Hello all. My name's Bethany, and I'm pretty good at giving advice (or so I'm told.) So, ask away!
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i`m a 15yr old female,
i started to hang out with this boy about 2 months ago. he is in 2 grades higher than me he drives and i relly like him. tha first day we hung out i started to like him and since that day we havent gone more than 2 days without seeing eachother. But tha thing is he only wants to be friends with benifits.. and i want more. He is also involved with this other girl but they arent dateing she is an ex but they still have sex. I havent had sex with him yet he has asked but i said no. I met a few of his friends and became friends with some of them too. One night 3 of his friends asked me to hang out with them even though the guy i like wasnt there but i wsaid yes anyways. i ended up haveing sex with one of his friends. When the guy i like found out he was mad i`m not to sure why, he said he was mad because i said no to him when he cares about me and knows me well but i said yes to one of his friends that i jut met and didnt care about me. I'm not to sure why i had sex with his friend and won't have sex with him. He still asks me to have sex but i always say no. It might be a revenge thing because the night that i had sex with his friend was the same night i found out the guy i like was still haveing sex with his ex.. now the guy that i had sex with started to call me and ask me to hang out. i like him too but i don't think he knows it. i think he just thinks i like fooling around with him. so im wondering what i should do about this because i think tha first guy i like is just useing me and i don`t even know what to do about th second one. (link)
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The best thing I think for you to do would be to just give the first guy up. If he's not willing to stop seeing that other girl, then he's not worth it. You should maybe think about the second guy, and forget the first. :)
Hope this helps!
Bethany
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I really like this one guy aand I know he likes me. How do I tell him how I feel? Should I wait untill he makes the first move because that is what I think I should do. Im to afraid to tell him myself (link)
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My friends helped me to get my first boyfriend. If friends don't help try writting a letter telling him how you feel. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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I have been getting zits ever since the beginning of 7th grade. I really hate it. And I use Clean & Clear to clear them up, but the product doesn't exactly work. Do u know any product that will work? What advice would u give me? I looked at ur Zits link, but i've tried all of that..and i still get zits. Please tell me what products u use! It's hard to walk in school when a lot of boys are staring.. (link)
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The best way to work on zits is to not play with them too much, and wash your face every night. I'm in 7th grade too, and I'm going through that phase. I use Neutrogena Clean and Clear. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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My boyfriend has smoked cigarettes and gotten drunk just a few times. I hate it SO much! He's only 15 almost 16 years old, why in the hell does he need to smoke? It makes me mad but his friends tell me to get his nipple out of my mouth (referring that I'm a baby) and that he is old enough to do what he wants and its not bad... I'm just looking out for the love of my life! Do you really think I'm acting like an overprotective mom? (link)
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You're boyfriend is really young to be smoking and drinking. I think you're doing the right thing to protect your man. You obviously care and love for him and wouldn't want him to get hurt. Just don't listen to his loser friends. Hope this helps... Please rate me.
*Bethany*
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I liked this kid for a couple months.. but we always would flirt during the school year.. now its the summer n he asked me out n i said yea... because i really started to like him... we went out but he broke up wit me... then he asked me back out and i said yes... then a week later i broke up wit him because he was never wit me n he never called... but then i started to relieze that i missed him alot... n he said he still liked me but he was still thinking about goin out... i was ok wit that... but then he started liken my best friend... i told him he plays around wit peoples heads to much... should i still like this kid? or should i move on? (link)
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Your best choice would probably be to move on. Even though you may still like him, you should try and see other people. If you two are going to keep getting together and going back out then he's obviously not the right guy for you.
Hope this helps~Good luck! Please rate me.
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i really like this guy alot. And he tells me im gorgous and that he likes me too. Then we went to the movies with me and my best friend. And the next day he ends up liking my best friend instead of me! should i move on? or what should i do? (link)
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This guy must have been a real jerk if he told you you were gorgeous, and then goes with your best friend the next day. I say you should just forget about him and be happy for your friend. Hope this helps~Good luck! Please rate me.
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Hii. i was reading what uve been writeing to everyone and u seem like u have helped soo many people so i had a question i have been really confused. i have been dateing this guy for about a year now. he is my 1st bf. we have been in and out of fights and we break up with each other and usually hook back up the next day but this time we broke up and it has been about a week. he tells me he loves me and he misses me everyday and other time of the days hes all pissed and he doesnt say shit. what should i do? my friend say he relly loves me and wants to work things out and he wants to ask me out again what should i do should i just get over him or keep loving him? hehas taken a big part of my life. i know confuseing but i dunno what to do anymore. (link)
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I know from experience that your first boyfriend is the greatest. If you're always getting in big fights, and getting back together on and off, then I think you should just end the relationship before anything else happens. YOu many want to get back with him, but you don't want to do something that you'll regret. I hope this helps~good luck!
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me n my gf always have nothing to do any ideas where we could go together we r gettin bored of movies, bowlin, n playin pool wut else can we do together? (link)
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If you've already done those things and tired of doing them, then you could try to find something to do that you've never done before. Hope this helps!
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ARE'NT THERE ANY GUYS OUT HERE?But that was'nt my question.But I do have a problem...Well I think my boyfriend is gay!And I think he's just playing up with me but actually he wants to be with my elder bro.How do i find out if he's gay??? (link)
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If you think your boyfriend is gay then you should just ask him first instead of accussing him. If you really think it's that big of a problem then you should just be friends.
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hi im 15 years old and a guy...and i dig this chick alot, we went out before for like 8 months and then we took a "break" and a few days later shes going out with my buddy and to make a long story short, me and her were hangin out at my house and her b/f dumped her and she acted like we were goin out or somethin and then the next day her and her ex are doin the same thing...what the hell do i do? (link)
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Just dump her. If she tries to get back with you then just say no! Hope this helps!
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I NEED Help i love my ex but she dont like me what should i do im a 13 m (link)
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Well, if she doesn't like you then you should just try to get over it. If that doesn't work then try finding another girl that you love even more than you ex. Hope this helps!
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I have a big problem , I went out with my bf and he's 17 , Im 15 well a really nice gurl to him , he dumped me and went for here..... How do I get over him , He keeps talking about her everytime Im around him..... HE"S HURTING MY FEELINGS!!!!! PLZ HELP Thanks Jenipher (link)
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If he's really hurting your feelings when he says that, then you should ask him to not talk about her around you. He shouldn't be talking about that stuff around you, especially if he dumped you for her. Hope this helps!
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