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im 13 in the 8th grade and ive never had a b/f. the guy that i like keeps on saying that he dosent like me.
is there something wrong with me? (link)
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No silly. There is nothing wrong with you. You are barely even a teenager! You have PLENTY of years to start dating...you'll be fine:)
-Amy
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hey...this is gonna be pretty long im guessing so ill rate 5's to whoever takes the time to answer this..thanks.
Okay..so i met this guy who i fell totaly inlove for and cared about him sooo much. he knew that i was moving to a different country soon, and it started affecting our relationship badly. one night we got in a fight and were on the verge of a break up after i found out he told people he dindt like me anymore. i called him up and told him im comming to him as a source of it all and i need to know if he still likes me or not, and that i dont want him to lie to me , or fuck with me, just tell me the truth. well that night he never gave me a straight out answer if he still liked me or not, he was really quiet, and every time id cuss he would ask me to stop cussing. but i jsut kept on yellin and crying and tellin him i cared a lot, and i just need the truth, then ill leave him alone if thats what he wants. well he said he had a lot to say but he needs to figure it out nad he'll call me back. i said okay. this was around 11 at night or so. but he dindt call for like 2 hours, and i got worn out and tired so i went to bed. he called around 5, but i dindt pick up cuase i was sleepin and my phone was on silent so i missed it. i keep thinking to waht if that was the call that would fix my relationship with him. the next day, i called him back but he wasnt home. I called my "bst friend" and aksed her what she was up 2, and if she wasnt busy i needed to talk to her (i wanted to tell her hwat happened) and she goes "oh actually im just with ur boyfriend right now nad we're just chillin with some other people" I had NO problem with that whatsoever caust i trusted her completely with everything i had..and it takes a long time to gain trust with me cuase i been backstabbed way too many times..so this gurl had my trust completely, and i trusted my boyfriend and i understood that maybe he needded some time to think things over and stuff..well my best friend, all the guys think shes one of the hottest girls ever, and pretty and perfect and eveyrthing..blah. anyways, my boyfriend calls me from my best friends cellphone later on that night and i pick up and he talks to me and hes like "hey....im really sorry but i dont think we shuld be together anymore..u cna hate me if u want, u hvae every right to, but i still wanna be friends. i really dont want to..i just think this is comming to end.." and i was just like "alright, bye" cause i was really upset!! i mean i loved this boi!! and he broke my heart in thousand pieces!! and so i knew hed be with my best friend for the next few hours, so i called him around 12 am, and i was like "hey..i think i deserve to know why" and he was like "know why i broke up with u" and i said yes so he tells me all this crap about hwo he thought i was somebody else who i wasnt and how he met someone special who is so perfect and amazing and how i deserve better than him and it ended and that he has unrealistic expections of ppl. basically a bunch of BS and he never gave me a real answer. so w/e. it NEVER evven crossed my mind that my best friend was his new special someone!!!!! I found out that she hooked up with him the night we broke up! she gave him head, he fingered her, and ate her out and she gave him a hand job!! ON the FREAKING night we broke up1!!!!!!!! i was like omg r u kidding me.. but when i told her i was hurt she freaked out on me and told my ex that she cant like him cause of me! and so my ex freaked out on me and got pissed cuase supposebly hes in love with my slutty ex best friend..and i still cared a lot about my ex, like damn i care so much for him.so i told her she can do whatever she wants, and to not involve me in it..but i couldnt really get mad at her and let her know how much anger i have, and how betrayed i felt and how i would never trust her again..so i reminaed silent, which was a mistake. now them two are fucking going out, and she lost her VIRGINITY to him. i dunno what to do. i cdant say anything now, but i feel so betrayed bt here. should i still let her know that im realy hurt and i have a lot of anger! cuase when she has problems with my ex and is sad she comes to me and tells me about them and i dont wnt to hear it, he was MY ex!! and when he does cute stuff she tells me and im like how much more unsensitive cna u be? but i just sit there and listen..i dunno. shulld i tell her off and break friendship off completely? cuase i have no trust for her. and baout him, what do i do. cuase even after it all i still love this boi like no other and care os much and really dont want to lose him..even as a friend..i hookked up with him one time after we broke up..and i was crying cause i was drunk and i told him evertthing i felt and we stood infront of the mirror and my make up was completly smirred and we were huggin really tightly and he goes look at us, look at the mirror and we both look, and then he turns his head away, kisses my forhead and he syas i cant look at u this way i cant look at us cuase then its gonna hurt more..and i was way drunk and i dindt say anythin just kept crying. and we just stood there..so i duno cuas ei still care lots about him and i duunno if i shold just act like i dont care anymore and eventually stop..or should i still care for him and talk to him and be friends..cause being friends with him hurts me somuch cuase i see him with her and it makes my heart crash to a thousand more pieces evry time. and also his birthday is comming up soon, and i dunno if i should get him something or not? and if i should..what? hes a bab boi skater type..so u cant really get nice things, and i dont want to get it over done to make him think im obsessed with him.
