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Website: California26
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Member Since: September 26, 2009
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do i sound hot??

5'6, blonde, blue eyes, 34b, long legs, slight tan, skinny, 104 lbs, hair is long and pin straight, long torso, flat stomach, normal sized ears eyes nose and mouth lol, thats all i can think of (link)
yep sounds hot


so im a sophmore in highschool and have never done anything at all risky. i never had a oy friends pr hooked up or got drunk or anything. and im finding out that all of my friends have and it makes me really sad. i hate feeling left out and unexperienced. what do i do? (link)
your on a much higher level than them.thats a good thing you havnt done anything risky.if you make the wrong choice it can ruin your life.i had to learn that the hard way.i hope you dont,so if you want a happy successful life dont risk it.


Why are guys such jerks especially the good looking ones? Mainly the jocks, pretty boys, etc.? Why do all of them have too much confidence and an ego so huge it's hard to believe it was even possible a human to hold? Oh and WHY can you NEVER tell if they just wanna get in your pants or if they really like you for you because they're all good at wooing every girl possibly why is that? (link)
some of them like to keep that macho image and dont know the right way to go about it so they do what they can to look tough and impress people and show off. i was like that to until i was taught and grew up.as far as your last qeustion i would say it takes time.


i wanna know how to get a boyfriend because i am sicj=k of not having one and all my freinds have at least one i was going to have one but this boy was to chickened to ask me but he did go out with one of my bestfriends now i have moved schools i am in middle school and i wanna know how to capture a boyfriend plz help and show me the rules/ guidelines to get one and boys it would be helpful to tell me what you look for in girls and what are turn offs thanx and peace out (link)
start hanging out,get to know them,and throw it out there easy as that


so i posted another question earlier about my boyfriend and our relationship. and idk what to do.
hes really making me mad that way he is acting
i told him hes acting different and all he said is i dont htink i am. and i asked him if he was gonna call me last night and he said no i dont feel good so im going to sleep. so im like um okk.
and he always texts me goodmorning and i didnt get one today. so i said goodmorning baby and all i got was morning. and he always used to say i love you. but all he does now is says ily (i know it means the same thing but i dont like it that way)
idk what to say to him or anything cuase hes acting so weird.
help meeee ! (link)
I suggest stop texting and start talking


i dated my ex for about one and a half years and we were really tight together. she broke up with me exactly 9 months ago, saying she doesnt love me enough. we have been friends since then and i'm still not over her. we got together for movies, etc as friends and even kissed and cuddled heavily once and she really enjoyed it, (she said she hadnt made out with any guy since we broke up) but still didnt want to make up. i've tried keeping out of touch with her for up to about 2 months, but still not over her, and i was more depressed and less focused on my work while keeping away from her. i dont feel anything for any other girl as much as i tried (even when i had made out with some of them), even when the girls are desperate to have me. my ex even advices i get another girl. my ex is far from good-looking so she just cant get another guy even after trying hard with different guys in the last 9 months (the guys only say they just wanna be ordinary friends with her and this frustrates her), and this makes it harder for me to get over her, knowing she is still single, and probably would be for a really really long time. she's getting even less attractive with age, but I'm still in love with her. i am forced to keep keeping in touch with her as friends because this is the only way i am less depressed. but i'm still not whole, knowing we're not back together. how do i get over her? my life feels like its in permanent runis! (link)
I know how you feel.theres someone in my life i cant get over losing and is always on my mind it hurts but you just have to be happy that it happened at all.




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