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Ok, so I'm one of those shy guys that doesn't know how to approach a girl...But there's this girl I like, and she's like one of my bestfriends and I don't know how to tell her I like her...Anyone have an ideas?? (link)
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Oh piece of CAKE ! :) Especially since she is your best friend. You shouldn't be afraid to strike up conversation, so do that. Then tell her you want to talk to her at the end of the day or at lunch. Then that will get her wondering and it will give her a chance to rethink her feelings for you. Then when it comes to talking to her say something like, Well I been thinking about you lately and I like you, but as more than a friend, I was wondering if maybe you felt the same way. Its good to do it like that, because girls dont like rambling idiots who spend ten minutes on one sentence. So saying it straight out and completely how it is, is easier. If she feels the same way then ask her out on a date. Start with a movie and maybe some icecream afterwards. Make it fun and simple, so dont start wondering what romantic restaurant you can take her to, because thats going too fast. If she doesn't feel the same way, tell her you still want to be friends (though she will probably say that to you first) and if your really mad dont let it show, because you'll look like a loser who cant suck it up and get it through his head. If your sad then thats all right, because if you really like her, you will be sad. The most important thing I can tell you is to be straight forward and be who you are. I hope this helped, I'd like to know how things work out. I'd wish you good luck, but you dont need it. :) - PK
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This is going to be long or no one is going to understand my situation.
Basically I'm 16 & Female: I had this perfect boyfriend (or so it seemed) we dated constant, no breakups, for 17 months. He, too, was 16. We planned so much, we were even getting engaged, it was perfect. Near January of this year, things started getting a little rocky between him & I. See we go to different schools so we never really got to see eachother that often. We planned to meet eachother at the bowling alley, and that night we got in a fight. The fight wasn't really over anything big, he just got mad at me over something & hurt my arm. But I told him that he had anger problems & needed to resolve them. So basically, for the next 3 days he ignored me. He ignored my calls, my texts, my messages, my emails, & he never called me back, returned anything. Then I had gotten on the computer that day & he broke up with me. I was not only mad that it was through the computer, but I was furious because of everything he threw away. A week down the road, he comes back to me & asks for this thing he called "break-up sex" I knew it would have been a mistake for me to have done it, but I wanted him back & I wanted that feeling back. So I agreed to it. Later on, he tells me that he's "talking" to someone & doesn't want to ruin things with her, so he doesn't want to have this "sex." I was hurt. Basically because I still wanted him back. Friday night, I went to the basketball game at his school to meet up with a couple of my friends, and he was there. He wasn't with anyone like he told me he would have been. So he texts me & asks me to meet him outside. We ended up having sex in the backseat of his car. I don't really regret it, but last night he told me that he never would ever get back together with me & that friday night was an accident. What is your all's opinion on this situation? (link)
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Come on.. seriously. People can be in love, but they have to understand when someone is using them for all the wrong reasons. He knows that it wasn't an accident. He just wants some a**. It's like a booty call. Don't be the one to give that to him. Your only 16 too, but having sex is your choice, so ok. Also, if he's even somewhat abusive you need to get out of that relationship all together, friends and everything. Get over him and go for someone who really cares about you and your feelings. Your just giving him what he wants and thats not good. Hope I helped and if you have any more questions ask me.
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So, i'm pretty sure I like girls. I mean, ive never dated a girl or a guy to EXACTLY know. (or kissed for that matter) but honestly i'm just attracted to girls and find male genetalia gross.....
But i'm starting to think that maybe i just find it gross because of my age and inexperiance and just... immaturity? and maybe I like the idea of having friendships with girls and confuse that with being in love with them? I just dont know.
I have told people I am bi, but never told someone I was actually a lesbian. Also, all the guys im friensd with are gay. I have like no straight men in my life besides my father and older brother lol, if that matters....
Oh, and I watch/enjoy girl on girl action frequently and i just dont know who i can see myself spending the rest of my life with: a man, or woman? I can't see myself with EITHER! :-p (link)
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Your not necessarily a lesbian. What you need to do is kiss a girl, pretty much. If it's disgusting then your probably not a lez.. and if its wonderful then you probably are. Sometimes people can be attracted to the same sex, but it doesn't always mean sexually attracted it could just mean you like that persons personality and thats what attracted you to them. If your not quite sure what you are then I wouldnt tell people that your bi. You should kiss one of your gay friends, they probably wont mind, and see what it feels like. Hope I helped.
