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I am the most nicest person you will ever meet. hehe. I am very trustworty. I have the most awesomest(sp?) friends. You can ask me anything so dont be shy.
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alright well i'm 90% sure i want to break up with my boyfriend.. but idk what im goin to say.. he broke up with me last week and he got his friend to call me and say "john wants to break up with you. bye" (he asked me out the next day, which is how we are going out again). so i was maybe thinking i could get my friend to call him and say the exact same thign to see how he feels! or i might say "hey i think we should just take break from each other and just let things smooth out" because we got in a fight earlier today.. and hes just too dramatic and he always brings a lot of unneeded drama. so someone please help me. how should i do it?? and should i do it on the phone?
i had the same problem! ok well i this might sound bad but i think you might need to do it over the phone and lots of other people might not do it either. but i did it and the reason i did it over the phone was because i didnt want to see his face and tell him in person because i was too scared to so i did it over the phone. plus when you said this "hey i think we should just take break from each other and just let things smooth out" i think thats good to say to him. but then when he gets dramatic or whatever you should tell him that you still kinda have feelings for him(if you still do) but just want to be friends and so. plus if you have AIM and he also has a screenname you could do that if you dont want to hear his voice and stuff. becuz i broke-up with my boyfriend this morning from AIM. and he took it ok. so i hoped i helped!
okay, well there`s this boy and his name is kevin. to put it simple, he`s PERFECT in every way shape or form. he`s tall and muscular, and he has emo-style reddish-brown hair and bright blue eyes and a killer smile. and he`s smart and funny and easy to talk to, and he`s everything i could ever want in a guy. well lately it`s been quite the emotional roller coaster trying to see if we could ever be together. he`s in my gym class, and we`d flirt constantly. when we`d sit on the bleachers, he`d sit right next to me and we`d talk. sometimes he would be a total butt, but other days he would be really sweet and i would fall faster and faster. everyone kept saying that he liked me, too, but i never really believed them. but i don`t know ..
but everytime we`d sit next to eachother and talk, it`s like you could feel this tension between us. the kind of tension where it`s like we know we`re in love with eachother but we`re both too scared to admit it so we`ll keep it this way. well the other day i wanted to tell him how i felt, although i think he already knows. because i wanted to see if we could be together. but i was too late. before i could even tell him, he comes up to me with a huge smile on his face, saying that he has a girlfriend named jenna. boy, was i crushed. but i faked it every single day, telling him how happy i was for him even though his girlfriend should be ME. not HER. ME. so right now it`s basically killing me inside that he loves her, and basically he`s driving me crazy.
so tell me, what do i do about this whole situation ? do i still tell him that i love him ? i`ve tried to forget about him, but it`s too hard. i love him so much, and it`s really bugging me and making me mad. so please help me. any advice would be great. and i`m sorry for making this question so long.
truly,
BRIGHT-EYED SURPRISE.
OMG I HAD THAT SAME THING! Well except everybody knew i liked that guy. and one day he told me that he had a girlfriend and i was majorly crushed when i heard that. hmmm my situation was that i would still be friends with him but then just tell him you like him so then he would finally know instead of you keeping a secret from him. but then he might tell his gf and his gf might hate you.(but my old crushes gf didnt hate me.) i know its hard to forget and it was really hard for me to forget also. But i tried to think of all the bad things he would do to me and i eventually forgot about him. even though i saw him everyday(since he was in my class). sooo ya. i hoped i helped. :]. once you do that stuff tell me what happens!
There's a really really REALLY hott guy in my class...let's call him...tim. Well, Tim is a really popular guy who is really nice and well, HOT :)...basically, if you looked at him, your heart would melt...lol. And, well i'm not a popular person..It's not like i'm a total geek or anything but i'm not the most popular girl in my class...im just normal...
ANYWAY...
At my friend's halloween b-day party, my friend told him "You and Em would make a great couple...you should ask her 2 dance"...
Tim didnt ask me or anything so I thought that he didnt like me....
Since then, he's talked 2 me a little bit and I even saw him looking at me a little bit...does this mean he likes me? I doubt this but what do you think? He broke up with his girlfriend a while ago but at the party i saw them dancing together...
Should I give up now while I'm ahead? Any advice would be GREAT!!!
Thanx!!!
*~*EM (13/f)
Haha well my friend had this problem. And One of your friends should tell him " hey em likes you" and then i bet he would probably be shocked or something. Then the next day or whenever he sees you when he starts talking to you talk to him back! because you should be nervous or shy.Because i used to like this guy and he found out i liked him and he kinda like me back but he didnt ask me out. then a week later he got a gf. So dont get your hopes up! :] hoped i helped.
Well theres this one girl in one of my classess i like her and she some how found out that i like her and i don't know if she likes me back or if i can get her to like me.
Please Help. I am 13 and i'm a male.
Awww this is cute. Well I`ve had that experiance before. I found out last year that my ex boyfriend liked me. Well I kinda also like him back. Once you know somebody likes you you always kinda have to like them back because somtimes you dont want to hurt their feelings. So at the end of the year i went out with him but then I dumped him because I didnt like him anymore and he started to spread rumors. So just in advance once yall go out and if she breaks up with you NEVER TALK BAD ABOUT HER BEHIND HER BACK WHEN YALL ARE BROKEN UP. hehe ok? because she will also spread bad rumors back to you.
there's this boy i have liked since the beginning of the year. i am starting to wonder if he likes me back because i always catch him staring or w/e. i want him to know how i really feel but i am scared. he actually walks with me down the hallway sometimes and stuff....but still idk. (im a really shy person.....) what should i do....just stay where i am at and just go with the flow or should i make a move? can you also tell me what that rate stuff means?
(im a 13/f)
I`ve had that a bunches of times! Well I always have my friends ask him who he likes and stuff. They usually do find out. I told one of my guy friends that my crush was staring at me one day and my guy friend told me that he likes to play this thing they call it "the staring game" with girls. Its when they just stare at you and stuff. But i dont like that game because you might think if theres something on your face. I am a very very shy person also. And I told my other guy friend that I liked this kid and i told him to find out who he likes but it ended up that my guy friend told him that i liked him. so it was really awkward for me. And 90% of the time they want you to make the move. So in your case i think you should make the move. I think Rate stuff means that they rate girls on a scale to 1-10. i know its stupid but thats what they do.
I really like one of my good friends. He has a girlfriend, though, and she goes to a college about an hour away. She's a year older, and they have had a long distance relationship for over a year. They've been going out for almost two years.
The boy has been increasingly friendly ever since I broke up with my (long distance) boyfriend. I really love being friends with him, but I can't stop liking him!
So,
a) how do I find out if he actually likes me?
b) how can I let him know that I like him without looking like a bitch trying to break him and his girlfriend up?
c) how can I stop liking him so I can go back to being just friends?
Thanks!
A) Ask one of his friends if he likes his girlfriend and another "certain person".
B) Hm probably just slip it into a conversation and say "yaa, sooo i kind of like you."
C) I`ve had that problem sooooo many times. This is what I`ve done. I tried to think about him and think of all the ways he would hurt me when we would be going out and think of all the good posiblities of being friends with him. Plus think about if yall break-up that means you might not be friends with him anymore and that i think is my worst nightmare with my guy friends.
Hope I Helped =].