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heyy im lauren. im 15 and ive been through a lot of different stuff so i can answer pretty much any kind of question!

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Ok well if any one can answer this well i am really good freinds with this one guy but tonight when we were hanging out and he leans over and kisses me really nicly so idk what to do after that!?

he obviously likes you. if you like him back then keep hanging out with him and maybe kiss him back or consider going out with him. if you dont like him make sure he knows youre not interested (but do it nicely)..because leading him on could ruin your friendship.

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I really like him and all but I'm really not sure how to get him to try things with me. Help?
How do you let him know you're ready for him to kiss you, or hold your hand or something like that. I don't want to be the one to start.
:/ Anyone?

well he wont really know youre ready until you tell him or show him. so maybe you could start off by holding his hand or something. just when youre walking grab his hand. maybe he will get the idea that you want your relationship to be more intimate or whatever. if he doesnt get it then try just like kissing him on the cheek or something and maybe he will copy you and then eventually try to take it farther.

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Well here the thing. I'm a sixteen year old guy and I have a problem. The thing is that... I like older women. Not just like a little older. MUCH older. Like women fifty and up. I know its weird and gross probably, but I can't stop thinking about it. It's not like I want a relationship with an older women I'm just extremely attracted to them and I can't stop thinking about them. I just want to have sex with older women, and even if I did try to get with an older women they might think I'm weird and I wouldn't know what to say to them in order to try and attract them to me. I just need help on what I should do about this and how I should go about it. Please help me A.S.A.P.

youre in a confusing time of your life. youre going to be interested in things you never thought you would be. youre just a teenage boy. you need to realize that this little fantasy of yours probably ISNT going to happen. its illegal. try to hang out with girls your own age.

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I am 16, and I like this girl at school. We have been in class together often for the past two years. This year I'm a Junior, and I am finally feeling more confident but everytime I get around her my mouth turns to jello, and I sound like a fool. She is so beautiful, that I can't help staring at her sometimes. She thinks it is sweet. I have even told her I like her and she really has not even said a word about it. She is a great friend, but it seems like thats all we will ever be. She says she only dates older guys but I am a great guy too. How do I make her notice that about me?

if she hasnt really said anything about it then it probably means she isnt interested. when she says she only dates older guys.. that probably means she likes more experienced and mature guys. show her that youre mature. it might be hard, but you need to try to feel more confident around her and stop being that "cute and sweet" guy. she probably likes guys that are more confident around her because that kind of goes along with maturity. think about what youre going to say to her before you say it. go up to her and start a conversation. good luck.

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17/f. ok so school started like a week or so ago, and there is this guy who sits next to me in one of my classes, and i think he is so nice and irrisistable. I want to get his attention and be able to talk to him, and him want to talk to me. I have started one conversation about his favorate sport football, and it went well, but the thing is is that he is one of the really nice popular boys, and he probably gets this attention all the time. so i want to know how can i be that special girl? how can i be that one girl that he cant resist?

i dont really understand how you can like this guy without really knowing his personality and stuff. but ok. just try to get to know him a little better. start more conversations with him and stuff and slowly you will probably become friends. thats when you start flirting with him and stuff. try to get his attention and show him that youre interested.

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14/f

This is kind of hard to explain so please bare with me. Okay. So sometimes when I talk to guys I always flirt with them with my body movements and eyes. And I'll act all sweet and harmless and innocent but I'll be confident. I'll do this until I'm pretty sure the guy has some attraction to me, then I'll stop and I won't even look them in the eye. I think it's because I want to make a guy like me even if I don't want them at all.But I don't like to do it because i feel like I'm just being a tease. But when I'm with girls i'm my normal self. I know it's like maddd confusing. So. I need advice for stopping this.

just dont flirt with guys you arent interested in. hang out with girls more often and stuff. i understand your problem though.. its happened to me before. its not good to lead guys on. people get pissed off at you and you lose friends. just dont do it.

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ok....so I am 15/f.

Homecomming is comming up in like 3 weeks... and I really like this kid...and I want to go with him... and there is a football game tonight...and he will be there...any tips on flirting...and should I ask him to homecomming??

Advice please!!!

the guys are really supposed to ask the girls.. turnabout is for the girls to ask the guys. but whatever go for it. flirt with him a lot and make sure he knows youre interested

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Oh, I'm so mad right now! I'm going to this high school football game with one of my friends, and this one guy from our school asked if we wanted to sit with him and his friends at the game.

Well, my friend's guy friend said that the guy that wants us to sit with him and his friends is going to pretend to hit on us and embarrass us in front of all of his friends, which make up a good portion of the 8th grade!!!

What should we do? I wanna reverse this prank...

What do you think? Any ideas?

okay well.. you could just not go. or you could go and embarrass them. when they start hitting on you completely reject them. or when you get there be like "sorry we promised other guys we would sit with them" and go sit with other guy friends.

good luck

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He broke up with me 3 times, first he broke up with me because he HEARD a rumor that i wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that i wanted to brake up with him so wegot back together and 2nd time was he broke up with me again because he doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else when we were going out but he didnt wanna tell me because he was scared that im gonna hate him, but after that we still talk to each other a lot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes and he did too and he asked me out after that but then he said he wants to keep the relationship a secret because he didnt want people to know and its annoying when people asks about it so we went out AGAIN for 4 DAYS and he broke up with me again because he was confused and didnt know what to do and i told him not to talk to me for a while but he still does and after that he asked me to move on and stuff he gave me advice about moving on but then he asked me to call me and i told him no because im gonna fall in love with him again and he says"who knows maybe we could start over again" and im confused because hes the one told me to move on but now hes saying this, this is his 4th chance and my friend told me not to because she doesnt want me to get hurt and stuff but i really dont know what to do what do you guys think?

this guy is annoying. he sounds like he just wants attention. hes just playing with your head bc he likes knowing that even after he breaks up with you.. you will always come crawling back to him. if you really have feelings for him then stop talking to him for a little while. cut him off from your life. that will show him that if he keeps doing this youre not coming back. if he really cares he will try to get you back.

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Every weekend all our friends do something fun like go to the movies or bowling. And they always invite me and my boyfriend... but my boyfriend never wants to go. He only wants to sit home and watch movies and snuggle. Which is okay sometimes... i mean, i'm glad he wants to be with me... but we never do anything fun. And the weird thing is, it's not like he's anti-social... at school he's super popular and a big show off and loves to be the center of attention. But whenever we're together with a bunch of people, he ends up pouting and getting mad that I'm talking to other people. It's like he's jealous if I get any attention, or if I'm giving anyone else attention. So all we do is sit home while everyone else has fun, and they think we're like the most boring couple on earth. Ugghhh... what can I do? And why is he like that?

it sounds like he wants to get your complete undivided attention. but he has to understand that hes not your ONLY friend and that you want to hang out with your other friends also. next time you get invited to do something fun with your friends, tell him youre going and he can come too if he wants to. let him know you should have a say it what you guys do also.

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