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Q: I like this boy alot and I know he likes me to. I'm not sure if he wants commitment with me though. I really would like to go out with him. All I ever think about is wanting to be in his arms. I feel so comfterble with him. More comfterble then ive ever felt. When we talk on the phone he says thinks like "if I was there I would hold you." And all this other stuff. I want to go out with him. How should I get him to ask me out or find out if he wants to go out with me or if it would be easyer how do I ask him out? Any ideas?

I would say joke around with the idea for a little bit then start to ask him questions about going out but don't say it directly.. and guys are kinda slow so give good hints that are easy to pick up on

Q: i am too afraid to talk to this girl at my school, chrissy, and i dont know what to say to her. Do you have any advice to help me out?

you could just find something to say... like think of a stupid question that mabey you already even know the answer too but just ask her anyways to start a conversation. Like ask a question about school or some kind of project or assignment and then slowly back into a conversation

HOPE I HELPED

***~MaDdY~***

Q: my g/f tld me 2day tht she felt different abt wen we made out n tht she didnt luv me as much as she used to..n thn i tld her how i felt n she said((no joke))o well i luv u but not as much as i used to...wat shuld i do?

If thats how she feels mabey it's time to give it up and start looking for someone new because eventually it will come to that because that little love that she has for you now will soon disappate unless you dramatically change her mind but i don't think that'll happen

HOPE I HELPED

***~Maddy~***

Q: how can u get a guy to notice you?

Just talk to him about stupid common things and then as time goes on mabey you'll become friends and even closer and add a pinch of flirting in too... it doesn't have to be dramatic just a little

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***~Maddy~***

Q: ok i like this guy... ALOT! but there seems to be this little rat face bitch always in my way. and she keeps flirting with him. and i know she is doing it to piss me off. but i dont know what i should do?

Be like back off bitch! plus if she's rat faced and ugly he won't go for her anyways so i wouldn't worry about it. when your around him just tell him how much she bothers you and he'll probebly start to hate her too.

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***~Maddy~***

Q: Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

Well you got a long time to decide whether or not a person is right for you and you'll go through a ton of boyfriends before you find that one person that you fit with really well. It'll just take some time.

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***~Maddy~***

Q: okay im 16 years old and in play football for my school. Well every practice i see this gurl there and she keeps on looking and smiling at me. well one day i went up to her but she ran off.

Does sher like me? WAT COULD I DO TO MAKE HER COMFORTABLE?

Yea she probebly likes you and is just a bit nervous. To get her to feel more comfortable you should just smile back and smile and then try talking to her in a calm casual manner.

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***~Maddy~***

Q: im 15 year old male.

okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.

Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.
PLEASE ALOT OF PEOPLE ANSWER I NEED AS MUCH HELP AS I CAN GET

She's probebly just shy or nervous or mabey she just wants to tease you to get you to stay "Involved" with her longer. Pull her aside somewhere when the chance is right if you wanna get her alone

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***Maddy~***

Q: yeah he is...he lives in donegal and is one of those country ppl...i dont think u would know him

ewww country people yucky what are you doing likeing a country boy ?

Q: I am 14/f
i like this guy but i am afriad to talk to him becuase i dont think he will like me back. I also think he still likes his ex-girlfriend. Do you think i should talk to him and if so, how do i talk to him?

who is it? I probebly know them since i go to your school... drrrr this is Maddy. I think..mmmmmm...drrrrrr that you should buy me a drum set. oh yea but your question.. yea i think you should flirt like mad and let him get the idea that you like him w/out you actually telling him

***~Maddy~***

BLARRRRRRRR.....

Q: i have a problem with my ex boyfriend.... when i was going out with him he hit me a few times.... twisted my arm and hurt my side and i have bruses from him.... but lately i have been with him more and more and then last nite he kissed me and he told me that he loved me still... i don't know what to do?

you should buy him some cake and he should buy you lunch for a change and you should be happy and tell him he's fat and no one likes him

BLARRRRRRRRRR.......

your friend in real life,

***~MADDY~***

Q: is age nuthin but a number? i mean like im gonna be 14 soon and i like three ppl who r all juniors and im a freshman. thats not bad at all but i am a young freshman ya kno? and my mom doesnt have a problem with me going out with ppl who are older then me but i kinda do. i just feel so young and these ppl r like 16, 17 and almost 17. how do i stop falling for older guys?

It's so normal to like older guys they're so much more mature and attractive. If you think about it when you get out in the real world then it doesn't matter if your a couple years younger. think of it in a more mature adult way.

AGE ISN'T ANYTHING BUT A NUMBER

***~Maddy~***

Q: okay ive been going ou with a guy for 2 days now and i cant stop thinking about him..i think about him all the time everytime i close my eyes all i see is him..when we have to say bye on the phone..i wanna say i love you...but im not sure...could i be inlove??

Hate to say it but this is probebly just a phase in a couple weeks you'll be over him. It's just because you've been going out for 2 days and it's new and exciting now but once you get used to the relationship you'll get bored and won't like him as much.

***~Maddy~***

Q: hey gurl whats up? n2m over here. I give advice too. how koolio is that. AWESOME! well i g2g type back if ya have time.

Hey thats cool yea well i just started so i suck...yea ummmmm goin to a party tonight whoooo hooooo. ok well umm.... yeA bye

***~MADDY~***

Q: Hey, i really like this guy... and he lives in another state... hes comming down in november...he wants to see me which i great... but the thing is should i feel bad if i am going out with someone...(not while he is down tho) because me and him always have "lots of fun" when he comes down... is it wrong for me to date if i still like him... sry if this is confussing but if u understand plz help!!!

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thanks!!

signed lost in lust

It o.k to date a guy and like another at the same time. We all do it even if we don't want to just keep it secret and don't let your boyfriend find out. How is he gunna know?

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Well I am 16 and I've been through a lot in those years including things like sex, drugs, and a lot of criticism and I feel I have a lot of advice to give to those who are struggling with a problem of there own.