will collapse eventually. Spend some alone time before hooking up with your friend, because it can hurt someone's feelings if you dump them for another person.
-Cat

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okay theres this boy..his names jake and me and him arent together but he likes me and i relaly like him and im in texsa on vacation and he was like i miss you so much..and theni went out for the day wt myparents and i came back and hes acting differnt..like he doesnt care about me anymore :-/ and i seriously will go crazy if what we have is fadding away cause REALLY care about him..what should i say too im to see if we are both still on the same page?

Well, Kiddo, I think it's time to move on! A lot of relationships are based on just the rush of excitement and after a while they dwindle down. Maybe that's just it for him. Move on kid, he's not the only fish in the sea.
But you wanted to know if you were on the same page? Well, you could sit down and talk. Or you could casually ask him how things were when you were gone. Did he meet any new people? *hint hint*
-Cat

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hey..i like my boyfriend...but i miss my ex alot... and i think i still love him... but i still like my boyfrind...should i break up with my boyfriend since i like some1 else? or try t get over my ex? because for some odd reason my boyfriend likes me alot and i dont want to hurt him... please help me... ill rate high...

Well, maybe you could break up with your current boyfriend, but let him down easy and take some time to be by yourself and think about how you feel about both of them. Don't show favoritism, and don't pickup another random boyfriend to pass the time. Just enjoy single life for a while and think about if you really like either of them that much.
-Cat

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alright the guy who is like a bro to me asked me out what should i do btw i like some1 else who flirts with me alot.
help!

Just tell him how you feel. If you're really such good friends, he should understand. But don't go chasing after the other guy, because it may seem like you don't want to date him because you want to be avalible.
Let him down nice and easy though, 'kay? Don't wanna break his heart. Don't use that 'let's just be friends' line though, it's old and hurtful.
-Cat

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