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Ok me and my boyfriend have been having some trouble lately and we haven't been talking that much. Well the other day this boy pranked my friend and he got her number off our friend and they called me on 3 way and I started talkin to this boy. I talk to him like every day now and I am falling for him! He's so great. But i dont even know what he looks like but i don't think it would matter to me because he's just the greatest person in the world to talk to. But theres just one thing I HAVE A BOY FRIEND. I don't know what to do I like both of them so much! What should I do??
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Well the first thing I am going to say is, you obviously don't care as much about your boyfriend if your talking to another guy and allowing yourself to develop those type of feelings. If you loved your boyfriend, you wouldnt still be going on with this other guy. I understand that we can change our feelings about people, but if this is how you treat your boyfriend, it's probably how you will treat this other guy if you get with him. I think you should sit down and seriously think. Do you like and want to stay with your boyfriend? or do you just wanna forget him and go for this new guy that you dont even KNOW?. At least with your boyfriend you kno who he is, you kno what he looks like, he cna actually do things with you.. but this other guy you kno nothing about him besides what you hav talked about on the phone. I think you need to prioritize yourself and really stop screwing around. You are not only screwing your boyfriend around, but your going to end up hurting yourself. Take my advice and think about what you want before you continue on with either one of these guys.
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Okay heres the thing i like this guy A LOT and were close friends and the other night he told me that he likes me too..which made me happy but the thing is right now we cant date because 3 of his best friends ( theyre girls ) like him and it would hurt them and start A LOT of drama...but he told me " i need u right here now i need u right now more than ever" and he told me i make him happy but its real hard ...and i dont know if he wants me to wait until everything cools down with his friends or should i try moving on n puttin interest in someone else....because i mean we both like eachother and we have chemistry....so what should i do!? (link)
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Well if he really liked you, he wouldn't care what his friends thought. Your friends do not have to like or agree who you go out with and are just clouded by a jealousy complex because your the girl he wants. It sounds like hes letting them get in the way of your relationship or the start of it and I think you should tell him how you feel. If he's going to let these other girls stand in the way of him getting with you... then think to yourself.. is he worth it?. You shouldnt have to sit around forever waiting to see what hes gonna do if you can find someone who would want to be with you regardless of thier friends. Well good luck with everything.
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There's this guy "Ethan" and i liked him alot over the summer, but then at school it got around to me that he didn't like me anymore and so i thought okay ill just not seem interested bc guys usually come back to what they now know they can't have. Well that's when he started coming back around and wanting to talk and everything and i of course got excited. Then once we started talking again it wasnt much but it was something. i guess i just wanted it to go back to how it was over the summer. so i suppose i got in the habit of ignoring him going back to the belief that he'd show me more attention but now he's not noticing me much anymore either. What can i do to get him back to talk/notice/like me? (link)
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Well I would tell Ethan that you need to talk to him. And let him know how you feel. Even if he rejects you, I think it might be a big burden off your shoulders knowing where you stand and how he feels about it. He may be waiting for you to come to him, Not all guys come to girls... Sometimes the guy would like the girl to make a move. The best advice I have for you is to let him know exactly how you feel and what you think. It may go alot better than you expect, and it may not. No matter what you choose to go or which road to take.. Your gonna be setting yourself up for some kind of disappointment either way; whether you sit around and wait for him, or let him know what your feeling. If he tells you that hes moved on and doesn't think he wants that kind of commitment or hes interested in something else, then thats a red flag to let you kno that you should also move on. Well good luck in your choices.
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well to be honest i'm worried about my bestfriend.. her boyfriend still talks with his ex girlfriend (she moved 3 years ago, outside the country). she found emails were they said that they cared a lot for each other. he said it didn't matter because it was just by emails, nothing would ever happen, it was just a scape of reality, a game.. she loves him a lot.. i don't know what to tell her. i'm her bestfriend i don't want to break her heart, but i personaly think she should break up with him .. what do u guys think?? (link)
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I think she should break up with him. It may be through e-mails but things get started that way and if they still care for each other, then who knows what else they have talked about. I would warn your friend about this and let her know. She should not get dragged along with this guy who is going back and forth with his ex and her. As a best friend, I would definatly bring up to her and have a nice talk. I wouldnt get tangled up with someone who was still very much into thier ex.
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Well im 15 and i have a WONDERFUL boyfriend. we've been together for 3 years!! and u have to admit thats pretty long..anyways, he gets horny a lot, and he tries to get me to have sex with him sometimes, and im just NOT ready!!! He understands tho of course since hes a real understanding person, but last night, he tried to have sex again!! and of course, (as always) i stopped him. And this morning he came over, and gave me a letter, and then left..here's whut it said..
Dear Nicole,
This no - sex thing just isnt working for me. Im sorry, its just that i get sooo HORNY whenever i see you..i jack off, and i just cum and stuff. I dont have a very strong will, so i think u should rethink about the no-sex thing. you know that i love you either way tho..and i cude never break up with you..but ur a fantastic person, and i neeeeeeeed you..
Love,
Chris
should i just have sex with him and get it over with? or should i stick with my first answer? PLEZE HELLLLLLLPP ME!!!!!!!! (link)
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To me this guy is only looking for sex and sounds like a dog already. Wait till your older and definatly wait till you find a decent guy or a better one. You can do alot better.
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My mom and I are really close, and she told me that since I was 16 I could date now. Well I got asked out by this really awesome guy, who I've been friends with for 3 years. And I said yea. Well I told my mom and she freaked. And the reaosn why, is because hes middle eastern. He's not muslim(and even if he was I'd date him), he's not a terroist, his family are not terroists..he just happens to be from Iraq. My mom is saying stuff like "Sure do what you want, get blown up". How can I make her understand that not all people from Iraq are like that!! (link)
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Well from seeing everyone else's replies I must agree with the one before me. You're really not going to change your mom's mind about how she feels about things such as that. She likes to stereotype and usually that can be hard to overcome. Sit down with your mom and kind of let her know about what she is saying is childish. From that comment you said your mom has made, it sounded like one of a 5 year old. Sit down with her, let her KNOW that not all people from Iraq are terrorists. Thats like saying all Americans are obese or all Americans are greedy. Thats not true at all. Have a dinner with you, your mom, and your bf and his parents. You let your mom know that she said it was fine for you to date and she didnt put any restrictions on it and its not even her place to tell you who to date. You just follow what you think is right and best wishes to you and your boyfriend. :-)
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