I AM sorry this is soo long!! but i really needed to elt it all out! thanks for whoever replys! ill rate 5!! xoxoxoxoxo thnaks! (link)
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First of all, that is SO messed up that your best friend did that SO MESSED UP! Lol that even pisses ME off!! I had a similar situation happen to a boy I was totally in love with- we had been going out for like a year. And he betrayed all my trust. The simplest answer and the most helpful one will also probably be the hardest one to take-I suggest you don't talk to this girl anymore. She is NOT a good friend-look at what she is DOING to you!!! Also, this boy...that moment you had with him when you were drunk..it sounds like a moment I had with my ex...it is the last time I ever saw him. Don't let moments and memories consume you. Move on from him, because he just isn't right for you. I would really like to talk about this more cause I really think I can help you with this...I have been in SUCH a similar situation and it REALLY shattered my heart and made me feel horrible. You can e-mail me at Gummibear4054@aol.com.
-Amy
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I need an idea for a date. I don't know they guy real well, we've only talked 2 times. So i want to get to know him, and i'm kinda nervous that going to a movie would me akward. Please give me ideas. (link)
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O first dates...always so fun and cute! Remember, the place you pick will say a lot to the guy about your personality...I suggest picking somewhere you like to go! Whether its a funky used CD store, or a really pretty park you like to walk in! And hey, movies and a dinner sound very normal, but they work too!! Hope I helped! If you have any more questions, please leave them in my inbox!!
-Amy
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i meet this bout a week ago and he came over to my house on Saterday and meet my parents...and he asked me out when he came over...the best thing is that he was the 1st guy to come to my house meet my paretns and ask me out in person...so i was pretty happy bout that...well i really really like him alot...i maen i know its not to the point of love...but he says that he mite love my but it's to soon to tell..n i think the same thing...but we never get to see each other cuz we go to diff skools we...but we both see each other almost every weekend...would say its going to be a good realtionship...?? (link)
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Hehe he sounds like a great guy! Well...isn't there some song says, "When I'm falling in love, I take my time, theres no need to hurry when I'm making up my mind." I think you should apply this basic principle to this relationship. Love should never be rushed or hurried...it comes when it wants to:) And about your relationship, going to another school is often a good thing, because you don't have the social distinctions that high schools often lay upon people. Hope I helped! If you have anymore questions on this or on anything else, please leave them in my inbox! I am always more than happy to help!
-Amy
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What is a good line right before u kiss someone. bc im not a brave enough person jsut ot do it i need a line. (link)
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Haha, my now ex boyfriend used a really good line on me. I'm not too fond of this guy anymore, but he said, "What are you thinking of right now?" And I said, "I don't know..what are you thinking of?" And he said, "I'm thinking of this..." and grabbed me and kissed me. It was probably the best kiss of my life so far. If you have any more questions, comments, frustrations, or whatever, just leave a comment in my inbox! Hope I helped!
-Amy
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Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help (link)
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First of all, make sure your parents are in a good mood. Get them both together and have them sit down. Maybe you could try saying this, "Mom, dad, you know I love you and respect your decisions for my life, and I know you are there for me every step of the way. Well right now is a time when I am really going to need you there every step of the way." Then explain to them that you are pregnant. The good thing about that speech is that 1) you acknowledge that you respect and love them, and 2) you make it clear that you need their help. Your parents may not be happy with you-they may be furious. But they will cool down. You could perhaps ask them to take a "week cooling period". Suggest that during this week they think about what they are going to do-and what you should do. My suggestion on what to do, however, is to not abort the baby. The baby is a human being whether inside of you or out. You will be destroying a precious human life. You may hate the thought of having a baby now, but as you grow and mature, this child will mean more to you than you could ever imagine. Good luck with this! Leave any more questions you may have in my inbox! I am always happy to help!
-Amy
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OK here it goes!...Me n my boyfriend have just started havin sex...n well once he has had it once he has to have it all the time...well sometime i really dont want to...but he will force me into it or beg me to have it until i give in...n i love my boyfriend so much we have been dating now for 4 months...i keep saying no over and over but he keep it going when i finally give in he says baby im sorry for doin that to you...but he still does it anyways he promised me that would be the last time but that wasnt the first time he did it either! What should i do and say to him w/ having to break up with him? Please help me! (link)
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dump his ass
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how do you give a hickey? (link)
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well, you basically suck with your lips and i guess a little of your teeth until you bruise the skin...ya oww sistah!
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