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It has been about a year that my ex and I have been working on our relationship. I cheated and realized that it was a mistake and we have been trying to fix it ever since. We are divorced. It was what he wanted, I gave into it cause I had no room to protest. He doesn't trust me, he tells me that he wants it to get back together, but he has a trust issue and doesn't believe a word I say. I have tried everything I can think or to get him to talk to me about. He likes the time we spend together, but he says it is a friendship thing. He doesn't have the feelings of love yet. Yet I get confused because he always wants to see me, wants to hear from me at work and when I am on my way home (we don't live together), but he only looks at us now as friends. We still are intamate with each other. Friends don't do that though. I have asked how I can earn back his trust and he tells me at one time he will see it forhimself and there are times he says he may never getit back. I just don't know what to do. I want this to work and I ty so hard, just whaen it goes ok I ask how he feels and he gets mad....what can i do to help him open up? To trust me and believe my feelings are true?
Willing to help,
Mickey (link)
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How old are you?! You sound like a friggin' teen who got married just for the hell of it. Anyway you cheated, you're the bad person. He can't get over the fact that you were a whore so deal with that. You don't just cheat and expect things to work after you say that you're sorry. And unlike what 'others' say, the divorce was not your punishment, it was not your execution. This is...the fact that he's stringing you along is your punishment, so live with it. You can't cheat and then realize that it was a mistake...hullo only whores do that... you didn't love him enough to be faithful, so he doesn't trust you and thumbs up to him for that. After screwing up like that, you'd better be willing to prove yourself bigtime.
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I went out with this kid name Matt and About a month ago I dumped him. The kid is like obsessed with me he's alway just staring at me, at lunch, during classes, in the halls. If i walk across the room he watches me. He seriously watches like everything I do. I have a new boyfriend, named Jon, now and both him and i are really uncomfortable with him staring at me. Its so weird im like afraid to be myself sometimes. Like people come up to me and are like Matt is staring at you. It creeps me out and makes me so uncomfortable. Some of my friends have been telling him he needs to move on and get a new girlfriend and they've suggested hooking him up with people but he's obsessed. I dont like him that way at all. What should I do about it?!?!? (link)
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There's nothing to do but wait until he attacks you. When he does, just stab him with a pen and say "Oops, did I do that?"
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i really like this guy...but i am afraid he wont like me and i am friends with his friends and they say he isnt into girls right now...but it feels likehe keeps flirting with me...what should i do?...should i ask him out?
ps. i rate 5's (link)
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"and they say he isnt into girls right now"
Well what is he into then? Guys? If so, that answers your question doesn't it.
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my boyfriend broke up with me because he said he idd'nt have time for a girlfriend school and training. So he broke up with me and was realyl rude about it saying all I did was care about myself and I was self centered. But yet last night he had girls over at his house. He has time for hoes but not a girlfriend? I'm really confused I really love him and everything what should I do? (link)
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I give sensible advice, I really do. But there are the occasional morons who post stupid questions to which one can't give sensible advice cuz morons lack the ability to comphrehend or to think sensibly. So once in a while I'm forced to talk on their level.
Ok, you're an idiot if you think that there's something you can do. He doesn't like you anymore...doesn't have time for you...the sooner you get that through your head, the sooner the 'infatuation' will die.
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Hello.
I have been having really bad luck with guys lately and im getting really tired of it. I dont know what to do because it always seems as if I either get to shy and dont know what to say or i say somthign really stupid. can someone please give me some adive.
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Walk up to a guy and say "Hi, i'm stupid but I give great head". You're sure to get his attention.
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(16/f) what do/can you get your b/f for valentines day? (link)
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Nothing says I Love You better than a basket of tuna.
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