Hey,
My name is chelsea steel...i live in indiana, and iv been through alot...so i think i could help you with somethings. I have blond hair, about mmm...5'4, and brown eyez. Im a pretty nice person to you if you are to me. :o)
E-mail: pink_beach_baby09@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Indiana
Occupation: (student)
Age: 14
AIM: preciiouz kissz
Member Since: July 13, 2004
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Last Update: July 21, 2004
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Ok me and my bf broke up like 3 weeks ago. when he dumped me i gotta another bf just to replace the feel and then the next day my ex asked me out again. so i dumped the new bf and went out w/ my ex again. well my ex dumped me again and i still really like him. i think hes just using me to get some cuz when ever we hang out he goes down my pants...but i really like him. when we dated we had sex like 5 times and im 15 so i dont think anything of it. should i just get over him and try to stay away or should i try to make our realationship work??
-Love Torn (link)
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brb
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hey
you've probably answered this a couple of times in this thing..but i dont feel like reading all the entries..so ill just ask it
okay, so this guy likes me, an di like him, or at least i think i do..thats the problem :-) i cant really tell if i like him..and i dunno if i should try going out with him and crap cuz if i dont like him..we all kno it wont last long..but ince at this age it doesnt really matter..i dunno..so please help me...its not a big deal, but i would still like to know! thanks!! (link)
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sorry idk wat to tell ya
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ok, i have a few prblems.
1> The first day me and my b/f went out he tried to kiss me ... and i mean we have gone out b4 .. but it was akward and i really didnt want him to..does this ocunt as my first kiss , cuz i wanted it to b more special then that.
2>even thuogh i have this b/f i have a really hugemongous crush on someone else...help me get over the someone else.
3>one of my closest friends and i used to b just that--really close--but this smmer she has been with everyone like a thusand times and the one time she was here she wanted to go to someone elses house. should i b mad or let it flow.
4>im not sure if me and my b/f clik right. we can never tlk when were together...its like impossible..maybe its cuz we are both nervous...but i like him a lot its jst we can never tlk and it bugs the shizit outta me.
can you hhelp me? asap?
-you know who i am- (link)
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1-of course its more than that! Its a kiss from your boyfriend! but after all...a first kiss is veryu special too.
2-Spend more time with you boyfriend you have now
3- Dont be mad at her...talk to her about it...and if she gets mad at you for trying to tell her your feelings...then thats stupid...then you should be mad at her
4-Hmm...well idk wat to tell you other than...try talkin to him more often.
-Hope i helpd-
_Chelsea_
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I am a 15 year in high school. I had sex with no condom with the finest chick in school. Its been a few months and I think shes pregnant. Can u help me? (link)
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#1-Dont run away from it. You have to take it like a man and deal with it
#2 you need to talk to her about it find out this:
-Are you prgnate?
-How far are you in pregnasy?
-And is she mad at u for it
#3- be very emotinal about it...try to cry -lol i kno- and be like "im so sorry" but you also have to comfort her.
Talk to me agian if this doesnt work out...and dont be wuss DO IT!
-Hope i helped-
_Chelsea_
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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?! (link)
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Love...
It has no words to describe it...thats why only some peopple know they are in love...you'll kno wen your in love...you can just tell
-Hope i helped-
_Chelsea_
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My gUy ALWAYS trys to make me JealoUs ,. i hate it iTs Such a tuRn off! He thinkS hes 10x better Than Me.. he tells me he is gonna meet hot guRls at the BEach and all this shit,. i try to tell him but really he doesnt get the picture,. he always talks bout all the sports he plays and i only play softball =/ so i feel like a dork when he asks.. so whats the next sport coming up for you? and i'm like i only play 1... and he knows that! he always brags about VarSity f0otball n hes gonna play on it when hes only a freshman,.! when hes at his friends house he makes fun of me ova the internet and believe me i kn0o its him. So one day i told him that i'm gonna run away with Ashton kutcher on a derserted island,. hah i'm in l0ve with him!!! ,. So now We both Make Each other Jealous n than we always GetS in fights,.
hah any advice? (link)
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Well i kno you might like your boyfriend and all...but it sounds like your 2 differnt peoeple. Purhaps its time to expire that relationship...i mean he isnt being very nice to you. You diserve and can get much better than that. They say fights make you stronger...well i think that in this case...its splitting things up father. You should end it b4 it begine to hurt you emotionaly...
-Hope i helped-
_Chelsea_
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ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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Be "playful" about the subject. But keep your bounderies. If he ever trys to start doing it...tell him "Not tonight/today" if he ask "Then when?" then you say "idk" and then wink at him. Thats wat my mom did with her boyfriend in high school...you might as well try it
-Hope i helped-
_CHelsea_
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Me and my two other friends make-out. We say we just do it to practice for when we make-out with guys. But my friend say her name is "Katie" and me like really get into it. I know I am not a lesbian but for her I would do anything. And I like making out with her. We caress each other. Sometimes we even make-out when her parents are home. We even play games with other close friends just to make an excuse for making out we pretend we're in college and that we're lesbians. We lay down on each other and touch each other. I need help and I am confused. I AM NOT A LESBIAN but around her i think i am but around every one else I'm straight.. Please give me advice ASAP..
