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Hey everyone, my name is Cameron. Though, I've sort of collected too many nicknames to count over the years. So, you can pretty much call me anything you'd like. I'll more than likely answer. I'm an up and budding writer, currently attending highschool, and still sorting out my direction in life. I found this page through a friend, and since my friends have always said I give good advice, I thought it couldn't hurt to give it a shot. Hopefully I'll be of some help to the advicenators community. For those of you out there who don't want to post a question or have a private question, feel free to text or call me. Just say where you got my number and it'll be good. 404-694-4515.

I specialize in all sorts of topics, and am certainly not limited to the categories listed under my favorites. I have personal and secondhand eperience in the LGBTQ community among several other groups. So, don't worry, you're always going to have a first hand answer to your questions.

I would love to help anyone out there, and I hope to serve as some sort of help to you all out there.

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I'm 19 and I'm a bisexual transexual male, i have a girlfriend, but she's homophobic and says gays are nasty. She doesn't know about my transexual lifesyle. Well i think like a woman, feel like one and i told her i want to get a sex change and asked her if she would still care for me...she said no and that she would leave me


So i kinda have been behind her back with this man i really like, and he's gay. He told me that whatever makes me happy and i should go for it and he'll be there for me, boy or girl.

So what should i do, i don't want to live like this all my life

And who should i choose.

First off, I want to say that I've had a bit of experience with the whole trans community. I recently came out to a few select friends as a female to male transboy. So, I can understand the sort of problems you might be going through. With all the stress the transition can cause, you don't want the added stress of this girl and your relationship.
You should be with who makes you happy and who you don't have to hide who you are from. A partner should love you for you. For all of you. Not just the part they can pick and choose.
If this guy says he's there for you, I vote that he's at least worth the shot. If you've been going behind your girlfriend's back though, I think you're only hurting everyone. You can't truly be with this man if you're still dating this girl. And you're hurting this girl by going behind her back. Right now, it's a no-win situation.
I know it sounds corny, but go with your heart.

I wish you the best, and hope this helps somewhat.
--Cameron

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ok so im 14 right now and i think i like girls and guys but im more turned on to guys so am i gay or bi? and i am single i really like this one guy but he is 17 what should i do about him? oh and im also looking for a nice 14 year old in western nebraska but a long distance relashionship is fine with me so guys or girls leave me your number tell me your name age and gender and ill text you

Right, so coming from someone rather well versed in the whole gay-bisexual-transgender community, I would say that it's still too early to try and figure things out. Whether you find out you're attracted to purely males, purley females, or both later on, there's no need to rush and try to slap a lable on your sexuality.
As you get older, your sexuality can change and shift. Coming from someone who's labled herself as a lesbian for four years before setteling on bisexual, and later transgender.
Lables change and you should try and just llet your mind to be open to everyone. Who knows, you might just find someone you like who's gender may not be exactly what you'd originally thought you liked.

About the seventeen year old boy. If you like him, the worst thing you can do is not do anything. If you like him, get to know him. There is always the age difference though. If he's already 'out' of the closet, he's got quite a bit of experience on you and may have already figured out who he is in terms of sexuality. Sometimes, that's a problem when you're just starting to figure yourself out on your own.

Like the user before me said, this isn't a dating page. But you know, it can't hurt to try and get to know people on all different mediums. I'd like to point out that facebook isn't originally a dating page either, for the one user who posted that. You never know where you'll meet someone. And there's nothing wrong with looking in unexpected places like advicenators.
My name is Cameron, I just turned sixteen, and I'd love to text sometime. My number is up on my page.

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