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OK. So i have problems with likeing guys. i like 2 guys at once and they both like me back. and this always happens to me. and then i end up making the wrong choice. plus i cant stay in a relationship. my friends go out with there boyfriends for like 2-10 months. im a select soccer player who likes emo stuff dresses prep/skater/geek/whatever i feel like. i like to read and i like computers. I love to talk and everything. plus im geeky and a tomboy. SO that makes a very odd person. and i cant find a guy that fits into more than 2 of those things so sometimes its hard. so bottem line is
1)how can i find out what type of guy i want
2)how can i keep myself out of love triangles
3)why does this have to happen!!
Please help. = ( (link)
Who treats you better? which one do YOU think you like more? or maybe you dont have to date them. Maybe just stay good friends.


Sorry its long. but you have to know the whole story.

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a week and we have been friends before this for like 3 years or so. And before we even started going out i made him promise we would be friends no matter what. well hes younger than me. And so he does things differently. Well ever since he asked me out i have seen him. he hasnt called or anything. i have had 3 boyfriends in a row. and im thinking i might want to be single but im not sure. because hes really cool and i know how to have fun with him but thats it i guess you could say hes not "boyfriend" like. and hes really not but hes the noly boyfriend iv had in a long time that iv had fun with. Plus theres this guy i met at soccer. (we played agenst eachother in a scrimmage. We both play select for the same club) and that would mean we only really see eachother then. Plus im not sure if he likes me. i think i saw him looking at me at halftime. SO im not sure on what to do.
Please help. All advice is wanted. PLEASE HELP (link)
ok, go for the boy from soccer. Obviosly he doesnt want to have a relationship. Maybe when you asked him he might have been a little nervous. You can definatly still be his friend but maybe you guys can hold off a bit on the dating stage. Hope this helps! ( and if i was a little too harsh im SOSOSO sorry)




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