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1) so there's this guy and he's 17 yrs.old and i'm 14..i'll be turning 15 in october! would that be considered rape if we went out?[boyfriend girlfriend]
2) he's been sending me mixed messages online because we've been talking. i'm pretty sure he likes me though.[he got kept back 3 times so he's a sophmore] and i'm a freshmen] so if he sees me @ school we'll hug but he won't talk to me. i don't mind though because i think both of us are trying to keep our feelings on the "down low" so what should i do? he asked me for a kiss and i said yes,,, but i'm scared because this will be my 1st kiss and i'm pretty sure he's expecting it on the lips. so should i do it? and we'll be seeing eachother tonight @ the skating rink. i was thinking of dodging him.. but should i ??
i know this was very confusing to understand.. but please answer. thanx in advance. (link)
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hes 17 and your 14. I say dont do it. He should be a senior right now. There's a big difference there that you may not see. Its better to find someone your own age or at least closer to it. He's been kept back three times, jeez. Not to be mean, but he doesnt sound too smart, but he is smart enough to know that he should be trying to get with a child when he is almost an adult. If you were to date it wouldn't be long before you'd have to break up since he would be turning 18. Sorry, but it's the law.
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ok one of my best friends (lest's call her B) broke up with this guy (let's call him A) 2 weeks ago. we all got invited to this party, but B didn't go. when i got to the party, A was flirting with me and tried to get me to dance with him. then he just kind of held me when i told him no. i guess i looked kind of sad because he asked me what was wrong. i told him nothing, but i guess i still looked sad because he tried to make me smile. then he just started kissing me on my neck, on my cheeks, and then he just leaned in and kissed me on the lips. i didn't kiss him back, but he did it again and i just stood there. i didn't push him off because for some reason, i just felt kinda weak...but at the same time it felt so wrong. then he started blowing in my ear and whispering things to me. now i feel really bad because it feels like i'm stabbing B in the back. now i can't get A off of my mind. i'm just really confused...what should i do? (link)
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People keep saying its been a whole two weeks... well I disagree, two weeks isn't a long time at all and your friend probably might still like him. You should definitely tell your friend, before she finds out from someone else, because then you will really seem like a BEEP. If you like him, you should tell her that too, but if your not sure then you dont need to tell her that. Also, obviously include the part about him being all over you, but also that you didnt stop him. Hope that helped. Sincerely, Pk.
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Basically I have begun to really really like my guy friend. I am 13/f. He has gone out with 3 of my girl friends but they always dumped him because they stopped liking him. I have liked him for months now and seriously think about him 24/7. We flirt alot and I was wonderring if you have any ideas on how to tell if he likes me other than just asking him. These are things that he does that make me think he does like me:
I catch him staring sometimes and when I do he'll smile back and stick out his toungue (i know childish)
I am of mixed race and when people bug me about it and call me names he'll defend me and get them to stop
Sometimes he'll trip me for no reason
He always says hi to me in the hall
When we talk we have total eye contact (never wavers)
When we talk we'll usually end up shoving eachother and touching eachother
When he says something mean (even if it was a joke) he'll say sorry afterwards
If he's talking to the guys and I walk into the con he'll acknoledge me immediatly
he shows concern when im upset and kind of demands a reason why and such
Sometimes he'll put his arm around me for no reason
Reasons I think he doesnt:
He flirts with my friend who dumped him last year
If people say we look like a couple he'll suddenly run away
If people say were flirting he'll yell something like "Stop Flirting With Me" or "AAH Shes trying to Rape Me"
We walk to our buses together and whenever he approaches his he'll see the guys then run away screaming
He says rude coments when people say "we should just go out" such as "Oh ya like Shes sooo wanted" in a mean sarcastic tone
I have no idea if hes just being a good friend or maybe likes me! Any signs? How could I find out? (link)
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Hey. Well, there is more reasons that he does like you than he doesnt. To me he sounds wicked funny especially when it came to the reasons why he didnt. Guys are all like that, cool sometimes, but absolutely immature all the time. lol. When guys dont want their guy friends to know who they like or they are just simply shy about it then they'll act like they dont like you when their friends are around. It's the typical guy thing, they all do it. He sounds like he likes you overall, but then again you have to consider that just because he does all of that doesn't mean he likes you in that way. I have a guy friend who does pretty much the same thing, but he is like that with a lot of his friends that are girls. Some people are just really comfortable with their friends even if they are of the opposite gender, because if your friends than your friends. So he could like you or be a great friend. The best way to find out is just to ask. Talk to him one day and just ask him. The bad thing about that is that he might lie and say no, because he is too afraid to admit it. Or he could say yes,which would be a good thing. But if he does say no things might get a little awkward between you two, but with a person like him it doesn't seem like it would be awkward for him and if it is he would get over it and you guys would still be friends. So I Hope that helped and good luck. Dont be afraid to ask him. Sincerely, PK
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what is a girl that is 13 and b/f is 15 supost to get him for v-day?
i was thinking gift card to his fav. store and like some chocolates
good idea or no?
thanx (link)
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If you have enough money then I would say a video game. But if you dont then definitely a card and a teddy bear. Let him give you the chocolate, lol. He will probably give you a teddy bear too, but I think he will really appreciate the teddy bear and he probably wont admit it to his friends, but he'll sleep with it at night. I hope ur V-day goes well and even if you dont get him anything, he'll appreciate that he has you.
-PK
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