Signed,
Straight but Confused? (link)
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Purhaps your attracted to that one girl "katie"
Its normal for a girl to go thru a fase wear you like other girls...but adventuly it will go away. If you want to try to get rid of the feeling...try to cut back on "just the platyin sround makin out stuff" Grab yourself a guy...it'll work trust me
-HOpe i helped-
_chelsea_
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okay well i'm 14 and i have a girlfriend. I would really like to make out with her and hold her and stuff and just be able to cuddle with her. there's just one problem. I get a hard on whenever i like think about kissing her or anything when i'm around her. I dont think of her in any sexual ways. does this happen to anybody else? or is it normal? (link)
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Ok from hearing story's from some of my guy friends...and my boyfriends....this is totally normal. The reason this happens...is wen you think about "kissing" her or doing w/e...you think it might lead on to more and more. Let me tell you soemthing thooo....you have to get it under controll...I have 7 rules about guys...i cant say them but one of them is they have to be able to controll themselve...-ex. getting hard- in a "sexual" time. Dont blow you load early...ya gotta wait or "let the oven pre heat b4 you stick the chicken in" ;o)
-Hope i helped-
_Chelsea_
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My friend is bi and sez she loves me. I love her too but I don't think my mom would except our relationship cause she's being homophobic. But i'm afraid to tell her that we can't can't be together because she cuts herself. I'm afraid of what she might do... HELP ME I'LL RATE YOU IF YOU DO!!! PLEASE!!!! (link)
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Ok,
Iv never been in this situation...but possably you could keep the relationoship on "low"...
-----or------
You could find her help if your not interested in starting a relationship...her cutting herself is terriable. And you not telling an adult..or someone to help her is like watching her drown in a pool and you not saving her. How do you kno wen the next cut she does...will be the one. Weather you want to start a relationship with her or not...then you still need to get her help. Try your local Suicide hotline...or the police...they will get you to a suicide hotline.
DONT GIVE UP!
-Hope i helped-
_Chelsea_
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There is this girl. We broke up like 4 months ago. I like really liked her and im still trying to get over her. Can you give me some advice? (link)
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Well,
It sounds like you dont know wat you want. From the sounds of it you sound like...you want her but then agian you dont.
If you do want her back...the best way to get her back is act sweet to her...and tell her how much you mean to her. Gewy stuff like that allways wins girls over...understand her comforts..and just in general be nice to her...and dont be shy...girls like guys with confadince! :o)
If your not wanting her back...see if you can become "just friends" with her...and see wat happens then..
or
Try avoiding her...dont look at her in the hallways passing her by...and try not to talk to her at all...that will adventully make yourself like someone eles...and guess wat....you'll be over her! :o)
-Hope i helped-
_Chelsea_
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my neighbor and i are really really good frineds and everytime i am around him i feel like the world has just stopped and i get this werid feelin inside of me do u think i like him (link)
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YES I DO!
I can all ready tell...dem sparks are flyin.
The reason you feel like the world has stoped is because your having so much fun with him.
Those weird feelings you get are butterflys in your tummy...i say you tell him you like him and see his reaction to it
_Hope i helped_
-Chelsea-
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I really, I mean really like this guy.He is my age and he is 1 of my bro's friend's brother.He goes to school with me.The last few weeks of school me and him were becoming really close.Im scared that next year he won't remember me remember me anymore.What can I do? (link)
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OK,
If you are as special to him...as he is to you then he wont forget. Let him be free...and do his own thing. If he forgets you...then forget him and find a new guy. Dont get yourseolf caut up in a relationship that might hurt you. You have to be a strong girl.
-Hope i helped-
_chelsea_
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Okay, um, my boyfriend just broke up with me and i am kinda confused. I really liked him but now im totally over him. And we are friends again. His best friend likes me and i like him but i dont know if i should go out with him yet or not. Should i go for it since we're young n shit? Or is it too soon? (link)
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Well,
The way i look at it...theres one good thing about breaking up, and that is a BREAK! Just take a rest. Then...when you think the time is right...then seee if that boy is still interested. If he isnt...then think of it this way...you would have been brokein up with him by that time. Just wait a bit. Also as far as i kno this boy that you like now is leaving...maybe you should think about that too.
-Hope i helped-
_Chelsea_
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I really like this guy but he doesnt like me im sad because I really like him! I dont know why he doesnt like me he wont tell me My question is how could I get him to like me? (link)
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Ok, from the sounds of it there is this hott guy that you like, but he just doesnt have the same feelings for you?
Well , theres 2 answers to this
If hes being nice to you about the whole thing...but just havent gave you a clear answer about it...maybe hes just wanting to be friends to get to kno you better! Dont give up...things you can do is figure out his intrest...and talk to him about them...and show him a side of you. Dont change yourself for him, let him see the real you!
If hes being shy and quiet about it, then maybe he just doesnt want to go out with you. Now, this doesnt mean you ugly or anything. This means hes just not attracted to you. Im sure your extordanary. Just be patient untill you find the right one!
-hope i helpd-
_Chelsea_
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