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ok well i went out with this guy for almost 8 months and then we broke up and went out again but my parents really dont like him and everytime i wanted to do something with him i had to lie and i got sick of it so i dumped him. Now he keeps telling me im a pussy for not wanting to get in trouble, he says he can't be my friend either because he can't have friends that are pussys (come on how immature) and hes just being a really big dick about it! my question is should i just 4get about him or try to talk to him so we can at least stay friends? Thanks in advance!

Omg he is very rude i dont think i would try being friends with someone that call me a pussy just for get about him you just gotta shake it off
Sarah_xO

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do girls like the smell axe or tag.

OMG yea axe is so hot and i love tag ;)
Sarah_xO

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my boyfriend flirts with tons of girls that arent me...do i just let it be?

no way this guy must not be that much into you he isnt showing you the love and compasion you want so you should dump him before he dumps you and show him whos boss
Sarah_xO

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if a man you lived with and had a relationship with moved out while u were in the hospital for 3 days and told you you needed to loose weight cause you are too fat should you take him back if he apologies?

HELl NO! if you really want him back still then you should play games with his mind but hes not worth it.
Sarah_xO

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i like my friend and i cant stop thinking about hehr but i dont know if she likes me back what should i do?

well u should tell her how you feel i had a guy friend one who just told that i wa beatuful and he loved me and actully i liked him too and we wentout fora whilesojst ask see how things o.
Sarah_xO

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If you were asked to sign a prenup, would you sill want to get married to that person? I always thought that if you go into marriage with the thought of divorce then it will happen. Signing a prenup is kind of like saying "hey, if this doesn't go well then we can just get a divorce and all my money will still be okay."

i wouldn't not because of the money just because this guy cares more about his moey hen me like thats really sselfesh thing thinking i would take his money becausei would nevr marry someone for there money
Sarah_xo

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Ok .. I don't want to ask my parents, or friends, so Im just going to ask u guys:

What is a dildo??????????????????????

thanks .. i rate good answeres =D

ITs Like WHat some PeopLe usE whEN they HavE sEx or SOmE REallY lonely PeopLE use IT its A faKE RubbbeR PeNis

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I have never had any guys that have really liked me except for one. And I don't mean to sound self cenetered or anything but I am pretty. I have so many friends that are guys too, and they always say I'm hot. But everytime I like a guy I always end up getting hurt. Like I like a person and they don't like me or someone likes me and then when I finally like them they don't like me anymore. Is there any way I can prevent myself from getting hurt so much?

Babe sorry i know it hurts bad but it life its gonna happen im sorry but everyone gets hurt and its just life
SaRaH

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well, i like this boy at my school and i think he likes me. i talk to him on aim and on the phone. we talk alot and i dont have the courage to ask him if he likes me or not.what should i do to help me get the courage?
thanx for helping...
someone

Yea I know how you feel well maybe you could possbley get a friend to pass him a note asking if he likes you and if he repiles back no then he might be to shy to really tell you that he does like you then you might want to ask him yourself and if he still says no its ok its no the end of the world there will be lots more guys lol
Good luck
Sarah

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welp, im going to ask this really hott guy out tomorrow and im so nervous...but i kno this isnt a question but i just wanted to tell people, wish me luck. *if we do start a relationship, our annaversery will be June 2nd! lol) WISH ME LUCK! i dunno why, but whoever wishes me luck, will get a rating of 5. :)

GOOD LUCK! omg he is going to say yes i bet!!thats so cute i know he wont turn you down! omg have fum make sure hes smart and cute and dosent push you around! dont be nervous because he is going to say yes!!
GOOD LUCK
SArah

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what things would you recommend to do for fun with the gorgeous girl i call mine?

Hm.. well there are always lots of things fun to do like go to the movies or go skating at a skating ring or ice skating is fun too. lets see just hagging out and kicking back with her and friends sometimes is always fun.
have fun,
Sarah

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OK. I have this little problem because I like this guy who is younger than me by like 10 months. People say it's not cool to date younger guys but I don't care. So here's my problem: I like him a lot, but I wanna be more than internet friends. I know him and he knows me, we go to the same school, but we don't talk in school, only online. And one time, my friends told him that I liked him and he said "Don't say that or else I'll throw up in my mouth" but that was a long time ago and he said sorry for it and I forgave him but now I'm feeling mized emotions again. I like him a lot, but at the same time I wanna hate him. What should I do? Still talk to him? Not talk to him at all? Or not be friends? I'll rate anything please!! I really need help...

hey well this guy is only 10 months apart i know its not that cool but yall are still not so far apart if you really like him then you should get to know him.
hope i helped
Sarah

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do you realy think true love still exist?And do trust for guys do?

