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Heyy girls its Alicia! As you all probably know, my name is Alicia Rivera and i go to ocd in westchester. My best features are my looks (you know spanish beauty;)i luv luv luv to dance and i want to become a news anchor when i grow up. i get e-mails from boys all the time to hang out, but i would rather spend time with my best friends, massie, kristen, dylan, and claire. ehmagawd i heart them so much! I'm really good at giving advice about boys and fashion, they are my passion!! I am also great at make up andbeauty, because my mom just went to spain and got me all this make up. sooo sephora!!feel free to ask me anything, i love it!!! you know you love me, leesh xoxoxo

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Theres this guy I really like but he only thinks of me as a friend, I don't know what to do cuz people r always like " You'd be such a cute couple" but hes like "No, we're just friends."
What should I do?

Ehmagawd i've had the same thing b4 its almost scary. honestly, what i did was try to flirt it up with him and it just made me seem desperate. sooo not good. so if this guy wants to be just friends, find someone new to like. but stay friends with the other guy, in time he might like you! xoxoxo alicia

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14/f...i'm so confused and have no idea what to do. i recently found out that my friend likes the guy that i like. but the problem is that she told some of her close friends that she likes this guy and i haven't told anyone. so if i tell people they'll think that i'm copying my friend or they'll be like she liked him first. then i used to think that this guy liked me back but now i think he might like my friend. and if he does like me and ask me out then how would i tell my friend.

oh and this girl isn't really my close friend. we used to be close but now were just friends.

Ehmagawd i had almost the same situation!! Personally what i would do is not tell anyone that you like him too until you are sure he likes you. so just flirt up a storm, he'll say he likes u, then you can be like i guess i like u too! hope this works, chica!! xoxoxo Alicia

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I'm 15/f, and I have a major problem flirting. I'm really bad at it. I never know when I'm doing it too much, and coming on too strong and going to scare a guy away, but other times I'm too quiet and the guy doesn't even know I like him. How do I flirt successfully? How much can I get away with without crossing the line?

my advice is to be yourself, chica. but if the real you isnt something guys find "bonita", just follow these tips:
lean in when you talk to him
hit his arm playfully
wear sexy clothes and
wear a spritz of perfume so when you walk by he gets a whiff of your signature scent
walk slowly with your hips sayshaying
make discreet moves to be near him, like making an excuse to sit next to him
be confident!
but if worse comes to worse, act confused. they love a damsel in distress!!!
soon you will have all the chicos loving you!! ay ay!!
you know you love me, alicia xoxox

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what does it mean when during an entire duration of a conversation with a guy, he's staring straight at your lips and occasionally into your eyes?

It means your wearing ahmazing lip gloss!! Like too faced 10 years of gloss in yummy, soo good with an adorable case!!! Seriously though, it means this guy wants to kiss you. he's not really paying attention to what you're saying. so i think this guy is a total LBR!! do not date him, he only wants some action. you know you love me, alicia xoxoxo

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everytime i start liking a guy or think i might like him..i like stop myself. i have no idea why i do this. and everytime a guy starts to like me "or thinks im hot" i feel weird like..i dont know how to explain it. it makes me see them differently. and im always scared to do things with boys..like go to movies with them because im scared there gonna make a move and i dont know what i would do! ive never even had a boyfriend yet but i have madeout/kissed one. i just dont know what to do.

Honestly honey, lighten up. i think the reason most girls feel like this is because they're nervous. Just relax. When a guy you like asks you to the movies, prepare yourself before the date. Wear your best outfit, always have fresh breath, and wear deodorant!! Then when you're with him just be yourself. But if he does try to make a move, just tell him you're not ready. You'll be great!! you know you love me, alicia xoxoxo

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