Hi everyone,
My name is Patty. Or atleast that what I being called. I'm 16 years old and have been in many teen websites and answer questions through the year. I'm pretty much an outgoing activist person. When I listen, I listen with my heart, mostly and sometimes with my head when it come to question I have to search for the answer. I usually give a straight, honest, answer to every questions. Feel free to contact me at daydreamz89@hotmail.com or pop by a question at my column. :)
Take care.
-Patty-
E-mail: daydreamz89@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: K-12 Student
Age: 16
MSN: daydreamz89@hotmail.com
Member Since: August 5, 2005
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how do you have sex with your parents being home. if there room was downstairs and yours was upstairs and you wanted your boo to stay the night. how do you do it without gettin caught! (link)
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Hi there,
well i suggest not doing it while your parents are home cause well when i did it i done it when my parents are out to work and i sneak my ex to my house. anyways even if this way is staff always remember even if there's no parents there's still neighbors. there's once i rode a motorbike out with him and i just kind of run into one of the neighbor gladly i think she didn't notice me but ...god that just can give a pretty good heart attack. And even if you can moan softly how to you suggest your boy to sneakt out? by the window? don't think so, and closet wasn't that good idea either, don't you think. if you really want to have sex have it somewhere else where's your parents are not insight. and don't even consider having it at youur boy's house, his mom will be on your back for the rest of your life.
or if your boy happen to live with the old aunt or something like that that might the case u could try cause i did that with my other...date..
ok.. anyways tell me how its going..and oh don't forget to use condom..or if you don't want to in that case there's always emergency birth control pill where you take right after you have sex and again 12 hours later.
take care,
patty
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My boyfriend started to french me but I pulled away and said I didn't feel like it. Well, truth is, I don't know how and I'm worried I'll be bad at it. Does anyone have any tips or websites that can help me out?
Thanks,
Angela (link)
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Hi there,
Try check this website out. It tells you how to french kissing..even include pictures. hmm
http://www.links2love.com/teens_french_kiss.htm
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ok...there's this guy that i might hook up with but i'm still not sure that i will but he was asking me if we hooked up if i would ever have sex with him and i said i didnt know...i dont know what to do because i dont think im ready for sex yet and honestly im scared...i want to tell him that im not ready but i dont know how he will react.. (link)
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Hi there,
I suggested not to have sex with that guy because if he only hooking up with you to have sex with you, that just not good. SOme guys are nice, some are just plain j-e-r-k. Also if you feel peer-pressure to have sex always practice saying "No." Don't ever care about what other reaction would be. It's your life, its your decision and its not going to be him to decide for you. Don't let anyone put a pressure on you for this. Every relationship does not require sex. Remember this.
Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-
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ok i am going into 7th grade and i am worried if guys lik me cuz when i was in emementary skool everybody didn't lik me wat should i do?>
plzz help me (link)
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Hi there,
Is it possible that you think people didn't like you and its not that way. Or could it be it seems like people didn't like you because you don't really talk to people. First question is to defy your problem. If you really think people didn't like you. Why so? If its your look, I suggest if you happy with the way you look, don't give ....what other thinks but if you don't. THere are thousand healthy ways you could do to fix that part. Personality, are you too quiet, are you too shy? Defy exactly why do you think and return me some answers and I'll tell you if thats true or not because from the way you sound like, you didn't sound that bad to me.
Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-
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ok lots of my girl freinds say im atractive but wenever im talkin to someone online that i havent seen they alwyz say i have a nice personality im scared of showing them or meeting them or w.e cuz maybe they wouldnt like me so wat do i do? this guy is goin to my sckool this year and i talk to him online hes my friends freind and like i dontt want him to think im really ugly or wat not (link)
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Hi there,
Seem like the only thing you don't have is not the looks or the personality, but more self-confidence or self-esteem.
Boost it up. Believe in yourself, if your friend said your attractive that must have meant something, or else, why would they lie? Just keep your head up, think your attractive and your funny and good personality. If you have a positive attitude toward yourself people will have positive attitude toward you. So how can he think your ugly. There's such thing as ugly people and even if someone is really not that good looking they might have something else hidden inside of them beneath their look. Look in yourself in the mirror, and say to yourself I am attractive and I have a great personality. Try to boost your self-esteem up because thinking negatively is not going to help.
Tell me how its going. Take care. Remember you are attractive, whether its your look or your personality. :)
-Patty-
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I have really liked this guy for like 3 months or more. So then i went to a group were he was and we talked and then he asked me if i had a crush on him and i said "YES" then we stared going out. We only went out for 3 days but i still really like him. We are still good friends but then i asked him on the computer would you ever go out with me again and do you still like me he said he would probley never go out with me and likes me as a friend. I was fine with that but then i went to the group again and he totally ingored me. So from then on i ingored him then he e-mail me on the computer and asked me why i was ingoring him. (this was after a weeks of no talking). SO my question is why didn't he talk to me at group?? then i say him today and he also completly ingored me today too. so whats his problem?? please help i'm so confused...I RATE HIGH.oh and i also e-mailed him back and told him "because you didn't seem like you wanted to talk too me" he also read the e-mail befor he saw me today.. if that makes any diffrents.. THANK YOU (link)
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Hi there,
I'll answer question by question. "Why didn't he talk to me at a group" might be because he's embarrassed of his friend, and what I meant was not he embarrassed of you. It just guys you know they hang out with their friends and they don't want to get tease about you and all these things. So usually they pretend to ignore you and again guys, when you ignore them back some guy got the sense that something they used to own is slipping away. So they try to get your attention back. Three days, that's not long, but hey everything is possible. He might be confusing about how he's feel about you or he might just have things on his mind. It kinda hard to talk guys because basically when they have problem they want to be left alone. So I suggest you could just send him email and say something like you understand what was going and we're still friend and if there's anything he wants to talk about. You'll be there. and right now, just let him be don't run after him, cause it possible he could get annoy. But wait for him to call you first, or email you first. And we'll see how it goes after that.
Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-
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I've been going out with this guy for almost 2 months. He's amazing. He's good looking, Funny, Smart and basically everything I want in a guy. Except, He's 2 years younger than me. He's really mature though. If he tells his mom we're going out he'll get in trouble and have to break-up with me and it kind of bothers me cause his mom keeps questioning him why he calls me and why I call him. I really dont know what to do.. Can someone please give me some good advice? I rate really good. Thanks! (link)
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Hi,
You know age difference really not a big deal. If you see on a new some people that are 20 marries someone that are 50. The question is "why" is he parents against it? If you and him have absolutely no problem with this. I suggest you try to speak to him to ask his parent about this. And in the meantime you two take things slow. Because at the end it was "he" who dates you not his mom so he has the decision. Tell me how its going. Take care.
-Patty-
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