It can in many ways true love isnt really something all people belive in its more like a well an opinon everyone thinks diffrently about it
hope i helped
Sarah

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Im 14/f and have never frenched anyone. I know its a little pathetic but the only offers I have ever gotten have been dares and I dont wanna waste my first real kiss on a dare, that doesnt mean anything. So now I really like this guy (lets call him "Jon")...and as far as I know he likes me. Jon was going to ask me out so his friend asked if I liked Jon and I said no cuz I didn't want everone to know that I liked him. But it turns out that was his test to see if he should ask me out. So now were friends with benifits and I want to french him but how can I without making it too weird or random?

Aww. thats cute well actully last night be and my boyfriend went to the movies and he gave me my first kiss and it was French. So if you are going to french kiss him and its your first kiss i suggest you maybe just stick to kissing for the first time dont rush into it. you will regret it. but in the other hand if you still want to do it then plan a trip to the movies.
Hope i helped
Sarah

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What should i do, i like a person but i don't know if they like me back?

hm.. well
A( you could ask
B( you could pass a note
C( you could ask a friend to ask him.
D(Or ask one of his brother or sisees to ask for you
Good luck
Sarah

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I'm 16 F and I've never had a boyfriend. I know some of you might say, "Don't worry! When the time comes, it comes.." The problem is that I hang out with a bunch of preps..and all my friends have already had boyfriends..:-( I'm the only one out of that group that's never had a close relationship with guys! It's kinda sad..if you ask me! The question is..how can I get guys to notice me..what can i do to make myself look prettier (I'm pretty ugly compared to the other girls)..How can I start convos with guys..it's already hard enough to talk to girls! Thanks

Lol dont worry your not alone well if your hanging out with preps im sure u look fine but if you wan to stand out thats what im here to tell you to do. Ok make-up is a huge part you need to wear mascara eye showdow lip gloss eye line that helps the face stand out and now the rest of your body your cloths should only come from Abercombie Gap ect.. those type of stores hope i helped !
Sarah

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My girlfriend is a quite beautiful girl. And I know she knows she's beautiful. She's also pretty damn confident. But, for some reason it seems like she's insecure around me. Every time we're intimate and I try to slid my hand down her stomach she sucks it in. I guess she doesn't think I notice but, I do. She has a fine, flat tummy so why she feels the need to suck it in is beyond me. I also don't understand if I did anything to make her feel insecure. I tell her that I think she's beautiful every chance I get. I don't know what to do here.

Aw thats the sweetest thing i ve heard a boy say. anyways the point is maybe she is unsurce with you maybe you should talk to her and maybe shes unsucure with her sell she might need to hear the words "BAby you know your beautiful and i love you so much" maybe tell her that
Good luck
Sarah
ps. if you want to tell or talk about this anymore email me at leagallybrunette@bellsouth.net

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I don't usually cut myself, but something really bad happened, and I did it again. I know it's wrong, but I was going through a rough time, and I don't plan on doing it again, but anyways, I have to attend a pool party, but how do I cover up the marks, from my wrist up to high up the arm. theres a few of them. please help me cover them up. I don't wanna hear you should tell someone, because I go to a therepist. PLEASE HELP ME. rating high.
xoxo.

Hmm well you could 1. Wear a long sleve shirt
2. get neosporin and band-aid for healing and for scars you should get a scar healing medicne like Medrmia that works well.
and 3.DONT CUTTT!!!!!! just dont hurt yourself i know i sound stupid but alot people care about you and cutting is like failing it dosnet slove anything
hope i helped
Sarah

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I have a dance comming up friday. Its a Carribean dance so i have the beach theam plotted out. I am goign to wear my pink/orange skirt and a pink/orange spaggeti straps. Then wear a light white jacket over it because i cant where spaggetie straps at the dance. Then i was thinking to wear my pink laie around my neck and maybe my hair up with a flower in it.Girls is there anything nice to wear with this offit that will just look nice?
Heres when the guys come in. What are some places guys like girls to have stand out. Like eyes, lips, and other places lol. Well please let me know i want to look nice. I have some what of a figure it that helps im 13 too so dont say anything sluttish and i weigh 120 pounds and i am 5'3!!!!!!

sounds likea really cute outfitt also use something to make your eyes stick out
Sarah

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it is my 16 birthday and i dont know what to do so if anyone can help i relli need it thanks verry much. i rate high

Ok well one night you could go out with your family too a resturant for a family b-day party then the next day you can throw a party at you house with all your friends and just make it like a big party in your back yard with music and friends with drinks and food
hope i helped
Sarah

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